Monday, November 19, 2012

Playing With Grandbaby


If I were to have children all over again, I would do it much differently today.  I get to babysit my grandbaby often and I have learned something.  I've learned to stop and smell the roses.
 
When she comes over, I spend a lot of time with her.  We look at magazines and I point out various objects and tell her the names of them.  We go in the backyard and use old, dried out pumpkins like they were rattles to sing and dance with.   We pick apples from the tree and eat them.  We pick grass and weeds.  We sit in the sunshine.
 
I take her on walks around the neighborhood.  She smiles at all the neighbors and blows them kisses.  It is the most adorable thing.  Our walks are very slow because she likes to stop and smell the flowers and watch the little boys on their bikes and skateboards.  She loves petting the dogs that come by.
 
I like life a lot slower.  Since my six months of being housebound, I have had to learn to take life slower.  I have to be careful I don't hurt my neck.  I have to eat slowly so I don't hurt my esophagus.  I walk slower because my body has been through a lot.  But you know what, I like life being slower.
 
When I was raising children, I was too busy to sit down and play and read to them much.  I hardly ever remember doing that.  I was too busy cooking, cleaning, going to Bible studies, decorating, etc.  Oh, how I wish I would have just sat down and played with my children more.  However, I am so happy that I have the wisdom to do that with my grandbaby.
 
Learn from other's mistakes.  If you have small children, spend a lot of time with them.  They grow up much too quickly and leave you.  They are so precious.  They are eternal souls and need you.
 
Teach them to your children,
 talking about them when you sit at home
and when you walk along the road,
when you lie down and when you get up.

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Thanks for sharing your wisdom! I hope to remember it if I have kids one day. Btw, your granddaughter is adorable!
I needed to hear this today. Thank you for the reminder:)
So true! Grand children steal your hearts like nothing else can. They are such a blessing. Thanks for sharing.
I spent many hours with my children when they were little, I can remember sitting on the floor creating cities out of Lego with my eldest son and making up stories. One can always find the time if they want to, even women who are working. Its just that people aren't always willing to.

When I was in the kitchen cooking, my sons were there with me (a great place to catch up on the days activities) and as a result they are both excellent cooks due to their involvement with food.

And I can't wait to have grandchildren as I plan to spend as much time as I can with them.
I like to think I spend lots of time with my kids - but there is always room for improvement. Sometimes it's hard to remember that this time while I have little ones is only for a short time. Thanks for the reminder.

And your little granddaughter is growing up! What a cute girl.
I much prefer life in the slow lane, too, and am thankful that I'm able to.
I've never been much of a multi-tasker--I really have to pretty much
focus on one thing at a time or else I'm overwhelmed.
How wonderful that you're able to spend such quality time with
your granddaughter!
I came to understand precisely what you're speaking of years ago. Not through my own experience, but I saw this through my in-laws. Their patience and attentiveness with their grandkids (our kiddoes) was never hurried. They loved spending time just sitting with them doing small things, not that I didn't do those things or anything, but I knew I allowed other things to interfer with my precious time with my small children. Now my kids are grown. Although, we had some good times together & I miss them dearly, I wish I had spent even more time doing fun things with them. Oh well...maybe one day I'll have grandkids!
I loved spending time with my grandkids...and..now I'm fortunate to be able to spend time with my great-grandkids.....I love wathcing my daughter being a Nan. My mum is still alive and when we get together there are 3 generations of "Nans". We love it.
Your grand daughter is gorgeous...
Have a good day
Barb from Australia
Great perspective! I know my mom feels the same way when my daughter comes over. I guess that's what happened when you have more time to do stuff :).

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