Friday, January 22, 2016

Do You Need More Clothes?


What is it in us to waste so much money on clothing? Ken and I were watching a movie from the 1920s and the mother said to her daughter, "Why do you want to waste money on clothes?" We, in America, think nothing of wasting money on clothing. In fact, many women have clothing in their closets right now with the price tag on them that have never been worn.

What is it in us to keep buying more and more clothes that we will rarely wear? Is it to fill an emptiness in our soul, to impress others, or to simply be greedy by having more and more stuff? All of these reasons are wrong and should be pondered in all of us since I would venture to say all of us have way more clothing than we need.

Christians are to be people of contentment since the Creator of the universe loves us and has saved us. We are told that godliness with contentment is great gain, yet few of us believe this. We listen to the lies of society that tell us that "just this one more thing and we will be content." Then we get it and nothing has changed. We will never find contentment until we are content with what we have and find contentment in Jesus alone.

Since we all have plenty of food and clothes, we should be the most contented people that ever existed. Are you content with what you have? Does not having something that you want cause you to be discontent? Do you have debt from wanting things you can't afford? These things should not be definitions of a believer's life. We must learn to find our contentment in knowing and loving Jesus.

How do we do this? We keep our eyes on things above, not on things of this earth. Our life is hid with Christ in God.  Seek those things which are above, where Christ sitteth on the right hand of God. Set your affection on things above, not on things on the earth. For ye are dead, and your life is hid with Christ in God. When Christ, who is our life, shall appear, then shall ye also appear with him in glory {Colossians 3:1-4}. I had all of my children memorize these verses and I would have to say that my children are fairly content adults. I don't hear them telling me about all the things they want often. Are they perfect in this? No, but probably few of us are. It is something we must work on and continue to seek our contentment in the Lord and not the stuff of the earth.

Behold the fowls of the air: for they sow not, neither do they reap, nor gather into barns; yet your heavenly Father feedeth them. Are ye not much better than they?...And why are you worried about clothing? Observe how the lilies of the field grow; they do not toil nor do they spin...Wherefore, if God so clothe the grass of the field, which to day is, and to morrow is cast into the oven, shall he not much more clothe you, O ye of little faith?
Matthew 6:26, 28, 30

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Great post Lori. Having come from a mother who is a hoarder, (not the kind that you see on those shows with trash, etc) but no where to sit and no room to put things away in any room
. I realize that being a hoarder might have a mental component, but from where I see it, it starts from never thinking that you have enough and not editing your things. It seems to me that it truly is spiritual. I am so thankful that I recognized this and purposed in my heart to not do live like this. I do want to set my heart on things above and live a minimalist lifestyle with clothes, etc.
1 reply · active 479 weeks ago
It's so easy to store our treasures upon this earth and to forget to trust in the Lord. This is why we need to continually renew our minds with God's Truth! Thank you, Diane.
This is a good post for me too. I am not much of a clothes person but I like to "feather my nest". There is a place for that, but it needs to stay in it.
1 reply · active 479 weeks ago
Yes, Michelle, this post could relate to many areas where people spend too much money on things they don't need. It convicts me as well!
I started purging clothes by eliminating colors I didn't want to wear. This cut down spending and thinking about clothes. I'm content with what little I have now.
"If you can't find anything to wear, put on a SMILE".
1 reply · active 479 weeks ago
Great idea, Christine! It's amazing how little we actually even wear of the clothes we have. The fewer clothes we have, the easier it is to figure out what to wear since our choices are limited!
At last where i live, if you were to turn up to church, a friends place, a relatives house etc, and they have seen you wear the same outfit again and again then they start making comments about don't you have any other clothes? Do you sleep in that too? Can't your husband afford to at least take you to a used clothing store? Or are you too poor? And they either give you money to 'go buy something decent' or they start handing you clothes they don't want that don't fit or are immodest or will make you look old or is the wrong colour. Or they start scolding your husband for not loving his wife enough to buy her more decent clothes etc. It's happened to me a lot. I basically have two pairs of every day shoes, and maybe only 3-4 everyday outfits. And I still get complaints. Sometimes from my husband (can't you wear something else? I don't like that outfit on you etc)and he is the one that picked and approved the clothing! And he only has 2-3 outfits he regularly wears other than his work uniform. So neither of us have a lot. It gets very frustrating and embarrassing. So I agree with this post to a point. But not having many clothes can be frustrating and embarrassing.
1 reply · active 479 weeks ago
Many times doing what the Lord has asked us to do will get a lot of negative comments from others but remember that the only one that we have to please is the Lord and I can guarantee you that the Lord would not ask any of those questions!
I guess I don't have this problem because I hate to shop.
1 reply · active 479 weeks ago
I don't like to shop either, Shannon, unless there is something I really need.
This is one area where I am so thankful for my husband's leadership. In the beginning of our marriage I used to get so frustrated with him for always needing a long time to make decisions. But now I see it has helped me be better at contentment - often during the time he would be deliberating I would see I could do without the thing I had asked for (be it home improvement, clothing, something for our children, anything really). And it has also helped me be more resourceful, for if I really thought I needed what he was still thinking about I would try to make it myself.

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