Tuesday, June 19, 2012

A President With Guts


Did you know that all the old preachers {Luther, Spurgeon, etc.} preached against the use of birth control and that mothers should be keepers at home?  Some of our presidents did also.  Here are a few quotes from Teddy Roosevelt, a much loved president from 1901-1909.  He had six children and a strong marriage.

Our great great-grandparents viewed marriage as sacred and inviolable until death.  They viewed children as blessings from God.  They believed it was a man's duty before God to provide for and protect his family and a woman's duty before God to nurture her children within the home - come what may.  They were raised on the Bible and they knew the Bible teaches all these things.

No piled up wealth, no splendor of material growth, no brilliance of artistic development, will permanently avail any people unless its home life is healthy - unless the average man possesses honesty, courage, common sense and decency, unless he works hard and is willing at need to fight hard; and unless the average woman is a good wife, able and willing to perform the first and greatest duty of womanhood: able and willing to bear, and to bring up as they should be brought up, healthy children, sound in body, mind, and character, and numerous enough so that the rate shall increase and not decrease.

Where are men that are willing to stand up and say these things now?  Even in the church we don't hear this often.  In the political arena, all we here about is income redistribution, higher taxes, more entitlement programs, etc.   What about hard work, integrity, honesty, the blessings of children, and the importance of home life?   These are the things that build a great nation.

When the ruler is a man of discernment, understanding, and knowledge,
its stability will long continue.
Proverbs 28:2

Wifey Wednesday, A Wise Woman

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This post really ministered to me. Your blog as a whole truly ministers to me. I just posted today about women who regret being mothers and why. Women need more older women to pour life into them about how to be a good mother and truly love their children. It is greatly needed in our society today.
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I completely agree. I sure could have used one when I was younger to avoid so many mistakes I made.
I hear women say all the time they cannot afford to stay home. How can you afford not to? You don't NEED a second car - it's a want. You don't need cable, expensive clothes, etc. You save money by not having to buy business attire, daycare, eating out. When you stay home you can cook healthy from scratch food (which is also cheaper)for your family. You can devote yourself to your husband and children and God. God will bless a family who follows his commandments - ALL of them, not just the ones that are convenient.
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Missy, not all 2 parents working families work so they can buy the second car etc... We are a two income family (both in professional occupations) and only own one car, don't buy expensive clothes (I often buy from eBay), we don't eat out heaps and yes, I cook from scratch each and every night (we eat organic and healthy). Many of my friends do the same. I work because I like what I do and my husband encourages me to stretch myself. We have raised 2 children and they haven't been spoilt with things just because we work. Many working Christian women dedicate themselves to their families and they work very successful.

We are following Gods commandments and all alway along our marriage, God has made things work smoothly to the sorts of place we work at, to the hours I work. God has been very good to us.

This isn't a them and us - this is doing what is best for your family or my family and each family is different. And maybe they do need a second car for a particular reason, it isn't our place to judge or decide what other families should or shouldn't have.
I don't think Missy is judging anyone. She is just stating reality in the lives of many, not all, women. After all our society doesn't teach these things anymore. If you can make it all work as you do, Joluise, that is great but I know for many it is very difficult. We all have to answer to God for the choices we make but that doesn't mean we stop teaching God's Word for fear of judging others. We must always speak the truth in love.
That quote was POWERFUL. Gave me chills. This is something I have such a strong belief and testimony of. It is taught pretty strongly in my church. I am so blessed to have a husband who does whatever it takes to provide and take care of our family, so that I can be home to nurture our children and home. Thanks so much for your awesome blog Lori, it's so rare to hear such truth in today's world!
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You're welcome, Tiffany. Sounds like you married a wonderful husband and attend a wonderful church!
What a Great POST!!!! May God richly bless you as you speak truth boldly. May others take your example and bring it into their circles.
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Cynthia Swenson · 666 weeks ago

You are BRAVE Lori. Even the Catholics don't talk about this anymore! Children are some of our greatest blessings but they do require sacrifice. I believe part of the blessing is found in the sacrifice. I have MUCH joy to thank God for, it's incredible! Love & prayers, in Jesus, Cynthia
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Yes, God's ways are so good!
My husband and I don't use birth control. I figure if we really believe that children are blessings and not burdens, then we would not try to prevent having them. There may be instances where birth control is needed (dangerous for the mother's health to get pregnant, for example), but it shouldn't be used the way it often is these days.
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I agree with you, Lindsay. My children have been one of the greatest blessings in my life.
This post speaks to my heart. Why is it that when someone brings up the topic of women staying home there are so many ruffled feathers?
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It's sad....The Bible tells older women to teach younger women to be keepers at home yet I am told not to teach this, even by the church. I only answer to God, however, so I will keep teaching it. I know the best person to raise her babies is the mother.
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Tania Rees · 666 weeks ago

Hi Lori, i'm a SAHM of 4 (another 1due in Oct ), my eldest 2 are all grown up (from a previous marriage) and my 2 youngest are 8 and 2. I'm also a Registered Childminder, based from home. The point i would like to make is this, as a childminder, i care for young babies and small children so that the parents can work. I try my hardest to make their day enjoyable, i feed them good nutritious food and take care of all of their needs, except one!!...I am NOT their mother, and it breaks my heart to see them cry when mamma leaves my house for work, and to see the little baby burst into tears when her mamma arrives to pick her up, to go home..even though their days are filled with activity and companionship, there is NOTHING like a mothers love...and God knows that!!!
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We have a daycare down the street from us and I see parents picking up their children after dark and I feel so badly for those children. Way too many children are being raised by people other than their parents today.

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