Saturday, May 31, 2014

Laine's Letters And Paying Off Debt, Part 8


This is the last post from Laine's Letters and getting out of debt. This post begins with buying something used. Our washer and dryer broke several years ago. Our dryer was over 40 years old! My parents passed it down to us when we were married and it worked great for many years. Our washing machine was around 20 years old. I heard they don't make them like they use to anymore so we just found old, used ones that were still in good condition and bought those for so much less. The series begins HERE.

41 ~ Don't compare yourself. I've found this can be costly. So I just stay in my budget with my man. It's cheaper and so much more peaceful.

42~ Find one used if possible. I remember when we needed a washer, for ours had finally bit the dust. I asked the LORD if anyone had a washer they didn't need just hanging around. One of my friends called that evening and told me about this washer she had on her porch that she was getting rid of. I'm still using that washer. ~Smile~ (In the picture are our used washer and dryer with my homemade laundry powder!)

43~ Wait patiently when there is a need to see how God will provide. We needed firewood for the winter. I pray about it in the summer. I asked the LORD to bring it in. He did! Art picked some of it up, and some of it was delivered right to our home, totally free of charge. We used that wood all this past winter. When I would use it, I'd think of the faithfulness of God. 

44~ We couldn't afford private, Christian school for our kids, so I homeschooled all of them. I've been doing it for the past 14 years, having graduated two of our children. This was a big savings here, and I'd do it all over again in a heartbeat. No, not for the savings either. But it sure did help us to pay off our house. I always had the kids helping us pay off the house. Quincy kept bees and a big garden. Brady kept the chickens and goats. Now the roles are switched, and Abbie keeps the goats, while Gabe takes care of the chickens and fruit trees. Gabe wants to make a garden with his dad this summer. I love to keep my kids motivated in helping their dad financially by all their work around here. It makes us such a good team. 

45~ Every little bit does count. Say for example, you learn as I did that you can use half as much clothing detergent and just set your washer cycle to agitate a little longer. Not more water, just more agitation to get the clothes cleaner. Or you can soak your clothes overnight in the washer, then start the load the next morning with half as much detergent than you usually use. Now say you usually spend $12 a month on clothing detergent. This is about $144 a year, or $2448 for 17 years. So, if you save half of that by cutting down your detergent to half your normal use, while still getting your clothes clean, you've saved $72 a year or $1224 in 17 years. These are the kinds of savings I would practice to pay off our home in 17 years. I was always multiplying things by 12 for the entire year's use. All those little savings do add up. 

46~ Pray, pray, pray. I pray beforehand, during, and after. I pray before I go shopping, while I'm in the store, at the cash register, and on my way home. I pray when every check comes in that the LORD will give me wisdom to use it for His will. I just need the LORD's help so much in giving, saving, and spending. It's a training going on in my home that affects us, my children, and grandchildren. The LORD is able to do above all that we ask or think. Paying off our last debt, our home, in our 40's is one of those incredible answers to prayer. 

47~ We don't change cars very often. We keep our cars for a long time. We just keep up the maintenance on them. Presently I drive a 1986 Honda. I just love it. 

48~ We do not withdraw money without the other's knowledge. So I don't have to worry about an ATM withdrawal that my husband made without my knowing, thereby putting our account into jeopardy if I was to write a check thinking that money was in there. We work together as a team. We also do not make any singular purchases over $50 without the other's prior knowledge and consent. This has served us well. So I've never had a check bounce. 

49~ Our children get one big birthday party during their growing up. Otherwise, it is a family birthday party. This saves so much money and stress. Plus that one party is a lot of fun, since we only do it once in their childhood. Quincy had his at 18, Brady had his at 16, and I think Abbie is shooting for hers at 16 as well. Gabe is still up in the air about his. We really enjoy our family parties and make a big deal about the cake. They will spend days choosing their cake, especially when they were young. Although Abbie is studying my cookbooks presently for her upcoming birthday. Our children love to buy presents for each other. I take them to the thrift shops and other inexpensive stores to shop for their siblings. My boys have their own incomes, so they really enjoy shopping for their siblings. I think we've always enjoyed our family parties. As I said before, I think the good things in life can be so simple and pleasurable. 

50~ I just thank the LORD for all I have. I am so blessed. I have a husband who works hard to take care of us. I have four children who work with me to bless their dad. We have running water, even hot running water. So many servants: a washer, a dryer, a vacuum, a toaster, a blender, a microwave, a telephone, a computer, a stove, an oven, a refrigerator with a freezer in it, a car, and an indoor toilet. I am so thankful! 

If then you have not been faithful in the unrighteous wealth, 
who will entrust to you the true riches?

