Tuesday, November 20, 2012

This Is Biblical Womanhood?



A woman decided to live biblical womanhood for a year.  She cut her hair and wore a head covering.  She called her husband "Master" and slept in a tent outside when she was on her period.  She did all the housework and baked bread by hand.  She was submissive to her husband in everything.
She said the leaders in her church that she was raised in explained biblical womanhood this way ~  "They raised it for when explaining why women should be forbidden to teach in church, for not having careers. It required that you work from home, raise a family, and stay away from leadership roles."
She felt that her church taught that women were second class citizens.  I am very happy I was never raised in a church like that.  My churches always taught the value of women and how much God loved us.  They taught us the most important thing is to love God and to love others.
Whether or not we have long hair, wear a head covering, teach in church, or have a career are not the main issues.  In fact, none of those are considered a sin in the Bible.  The sleeping in the tent thing during menstrual cycles is an Old Testament law which we are no longer under.
Most of the Bible is to guide us in making wise choices in the way we live our lives.  Every institution has to have a leader and God made the husband the leader of the home.  Family life works best when carried out this way.
When a woman has children at home, the best place for her is at home taking care of her home and family.  Life runs more smoothly this way and her family needs her much more than society needs her.
Everything in the Bible isn't black and white but it gives us great guidelines to follow.  God gave us His Word and His Holy Spirit to convict and guide us.  He cares much more that we are loving and serving our husband, children, and others than whether we have long hair or not, work outside the home, or even teach at church.
 For this is the message that you heard from the beginning,
that we should love one another. 
My little children, let us not love in word,
neither in tongue; but in deed and in truth.
I John 3:11,18

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i have previously been on her website and explored it. it seemed to mock. personally i didn't like it......
As much as I respect women who choose to wear headcoverings for modesty, showing respect for their husband etc, it isn't actually "commanded" in scripture. I'd like to know where YHVH God commanded in scripture to call our husbands "master" It sounds like some of what she did was taken out of context. I didn't like the mocking of the Holy One of Israel's instructions in living a righteaous holy life unto Him. His ways, commandments, law is a light, a lamp, a guide, love, good, holy, and righteous. To mock "His Ways" is something I wouldn't encourage.
I read RHE's book out of curiousity (and because I had a feeling it would get lots of press and I wanted an educated opinion) and I was also baffled by her church experience. I definitely did not grow up in a church that devalued women's roles or treated them as second class citizens. I attend a non-denominational church now that does not allow women in leadership positions but it also highly values the roles they DO have.
Hi, I am currently studying Biblical Womanhood in my own devotions. So this is of interest to me. First, the world will never understand the ways of God. God created woman to be a helpmeet. Not to compete, be independant or a physically different version of men. To the world this does look demeaning. But like all things of God when we submit to His will it brings true peace and happiness, beyond anything our flesh can comprehend. I did have an interesting thought about women leaving the home during their monthly time. Women of that time did not have the "resources" to deal with this issue that we have today - there may have been a perfectly understandable reason for this tradition - one that perhaps the woman even embraced for her own comfort. Happy Thanksgiving!
I read the preview and reviews of this book, and yes, like another commenter said, it seems like it was written as a mockery. Many people take Biblical teachings to a lunatic extreme in order to justify their not obeying them at all (and, of course, most of these rules were O.T. ones, done away with for the most part in the New).

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