The Jonas Brothers grew up in a Christian home. Their father is an ordained Baptist minister. The boys became famous when they were young by singing together. Fame and Christianity never seem to be a good mix, especially for children when they are younger.
Joe Jonas
admits to tossing his purity ring and losing his virginity when he was 20 years
old. He admits to
having some hook ups since then and now is with a steady girlfriend. It
is extremely difficult for single men to keep pure in this society today. It's heartbreaking to see these young adults who have grown up knowing
Truth turn away from it and be conformed to the world and it's ways.
Brad Furges
wrote a wonderful essay on
this very topic. He writes ~
As singles we face an onslaught of pressure and challenges daily. We
are in a real battle to stay pure in a very impure world. The Internet,
TV, the entertainment and music industries, pornographers, the news media,
our educational system…the list goes on…are keeping countless singles saturated
in an intoxicating, lust-filled atmosphere.
The world, the flesh and the devil
work relentlessly together to ensnare and rob us of the purity of heart
the Lord desires for us. But we have HOPE in the midst of such a decadent
culture, beyond even what Joseph had, because of what Jesus Christ did on
the Cross and because of the power of His grace. His grace is truly
amazing.
Yes, it is
difficult but with God all things are possible. It is easy to find the
world and it's ways attractive but in the end, it all leads to dissatisfaction
and ultimately death. Dennis Prager has a male/female every Wednesday. Last week, he once again talked about the male sex drive and how women
should try to be understanding towards their husband in this area.
He said men
will always love to look at beautiful women and the more flesh a woman shows,
the harder it is for men not to lust. However, most men are happiest if
they can shop at only one store instead of many. Yes, he admitted it is
in a man's nature to want to try out many different shops but they are much
happier if they can shop in one.
Even Dennis
Prager, who is not a Christian but a Jew, understands the value of monogamy and
its impact on men. Yes, the world is enticing but deadly. Teach
your sons Truth while they are young. Don't pursue fame for them. Instead, encourage them to pursue Jesus, purity, and holiness. In
the end, they will be much happier. God's ways are always better.
Oh, and
teach your daughters to cover up and dress modestly. Encourage them to
want to protect their precious Christian brothers instead of entice them.
Then be extremely grateful when your husband only wants to shop in your
store!
For the love
of money is a root of all sorts of evil, and some by longing for it have
wandered away from the faith, and pierced themselves with many a pang.
But flee from these things, you man of God; and pursue righteousness,
godliness, faith, love, perseverance and gentleness. Fight the good fight
of faith; take hold of the eternal life to which you were called, and you made
the good confession in the presence of many witnesses.
I Timothy
6:10-12
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Jacqueline · 588 weeks ago
Love what you are sharing, Lori!
Lori Alexander 122p · 588 weeks ago
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wellsbunch2014j 32p · 585 weeks ago
But I do think more should be said to the boys that they need to show some self control in the face of any temptation! I think as long as we as parents sit and talk honestly with our children and take them through the scripture as well as setting a good example they will make good choices in every area of their lives! Pray, pray, pray!
Have you ever noticed that the young girls who wear low cut dresses and tops are the same girls who's Mama's wear them as well? Or is it just me that sees that?
I have noticed that a lot lately! Strange!
Jilly oxoxo
Lori · 588 weeks ago
Kari · 588 weeks ago
My brother is "in Hollywood" having had some success and has now moved to a different aspect of the field for his career. He is very clear that it's not a good place for Christians. It will strip you of your beliefs, or at least try very hard. When those dollar signs start growing, the pressure to be quiet about your faith and conform also grows. Sadly, most make the choice for the money instead of for their Creator.
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Candi May · 588 weeks ago
The goal of their education should be to be a provider for his future family. His work ethics, how he treats children, how he connects with different members of his family, both immediate and extended, are all preparation grounds for marriage. Who knows if this young man, Joe Jonas, would have been encouraged to be a husband rather than a rock star, if he would have sought a wife rather than fornication.
It saddens me to see parents hold back their children from marriage. "Wait until you've graduated from college." "Wait until you get your career going." "Wait until you save up a down payment for a house." "Wait, wait, wait!" These young people are being awakened to GOD-ORDAINED desires. The true and ultimate fulfillment of these desires is to be marriage, but if they are kept back from that, it is only NATURAL (not righteous, but natural) that they satisfy them through fornication and living together.
I would much rather my son marry at 20 and get a clumsy start than to shack up with one girl after another.
Carlotta · 587 weeks ago
They are told not to marry because it will lower their money making potential that Mom and Dad live off of. So they prostitute them to millions and condeme them to burn with lust and loneliness or sin.
Cindy Janczyk · 586 weeks ago