Tuesday, September 25, 2012

Are Women The Weaker Vessel?


Apparently not, according to today's "new" woman.  I read this in my Real Simple magazine today ~

She was talking about the olden days when a gentleman would open a car door for a lady or walk on the outside of the sidewalk when escorting her...But nowadays women aren't considered the weaker or gentler sex {thank goodness for that}, and these acts are viewed differently.  They can seem old-fashioned or even offensive.

Our society has gotten so far removed from biblical principles, it continues to amaze me.  The Bible definitely states that women are the weaker sex ~

Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered
I Peter 3:7

This is why Dennis Prager believes universities are destroying our society.  People know there is a difference between men and women before entering the universities, but come out believing they are the same.

Where has common sense gone?  Look at the bodies of men and women.  They are very different.  Testosterone levels are very different.  A man's levels vary between 250 to 850, whereas a woman's level are between 25 to 85.  Women can bear children and nurse them.  Men can play football....MEN AND WOMEN ARE DIFFERENT!!!

I hate to be the one to tell you this, women, but we are the weaker sex.  God said it and science proves it.  I could care less what the university tells you, they are wrong.  Until women start acting like women, men won't act like men.

So enjoy the differences between the sexes.  They are awesome!  I don't want to be like a man.  I like to be treated like a lady.  I want to be protected.  I don't like what feminism has done to our country.  To me it is very sad.  Be thankful the next time a man opens a door for you.

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I completely agree with ths post! I also love being treated like a woman. I am always amazed when a man will rush in front of me to get through a door first especially when I have my little girl with me. We are absolutely made different ~ my hubby has upper body strength I could never have and he always tells me he just can't multi-task like I do..... ;-)
1 reply · active 591 weeks ago
quit being a double standard hypocritical people
You are right on with this. The older I get the more I know it. So thankful for having a man who also knows it and treats me accordingly.
Yes, men and women are different but what is acting like a woman? What exactly does it mean to act like a man? Are we as women striving to model the examples in Titus?
1 reply · active 639 weeks ago
Read the book ma'am, us men are to follow the examples of the prominent male characters in the bible. From Abraham to our Lord Jesus Christ. Unfortunately in today's society where a woman can destroy a man's life by false accusations of physical and sexual abuse to gouging his pay check of 51% for child support. The feminist movement has disrupted God's plan for the roles in marriage and society as a whole. Read 1Cor.11:8-9/11-12 Godly men do not lord their authority over women or use scripture to manipulate them, but to encourage, strengthen, and compliment the femininity of woman with the masculinity of man. Keep in mind that when God created Adam, he had both feminine and masculine attributes until God made Eve from Adam. So when a man and woman come together in marriage, they become one being. Sadly, the unbelievers do not know this and abandon God's word and strive to make one sex seem superior to the other and completely independent. At the ripe age of 27 i have grasped this through the revelation and study of God's word and the holy spirit, all glory and honor to Jesus Christ Amen.
My husband has gotten back into opening doors for me again. What is funny is now my 2 boys that are still living at home, at times will race their Dad to the door and open it for me... smile.
I agree, I am so glad men and women are different. We are already teaching our 5 year old son to open doors, let ladies go first, and treat girls and women respectfully. I hope those lessons stick! :) My husband is much stronger than I am in a lot of ways, however I have to say that I'm not so sure he could endure natural childbirth like I can. :) (He agrees, for the record!)
2 replies · active 652 weeks ago
I agree Tiffany. Although my husband promises a tooth ache is worse than child bearing. I guess we have to take each other's word as I have never had a toothache and he has never delivered (SMILES).
I have delivered 4 sons...3 natural/1 epidural, and for me toothache's are much worse. With raising young men few things make me smile bigger than when one of them gets ahead to open doors for me. Of course, they see dad does this not just for me but other women as well. Sometimes though when we are at some place busy they now pause not sure to help mom first even though I'm a few steps behind them, or another woman who is just ahead of them! :-))
Jacky, (or whatever you call yourself today),

Your comments that most gays adopt out of the foster care system may be true, although even individuals may also adopt. The fact is the vast majority of gay marriage adoptions are adopting their partner's kids, but like I have said, I am not opposing gays adopting, so long as that is deemed best for the child with the recognition that a heterosexual stable couple is a much better choice in most cases as they provide a mom and a dad to the child and normalcy. It is hard enough to be adopted, but to then also deal with a same sex situation is not an ideal for the psychological and emotional well being of the child. Better than no adoption... perhaps... or perhaps not, but again a brand new experiment to be determined after many years.

I know there are some terrific monogamous and faithful gay couples who are in long term relationships, but the facts of gay civil unions and marriage is that the vast majority are open, meaning the partner's are not monogamous, but fooling around regularly with others. Is that a good place for an adopted child to ultimately discover that dad and dad love each other and yet sleep with other partners regularly? Will that engender a morality that is long term helpful to society and the institution of marriage?

The fact is that in spite of the huge divorce rate in heterosexual marriage, 85%+ of married people seek to be monogamous and to keep the marriage unit in tact, and the same cannot be said of the gay couples who consider themselves married. Do your research and for every monogamous gay couple you will find 15-20 who live within an open relationship with lots of other sexual partners. Is this what we want marriage to become, and is this what we want to model to our children, naturally born or adopted?

And, if you want to enter a dialogue with us, you are welcome to do so by writing to me at Bootsy328@yahoo.com, but trolling is not appreciated or helpful. I am amazed at how much one person can write just to have it find the delete button because their thoughts are trollish and anonymous. Those who comment should be responsible enough to not use fake emails and the constant changing of ip addresses. What do Lori's trolls have to hide? They need to grow up and become part of the world of rational discussion, even on important issues with which the significantly disagree.
The roles of men and women have been confused because women want to be equal and men are lazy. Men know that equality means they don't have to be responsible for protection spiritual leadership and responsibility for tough decisions in the household like God has made them.

A pastor once tough me that anything with two heads is a monster and will eventually kill itself for the struggle of power.

With the authority of biblical headship comes huge responsibility. Men over the ages have abused the authority that God gave them and have put a distrust and bad examples for people to use against biblical headship. It is a blessing to see a wife who loves her husband and to see a husband love his wife.

I once taught my young niece who's mother and father have taught her she is equal that she was special. I recounted the story of the Titanic and the leaders on that Vessel held Woman as the weaker vessel in a special way. Yet there was a French vessel that when it sank the women and children were killed by the men as they fought to save there own lives.

I teach my sons to protect there mother and sisters. I love my wife and Yes scripture says she is weaker and the woman was first deceived and I agree with scripture that women should not be in church leadership, However my wife is an incredible blessing to me and my children. She is far superior to me in many areas; history, music, cooking, compassion and many others but together we are one and I am grateful for her.
1 reply · active 591 weeks ago
yes but I've seen women live as cowards revelation 21:8

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