Wednesday, May 22, 2013

Making Time For Sex

She bragged about giving her husband sex once a week, after work on Thursdays, for five minutes.  That is only 20 minutes a month, ladies.  It takes longer to buy a candle for your living room.  She thought she was being a great wife to sacrifice those 20 minutes a month for her husband.

Another young women works a full-time job and has another business on the side that takes many hours a week.  Her health isn't great.  Her husband isn't very ambitious and they haven't been married for very long.  He wants sex everyday.  Are you kidding me?  I work so hard and don't feel that great!

A very good friend of mine gives her husband sex every day because she told me he enjoys it and it makes him very happy.  She loves pleasing her man.

Which husband do you think is happiest???

You must come to terms with the fact that most men like sex a lot more often than women do.  God made them that way.  He gave them a lot of testosterone to fight wars {defeating Hitler}, exploring new lands, building skyscrapers and bridges, and having the burden of providing for their families until the day they die.

If a burglar is in your home, who gets up to confront him?  Your husband, of course!  God made them to be the providers and protectors and having lots of testosterone makes them to want to fulfill that role.  {A feminine, godly wife helps him want to fulfill that role even more.}

My advice...once a week is way too seldom for most men.  Most men would love it every day or at least every other day.  {Yes, there will be times of sickness and child birth, etc. that will prevent that but most of the time, you can fulfill that need.}

If you work too many hours and are too tired, you need to slow down and live on less.  Your husband is your first priority.  You were created to be his help meet regardless of what kind of a husband he is.  The more you live to please him and keep him happy, the more he will do the same for you.  We absolutely reap what we sow.

Change your thinking.  Appreciate your man for the way God created Him.  Find pleasure in making him happy.  Know that this is your ministry in life and learn to enjoy the journey.

Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time,
that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer;
and come together again,
that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency. 
I Corinthians 7:5