As many of you know, I have two new granddaughters. One was born in July and the other in August. They are beautiful and fun to watch. We laugh when their little tongues come continually out of their mouths. When they toot, we think it's funny. When they burp, we all laugh and are happy they got their air out so it won't cause a tummy ache. All of their noises are so sweet to all of us. However, when grown women are doing these things, they aren't funny or cute anymore. It is disgusting and they are not being discreet.
Sticking out your tongue for pictures and having tooting and burping contests are common among women today. I hear it directly from them. They think it's funny. The Bible tells us otherwise: When I was a
child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but
when I became a man, I put away childish things. (1 Corinthians 13:11) Even as our children grew older, they never stuck their tongues out or looked like the girl in the picture. We would never have allowed this. They didn't burp or toot on purpose in front of us either. (I actually never heard them burp since they had healthy gallbladders.) We taught them from a young age to have manners.
Godly women are called to be discreet and not do anything to draw attention to themselves. They are not children anymore and should not do childish things. It's amazing that I even have to teach younger women this today. When I was growing up, we never did such things. We would have been mortified! If we had to pass gas, we held it until we were alone. (If you have a lot of gas, you need to find out to heal your digestive system and I am sure less sugar and more real foods with probiotics will help.)
I don't ever remember having a problem with burping. I have heard that if you burp a lot, you are having problem with your gall bladder so check out ways to heal your gallbladder. (Ken had many horrible gall bladder attacks but was able to heal it completely.) I would have never stuck out my tongue for pictures, ever. When I see women do this, it looks disgusting. Tongues are meant to help us talk and eat to enjoy our food, not show off to other people, especially when they are coated with a thick white film which usually means they eat too much dairy and other unhealthy foods. (You may want to check out how to heal this too.)
I don't ever remember having a problem with burping. I have heard that if you burp a lot, you are having problem with your gall bladder so check out ways to heal your gallbladder. (Ken had many horrible gall bladder attacks but was able to heal it completely.) I would have never stuck out my tongue for pictures, ever. When I see women do this, it looks disgusting. Tongues are meant to help us talk and eat to enjoy our food, not show off to other people, especially when they are coated with a thick white film which usually means they eat too much dairy and other unhealthy foods. (You may want to check out how to heal this too.)
Be a godly feminine woman. Show discretion in all that you do and don't try to gain attention by doing something that is ugly. You are grown up now and have put childish ways behind you. No longer give into your feelings and emotions but be guided by the clear teachings of the Word of God. Don't follow what culture is doing but follow what the Lord wants you to do: "Let it be the hidden person of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price" (1 Peter 3:4).
Next time someone takes a picture of you, stand up tall and smile with the tongue in where it's supposed to be. You will look much more feminine and pretty this way.
Next time someone takes a picture of you, stand up tall and smile with the tongue in where it's supposed to be. You will look much more feminine and pretty this way.
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Jeanette · 442 weeks ago
I think it's more effective to discuss this bad behavior in real humans who are not stark raving mad. That's who the girls are really emulating. This is especially true for Miley Cyrus. You omitted that this is a sexual reference when girls do this, especially when done like Miley. That makes this selfie pose even more repulsive and inappropriate. It also makes it more puzzling when the mothers and grandmothers don't step in and put a stop to this.
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Mrs. Kelley Dibble · 443 weeks ago
Amen x18. And might I add the disgusting sound of hearing a mother/father/guardian ask loudly in another aisle of the department store, "Do you have to p**?! Do you need to go p**p?!" Parents need to example AND teach discretion to their little ones. When we were growing up, we were not allowed to say "b*tt."
When our girls were growing up, we didn't discuss bodily functions publickly. They were addressed privately. If in public, I would whisper in my girls' ears, "Do you need to go potty? Do you need to go BM?" And their privates were privately referred to as "a female part" and a breast was and is a breast, not some other worldly term.
Some of the things I cannot help but overhear some parents and children discuss is, to quote you, disgusting, indiscreet and unladylike/ungentlemanly. There is a sore need for a revival in manners, etiquette and discretion.
*hugs*
Kelley~
Emily · 443 weeks ago
http://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2013/04...
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Lori Alexander 122p · 443 weeks ago
Older women are to teach the younger women to be discreet which means to not do anything that draws undue attention to ourselves. Burping is considered crass in our culture, therefore, feminine, godly women should not do it in front of others.
ACM · 443 weeks ago
but i do teach my daughter about these things too because i dont want her to be acting ridiculous in public. when you are young you can be silly, like we all have silly funny moments, but then pull it together!
Shirley · 396 weeks ago