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Genny Ower · 565 weeks ago

Amen to counting our blessings. We could spend hours doing that!
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Love being his wife. · 565 weeks ago

I agree Genny! I love this So many servants: a washer, a dryer, a vacuum, a toaster, a blender, a microwave, a telephone, a computer, a stove, an oven, a refrigerator with a freezer in it, a car, and an indoor toilet.
I love how she calls them servants!
Great tips here. We bought a Maytag washer and dryer 5 years ago, and the set was already 8 years old. We have not had one single problem! I think those older machines are the best.

The only thing I don't understand is the "one birthday party" idea. Birthday parties can be kept very simple and cheap. All you REALLY need is cake right? Games don't have to cost a cent. My mom was raised in poverty and never had a birthday party, so she let us have a friend party every year...such great memories!
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My sister almost always just has family birthday parties. They love being together so much! I love being with my family for birthdays also. You can still make them very special with just family.
Very true! All 3 of my kids (including the 4th one on the way) all have birthdays within 4 weeks of each other! We are going to have to figure out some sort of system where we can still have a fun celebration every year, but not break the bank. :)
That is ironic, Tiffany! Ken's birthday is in May along with 3 of my children and now my grandson!
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Love being his wife. · 565 weeks ago

All my families Birthdays are with in days of each other except mine. We do family parties as well; I love family gatherings they are a wonderful way to catch up, see everyone and find out what is happening in everyone's life. A time for good food and good fellowship.

We will be all getting together for my Mama's 84th next weekend; I know it will be a wonderful time; however we will those who don't live here in the West.
I would add the servant of air conditioning. I am so thankful to have that even in Michigan, it does get hot sometimes and with allergies, it is so helpful and such an answer to prayer that we can plan it in the budget and cut other places during the summer. We eat at home almost all the time to save money. We buy at Salvation Army on the holidays when they have their 50% sales and then I can mend the clothes if I have to take them in. (I can buy my husband and I high quality named brand clothes and if they might be too big or too long, I can bring them home and take them in and hem them. I can usually get them for around $4.oo or less. I have learned so much from these posts. Thanks Lori.
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We are blessed to be living in the times we are living in with air-conditioning, cars, jets, etc. It is so easy to take it all for granted. This is why the Lord reminds us continually to be thankful. Life is so much better living with a thankful heart!
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Love being his wife. · 565 weeks ago

We are happier people, when we live a grateful life!

I am so grateful that I can sew and knit for my family. This year I am already putting in a veggie garden and planning to also put in some fruit trees. I am so excited we start getting our chickens this week as well. (fresh eggs)
I am hoping we can be as self sufficient as possible; all in the name of good health and being prudent with our money.

I didn't realize what a great word prudent was; so I thought I would share! It is a good word to remember.

1. discreet or cautious in managing one's activities; circumspect
2. practical and careful in providing for the future
3. exercising good judgment or common sense
Thank you so much for taking the time to type out these letters! I found your blog while searching for Laine's Letters. One question, did I somehow miss tip # 41? Thanks again
1 reply · active 551 weeks ago
Yes! Thank you for pointing that out! I will look through my folder, see which one I missed, and add it.
A few minutes ago I lucked upon your website after I typed in a search for Lane's Letters. I miss her! What happened to her? Her son Brade was going to Afghanistan. As I read through your site I am hoping to find some answers.

I have three of lane's letters, two of which are on the Proverb's 31 wife. I'll be glad to share them with you if you don't have them. (I should go through all of your blogs before I asked , but fear it will take me too long.)

I, too, have been searching on and off for Lane's Letters. I miss her e-mails and I'm so sorry I didn't keep more of them. I keep hoping I'll find more buried in the bowels of my crazy filing system.
Do you happen to know Laine personally? I cannot get her blog to open up. Has she taken it down? I loved to read and reread her writing!! She seems like such a dear!!! Please let me know if she is anywhere online.

Thank you!!
Just found your blog today and was blessed by reading through Laine's Letters. What a treasure. I have been living without a lot of things for quite some time as I care for my mother who has Alzheimer's and I have had to quit work to do so. The Lord has been so faithful through it all. I lived without a stove for the past two years, a bed of my own for quite a few years, then the refrigerator quit and I had to use the one in the basement from the 60's that gets a big block of ice in the back and then drips all over everything. I'm quite excited to say that He has just blessed me with all of those things within the last couple of weeks for FREE and delivered and installed. There is no way that any human planning could've orchestrated how perfectly it has all come together. What can I say, I started praying about it all, gave up some animosity I had been harboring in my heart for some time, decided to just be truly content with what I had in several different areas and choose over and over to just rest and trust in Him and be thankful -and well, He has indeed done exceedingly abundantly above and beyond what all I could've hoped for or dreamed up. It really is amazing when one decides to pray fervently, walk in faith, be grateful, and strive to live by even some of His principles to see what kind of blessings He pours out. And I loved the tip where she mentioned Hebrews 12:11. It brought tears to my eyes. Indeed it is so not pleasant at the time but wow what you learn through it all is so priceless and eternal and I always walk away saying that I am so grateful for what all He taught me through it.

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