Wednesday, December 19, 2012

A Culture Of Death


Man has always been capable of horrendous evil ever since sin entered the world. However, I do believe behavior in America has gotten worse. In my mom's generation,  they rarely heard of anyone getting divorced. Couples stayed married until one of them died. They didn't have to lock their doors or fear their children were going to be abducted and murdered. The worst problems teachers faced in the classroom were chewing gum and talking too much.

Sure people were depressed back then but not like today.  Dr. Archibald Hart, a clinical psychologist for 45 years, said that 30 years ago the onset of depression was around 45 years old. Now, it is 14 years old! Something has gone terribly wrong in our society.

I believe it is a combination of things. Throwing out biblical principles is the most important one. With that comes divorce, abortion, and all kinds of evils. The breakdown of the family is destroying societies. Children need a father and mother. This is why God hates divorce. Divorce breeds anger in children.

The way children are being raised is another problem. Few parents are raising disciplined adults. They no longer say "no" to their children, teach them boundaries, or discipline them.  This has raised a generation of selfish adults. It is all about them. When people were depressed years ago, they would be unhappy and maybe end up killing themselves, not taking down 20 children with them. 

We also have a culture of death. Abortion is death to millions of babies. Homosexual marriage is death to procreation of children. Pornography is death to marriages and true intimacy in marriage. Television, movies, and video games trivialize death and destruction.

Our only hope is in Jesus. It always has been and it always will be. He transforms the human into a new creature and puts His Spirit within them enabling them to walk in love. Pray for this nation. Pray for your neighborhood and church. May all men come to see Christ living in you.

Create in me a clean heart, O God,
And renew a steadfast spirit within me.
Psalm 5110

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Kelley Highway · 640 weeks ago

Jesus is The Gift that keeps on giving life, not death, from generation to generation. A great piece. Amen!
I agree with the spirit of your article. Children definitely don't get boundaries or discipline anymore and they grow up to be adults who can't get it together.

As a child I loved the time period of the 40's and 50's when we'd study them in school or when I'd see them in movies. The ladies and gentlemen of the period had class. I can't speak for men because I am not one but I know being a lady in this culture is hard!
Somewhere along the way someone told us that all we are good for is sex appeal and little else.

But I am confused about one part of the article: "Homosexual marriage is death to procreation of children." Single or not, gay people wouldn't be able to have biological children with their partner so why would him/her getting married be a death to procreation?
2 replies · active 640 weeks ago
Interesting observation Liz,
The reality is that by not doing things God's ways 3-4% of the population who consider themselves gay are not making babies. So being gay is the death to procreation, a fundamental violation of God's command "to be fruitful and multiply."

With such a small % of gays one does not worry too much about their unwillingness to contributed to society with biological children, but imagine if 75% of the population were gay... would you then see how little procreation would be happening and the complete destruction of a society?

The fact is that gay men and women can procreate, but many choose not to. A gay man can and will have sex with a woman given the right circumstances, and many probably do. Their sexual preference is gay, but they still have the ability to have heterosexual sex.

By not doing things God's way some lose out on all the blessings that having a family can bring, unless they adopt. And God's ideal is not that kids be raised by two Dad's or two Mom's, going back to the main point of Lori's article. Such selfishness leads to a culture that is upside down with morality and wisdom, and it is no wonder we have so many confused and depressed kids out there.
Thanks for taking the time to clarify that. :-)
Whilst I agree with you, I wanted to make one comment about divorce. Whilst divorce numbers were low in the past, couples didn't stay together because they loved each other - it was too hard to get divorced and the scandal was often too much to bear. Some couples lived separate lives and slept in separate beds and "pretended" to be happily married - but it was all fake, this was quite common. During the Victorian era many men took mistresses/lovers and those with money (including Charles Dickens) kept their mistress in the other house and raises a second family. There is a famous painting that was held up at the time as representing the idea family man and happy household - until it was revealed that the painter himself had a mistress and his entire marriage was a fake.

Whilst divorce is not good these days - the past hide many sins such as adultery.
3 replies · active 640 weeks ago
Yes, I am sure there were many sins in the past but at least divorce was frowned upon and couples stayed together. Children do much better in unhappy marriages than in divorce. They get to live with both parents. They need a mom and a dad.
I disagree. My parent's had an incredibly unhappy marriage, which made growing up difficult. In my situation, divorce would have been a better option. Growing up watching a loveless marriage and constant fighting was not healthy. I agree that divorce is much too common in our society though. People need to take marriage more seriously and deeply consider who they want their life partner to be.
My parents had a loveless marriage when I was growing up and fought constantly. Was it hard on us? Yes, but we had a place to call home and a mom and dad. I am SO thankful they stuck it out and now they are much happier together. They are happy they stuck it out also because they have each other in their old age.
I agree..."Our only hope is Jesus." Thank you for this thoughtful post.
Amen. We should pray constantly. Last night in Church I realized that we should also pray that the community will get to trust us so that when we live and give God they will be able to receive that wonderful truth.
May God save everyone we get in contact with. God keeps us strong and courageous.
Thank you for wonderful inspiring posts Lori.

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