Thursday, December 26, 2013

Phil Robertson ~ Head Of His Household


Phil Robertson met his grandson's girlfriend.  His grandson was going to take her on a date.  Phil told them to go fishing and then he went with them.  While they were fishing, he told them to not have sex.  It leads to gonorrhea, syphilis, etc.  He told them they should not touch each other anywhere but the neck and above until they signed on the dotted line.  He said a peck on the cheek is just fine. He told his grandson to always treat her with respect.  Then encouraged him by saying, "Find yourself a good girl who will cook you fried squirrel and walks around with a Bible in her hands."   

At dinner that night when the whole family was gathered together, they bowed their heads in prayer and he prayed that his grandson and girlfriend would stay pure during their dating years.

Phil Robertson is the head of his household.  He speaks Truth to his children and grandchildren whenever he has a chance.  He warns them of the dangers ahead and tries to steer them on the narrow path.  He is not afraid of embarrassing them if it means protecting them from future harm.

We saw many parents afraid of their children.  They were afraid to tell them to not see naughty movies.  They were afraid to speak to them much about sex and its consequences outside of marriage.  They thought if they were too strict with them, they would rebel.  And they would never dream about praying for their sexual purity in front of the whole family.

I admire Phil Robertson for not being afraid of doing any of those things.  Children and teenagers need guidance, especially being given by their fathers, the heads of the household.  They need continual reminders of what is right and what is wrong in this filthy society.  They need strong, protective boundaries. If you are not continually teaching and reminding them and even praying about it, they are going to be easily sucked into the cesspool around them.

And thou shalt teach them diligently unto thy children, and shalt talk of them when thou sit in thine house, and when thou walk by the way, and when thou lie down, and when thou rise up.
Deuteronomy 6:7


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Verlene R. Sims · 587 weeks ago

It's great to know that Godly Men exsist. Grateful for people with a standard.
I haven't watched very much of this show, but have surely come to admire Phil Robertson. He believes in God, leads a Christian life and speaks his mind. Good for him. I like him even more after hearing how much Martin Sheen and Jesse Jackson don't like what he had to say about same-sex marriage. Thanks for this post!
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Danielle B · 587 weeks ago

I didn't mind his views on same sex marriage. But his racist views on blacks were very ignorant. I can't stand ignorant, racist people. Especially those who stand for Christ.
Danielle, I agree with you. I lived in north Louisiana until 2001, and there are definitely racial problems in that area. It is unbelievable (literally) that Mr. Robertson has never witnessed racial issues playing themselves out even up to the present day.
I think you missed Robertson's point. He did not say that there were no racial issues in the area where he grew up, but simply that he did not see or experience them because he was living in harmony with all others around him. He was out in the fields working along side blacks and they were his friends. I can totally relate.

I grew up as "little white boy" and did not know that race was even an issue until I was about 17 and riots broke out in Miami. White, black or purple made no difference to me because all my friends were black. Some defended me some took advantage of me, but never was skin color an issue as I was the minority.

So to deny Robertson his view of life in his area is unfair. It was a personal view of life lived with his fiends.. not a political view or global view of racial relations. It is not ignorant to express one's own personal experience, and it was probably a shared experience with many who worked shoulder to shoulder together in those days.

I think we live in such a slanted politically correct world that has many unwilling to allow even the 10% rule, let alone 20% rule, that although racism was ugly in the south, not all black people were unhappy or mistreated by their community white people. Many blacks were godly people who were happy and joyful because of who lived inside of them, Jesus! And the majority of white people where friends and friendly with their fellow human beings. What is wrong with his saying this?
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Happy Girl · 587 weeks ago

'I'm with the blacks, because we're white trash.' - so if he had some class he wouldn't ' be with the blacks' ?

'Pre-entitlement, pre-welfare, you say: Were they happy? They were godly; they were happy; no one was singing the blues." ' -so they were happier being treated as livestock or property?

'The blacks worked for the farmers.' - because they couldn't own the farms.

His comments do nothing but show his lack of intelligence and his bigotry. His own comments prove he witnessed the unjust treatment of African Americans around him when he said the blacks worked for the farmers instead of being the farmers.
See what you want to see Happy Girl, but there are no racist comments from Robertson. He spoke the truth of his experience from his eyes. That does not make him a racist.

You read into his comments that racism was all around him.... so be it. That does not make him a racist or incorrect with his observations.

It is unfair to read into what someone says or put words or thoughts in his mouth that do not exist just because you want him to be more politically correct.

If you did not add your own commentary ... there is zero wrong with what he has said. The fact is that it was a difficult time of transition from slavery to freedom and and no they were no longer owned like livestock, nor did they own farms. These are facts... not racism.

By your words, is it racism because Mexican and South American workers work on CA farms because they can't own them and want to build a better life? We need to stop jumping down the throats of all who speak their minds, even if we do not agree with them. Freedom of speech and thought is vital to the lifeblood of our country and you are welcome to to thinking ... but make it actual thinking, not just being politically correct.
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Happy Girl · 587 weeks ago

Ken they may be facts but they are still racist, he put himself in an invidious position with his comments, and whether or not he consciously is racist and bigoted he see sexual orientation, race and class rather then another person.
As for the Mexicans and South Americans there is nothing stopping them from working their way to owning farms or to have better lives, there is no law saying they can't get educated, or own property, many have done just that. Anyone who thinks race is the reason some people are labourers and some not is racist. These days education is the dividing fact, education which is available to everyone if they want to achieve better things.
Tolerance must go both ways. A man from the sticks was asked his views and he gave them in an innocent way, but you and others have to keep blasting at him. He is not racist... but you see what you want to see... just don't be part of the pc police. Allow free speech to flourish, as he said zero that was hateful or with the intent to put blacks down.
Thank you Lori. I read your post to my dear husband and he said that you are well versed in your bible 8-). We have seen a few shows but found that Uncle Si was pushing the limits too much for our taste.
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I have only watched it a few times so I have no opinion of Uncle Si. It is not personally by type of show but I like how open they are about their faith.
Lori,

I think it's commendable any time a father-figure takes a younger man aside to teach, guide and instruct him in the ways of biblical purity of heart and body. However, I feel that the first person for this job is the father himself. His daddy did or did not teach him those things. When the son was ready, he left his father and mother to cleave to his own wife and weave a family with her. It's his turn as a father to his children, as the head of his own household, to teach his son biblical manhood and godliness.

Phil Robertson is a patriarch but he is not the head of his sons' households. His sons left their father and mother and wove a household with their own wives. Phil is the head of Kay, but I disagree that he is the head of the household in which his grandchildren live.

Phil taught his sons, "As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord." Now it's his sons' turn to establish the same for their own houses. I believe wholeheartedly in what Grandpa Phil did, but I believe his sons are the head of their own households.

Happy New Year,
Kelley~
1 reply · active 587 weeks ago
I was thinking about grandchildren biblically. There are no grandchildren in the Bible. Grandchildren are considered children. Abraham was told he would be the father of many nations. Maybe I gave the wrong title to this post but I believe grandparents should be very verbal in teaching their grandchildren truth just as much as their parents. Whenever we have the chance, we will be teaching our grandchildren about God and His ways as we did our own children. Truth is very powerful coming from the patriarch of the family.

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