Sunday, July 31, 2011

A Gentle and Quiet Spirit


"Is is weak to have a gentle and quiet spirit?  No.  It is a woman of strength who keeps a gentle spirit in the face of harshness and rebuke.  It is a strong woman who keeps an even temper when she feels overwhelmed and angry."  Nancy Campbell

These words are convicting.  I never would have matched gentle and quiet with strength and strong.  But whenever we can master our emotions and feelings, we become stronger. 

Ken and I walk everyday.  I use to dread it, because I knew he would tell me something I did or said wrong.  I tend to blurt things out without thinking.  I hated being corrected in any way. 

Learning to accept criticism and correction is something we need to learn to do.  It does not come naturally, but we learn a lot if we can accept it willingly.

Keeping an even temper when you feel overwhelmed and angry doesn't come naturally either.  It takes determination and effort but remember, we do our part and God will do his part. 

So being quiet and gentle doesn't mean you rarely talk and don't get excited and animated.  It just means you learn to be content in all situations...Accepting whatever comes your way graciously.

Let not yours be the outward adorning with braiding of hair, decoration of gold, and wearing of fine clothing,  but let it be the hidden person of the heart with the imperishable jewel of a gentle and quiet spirit, which in God's sight is very precious.  (I Peter 2:3,4)

P.S.  My kitten has nothing whatsoever to do with this post.   I just thought you would like to see how adorable he was yesterday sitting in a basket he will outgrow soon!  Actually, he does have a gentle and quiet spirit  :).

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I have read this post many times and I am sorry I have never commented.I have a personality that gets very excited and is brimming with enthusiasm so this is so encouraging!
I came across your Blog for the first time just tonight and a very fortuitus moment it was...of course it was no surprise to the Holy Spirit I should find it when I did. You see, I am encompassed round about with angry, bitter people attacking me personally...as only your grown children can sometimes do without just cause. I additionally have the care of a little austic family member and the stress sometimes is so terrible when they are raging and out of control. But God has been faithful to help me withstand all of it. So I am so glad I read what you wrote! I can feel the calm wash over me as I am attacked sometimes. Its strange to feel calm when someone is yelling in your face! Well enough about troubles! I feel like God just sent me a telegram to say He sees and knows and it all will count for something good at the right time. How great is that! Thanks again for the blog you posted...I needed that! Ha,ha
I love being around a gentle quiet spirt I see wisdom and a person that has control in their life. I see chris in control, something I desire for.
I have health issues I'm (borderline diabetic hypoglycemic) everything I eat effects my personality. At times I am afraid to go around people for fear I might look foolish or say or do something wrong. And believe me I do. I have numerous time's.embarrassed myself,I speak Loud and blurt out stupid and no nonces things. Then go home and cry asking god can't I get better, But when I stay away from sugar I have a different personality I'm quiet, but I can't walk or do much of anything I'm week I'm not worth much can't clean my house or even cook I need sugar for energy (it's hopeless.) The truth is I can't win for losing.
I think about this all the time, But how can I ever have a gentile and quiet spirt. With the health issues I have, At times I find it hopeless. Can I be helped ? Please do not judge me, Unless you know me, you have no clue what I am going through.
If anyone can help me please try. I am willing to lessen to your advise
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