Sunday, November 30, 2014

Flee ALL Sexual Immorality


In contending with certain sins there remains no mode of victory but by flight. The ancient naturalists wrote much of dragons, whose eyes fascinated their victims and rendered them easy victims; so the mere gaze of wickedness puts us in solemn danger. He who would be safe from acts of evil must haste away from occasions of it. A covenant must be made with our eyes not even to look upon the cause of temptation, for such sins only need a spark to begin with and a blaze follows in an instant. 

Who would wantonly enter the leper's prison and sleep amid its horrible corruption? He only who desires to be leprous himself would thus court contagion. If the mariner knew how to avoid a storm, he would do anything rather than run the risk of weathering it. 

Cautious pilots have no desire to try how near the quicksand they can sail, or how often they may touch a rock without springing a leak; their aim is to keep as nearly as possible in the midst of a safe channel. This day I may be exposed to great peril, let me have the serpent's wisdom to keep out of it and avoid it. 

The wings of a dove may be of more use to me to-day than the jaws of a lion. It is true I may be an apparent loser by declining evil company, but I had better leave my cloak than lose my character; it is not needful that I should be rich, but it is imperative upon me to be pure. No ties of friendship, no chains of beauty, no flashings of talent, no shafts of ridicule must turn me from the wise resolve to flee from sin. 

The devil I am to resist and he will flee from me, but the lusts of the flesh, I must flee, or they will surely overcome me. O God of holiness preserve thy Josephs, that Madam Bubble bewitch them not with her vile suggestions. May the horrible trinity of the world, the flesh, and the devil, never overcome us!

He left his garment in her hand, and fled, and got him out.
Genesis 39:12

Taken from Charles Spurgeon's Morning and Evening

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Love love love Spurgeon!, thanks for this Lori

Blessings
Helen UK
1 reply · active 539 weeks ago
Ken and I read his book every morning for devotions, along with the Bible. Sometimes, they are way over my head but many times, they are challenging and beautiful. He had a way of expressing Truths in a very unique and convicting way.
I love Spurgeon too! I really do feel bad for men. They are to flee sexual immorality but it is everywhere today. T.V ads billboards - you name it, it's there. One teenager complained that even in church he's confronted with immodest dressing. (Leggings are not pants). More than ever, we need to flee. Guys also need to realize that they are not alone in this battle. Joseph fled but David did not - so much remorse after and consequences. Thank you for this post.
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It's funny you should mention leggings, Maria. Ken told me MANY years ago that I couldn't wear them so I haven't since. It is VERY difficult for men with it plastered everywhere. It is a battle but thankfully, the Lord is in their battle with them for those who love Him. Also, we, who call ourselves women who love the Lord, must not make their battle more difficult for them.
In our Sunday school class today this was the topic. Our class is for young marrieds (of which I am not but since I have a small child I qualify) and the lesson was on how to help our children flee evil. I am shocked at the moral decline just since I was a teen ager. I fear for what it will be like when my son is one. The Duggars have a code word for when an immodeslty dressed woman is near. Someone says it and all the men and boys look down. I think it is a good idea. Grocery store check outs are another place where they are hit with filth. Mothers of boys have their work cut out for them.
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We taught our boys to bounce their eyes {look away} when someone is immodest. It's something we definitely need to teach our children from a very young age; the destruction that comes from sexual immorality. Read them a Proverbs every day. The first few chapters are all about warning young men to flee from the seductive woman. Hide God's Word DEEPLY into their hearts.
Maria and Desiree, you are both right. Its an awful situation for men right now. Unless a man lives as a hermit or is cloistered inside a monastery, there is simply no way for him to escape sexual temptation. It is forced down upon us nearly everywhere. Whether it is on TV, the internet, billboards or on magazine covers in the grocery store, sexually laden images are everywhere. And that doesn't even include what many women themselves wear. Even in professions with a strict code of dress, temptresses still find a way to reveal or suggest the female body.

Sadly, that teenager Maria talked with is correct about what women will wear to churches these days. Some folks have described them as "Sunday Morning Nightclubs", and with the attire some women wear, it totally fits.
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Church is a tough situation...Too many Christian women dress immodestly. This is why older women need to train the younger women to be modest {yet, so few will listen to us, sadly}. We shop at Costco, Trader Joes, and a health food store so we don't have to see the disgusting magazine covers. The Internet is the most difficult, in my opinion. With a click of a mouse, a wide world of sexual immorality is opened to anyone who wants. I just pray more Christian men will take the admonition to FLEE as God commands that they do. This is why it's very good for godly men to be married to women who enjoy meeting their husband's sexual needs.
I suspect a lack of discipline in the home is why so few young women will listen to you. There really is no replacement for that.

And yes, the internet provides a quick and easy means of accessing sexually immoral material. Many Christian men I think try to flee sexual immorality, at least at first. Unfortunately, many succumb to temptation- often times because they receive no support in their efforts to avoid it.
Speaking of leggings from a prior comment, does Ken think leggings under dresses and tunics are immodest? I had been planning to do away with pants and buy dresses with leggings since it's winter. My husband doesn't think it is immodest but I didn't realize other men might think so. So can you clarify for me what Ken is referring to? I don't want to be a stumbling block.
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Listen to your husband, Sheree, not mine! Ken meant wearing leggings as pants with a short top. Under dresses would be absolutely fine, in his opinion.
Interesting discussion.

I'm wondering how this relates to an earlier discussion here about whether pornography was considered to be a form of adultery. Should we see it as a grievous sin, or no big deal?

A bigger question that I've been struggling with over the years is the view of balance vs. seeing being more strict in this area as automatically better.

To put this into context: I do not live in California. In my area, if you do not wear sleeves (ideally to the elbows at least), if you do not cover the collarbone, and if you don't cover the knees, you will not be seen as fully modest. This applies even to going grocery shopping in the summer. The stringent approach is often justified on the basis of needing to take a strong stand, esp. when standards in society may be going down. On the other hand, I worry about creating "hot-house flowers". Does being overly stringent create people who are distracted and more likely to stumble if they step outside of their protected environment? Is our responsibility as parents to raise children who will be so protected that they will never have the opportunity to sin, or to raise children who are equipped to fight temptation and the urge to sin regardless of their circumstances?
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Does being overly stringent create people who are distracted and more likely to stumble if they step outside of their protected environment?

Yes, if they aren't given the moral training to recognize and resist temptation. Proper training is key. Discipline is essential to this. Isolating yourself and your children from the world's "filth" is important, in large part because it helps you focus on that training without distraction. If you've raised your children right, they will be ready to face anything.

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