Wednesday, November 12, 2014

Modesty and Respect On a Pan Am 747


Look at this picture. It is from the late 1960s in the Economy Class of a Pan Am 747. What I first noticed about it was the large comfy seats and leg room. A few months ago, I flew from Chicago to San Diego. I haven't flown for several years and I couldn't believe how close the seats were together and how uncomfortable!

I flew in the late 1960s. I remember full course meals being served from Los Angeles to Chicago. The stewardess' would give us coloring books, crayons, and a pin in the shape of an airplane. It was very comfortable and fun!

Did you notice how they are dressed? All of the women are in modest dresses and the men are in suits. The women's hair was done nicely and they are all sitting very ladylike. It is in such sharp contrast today that it is almost unbelievable! Sure, I love traveling in comfortable clothing but I think in our quest to do what "feels good" we have lost some valuable ideals in society.

Women use to dress like women. Men use to dress like men. Both sexes liked to look nice and proper when they were out in public. I am sure that men respected women back then much more than they do today. Sure, they get a lot more eyefuls of breasts and bottoms hanging out now, but they must see women more as objects today than they did back then. Women's liberation movement did just the opposite of what it intended to do. It took away women's dignity instead of giving it to them.

One of the valuable ideals that we have lost today is respect. Men and women use to respect each other. They each knew their proper roles in society. Yes, there were perverts and creeps back then but I don't think there were nearly as many as there are today. Pornography was difficult to get and women weren't so free with their bodies. People kept their vows in marriage and children grew up with a mother and father with a huge dose of discipline.

No, I am not mourning for the good old days. I am mourning for lost values and morality. I am mourning for the destruction of the family and home. I am mourning for all the children who go to bed every night without a father and have no discipline in their lives. If you are a believer, come back to God's ways. Come back to modesty, decency, respect, faithfulness, 
and vow keeping. Come back to Jesus.

Enter through the narrow gate; 
for the gate is wide and the way is broad that leads to destruction, 
and there are many who enter through it. 
For the gate is small and the way is narrow that leads to life, 
and there are few who find it.
Matthew 7:13,14


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Did you also notice how uptight people seem to be in an airport? Security, long lines of waiting, etc. The seats are so cramped. I've seen people on the plane still in their pjs. My mom used to dress us up for special occasions - we felt like little ladies. Even dressing up on Sundays for church was special to us. Today we see so much too tight clothes and who cares what I look like? We've lost something, haven't we?
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Yes, we've lost modesty, decency and self-respect. I love wearing dresses to church. I know it isn't mandatory but I still like to be dressed up to worship the Lord and give Him honor in the small ways that I can!
is the extreme casual attire common in all California churches? I couldn't believe it when you mentioned that shorts were common!

To me, proper attire for services (assuming it's not something exceptional like a summer camp or street outreach setting) is a dress/skirt that is at least knee length, top with sleeves (our standard is elbow length, but some do a bit shorter in the summer), neckline around the collarbone, shoulders and back covered. As a matron, I'm a "hat lady", but not all women do this. Most men wear suits, or at least a nice dress shirt and pants.
I'm mourning, too. But combat that, I dress up and modestly, everyday! When I go somewhere I can be an example to those around me and those who see me. I mostly do it for God because I know that is what he would like. My husband appreciates it, also.
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I am with you Christine! I am so encouraged when I see a nice looking man or woman out and about.
So keep it up!
I fly once a month over the last year and a couple times a year before that, and yes, I too have observed disheartening sloppiness. BUT at least every flight I notice some men in business suits and ladies dressed quite nicely, even in the middle of the night. I would say just a handful out of hundreds though. It shows respect to others when we care about our appearance. Also, I do wish men would offer to help me put my luggage up overhead. They have far more upper body strength and the let the ladies around them struggle to get the luggage up. I think it's our fault though because we've had so many decades of "ill do it myself!". When I do ask for help, the gentlemen are always so quick to respond and help. Perhaps I wish they would take more initiative, but I just teach my own sons instead :)
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I can't lift anything over 5 pounds because of my neck so when I go to Costco, I frequently have to ask a man to help load up my trunk. They are ALWAYS willing to help me and don't seem to mind at all. I think men aren't sure how to treat women anymore. They are mocked for wanting to open doors and pull out chairs for women that I don't think they know anymore what is proper so just ask! Most men, I think, still like to treat a woman like a woman.
Even if clothing today is "modest" it usually comes in the form of sweatpants and sweatshirts. I don't wear sweatpants out of the house, my husband would be angry and it just gives off and I don't care kind of look. Not how i prefer to be viewed.
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I don't wear sweatpants anywhere but in my home either, Cori. I like to put a little makeup on and better clothes to go out and about.
My husband has been traveling lately and I have been shocked, shocked by the traveling appearance of some of the passengers and I'm too young to remember travelers dressed as nice as the photo above. But pajama pants?
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Pajama pants seem to be the style these days. They are comfortable but I thought they were called pajama pants because they are what we wear when we go to bed!
What a great picture, I am a history buff so things like this have always interested me. I was recently reading an article about how women and men used to dress much nicer for all different occasions, even going out shopping, than we do today. The article was full of wonderful pictures of nicely dressed individuals, what a nice way to show respect for what you are doing and for those around us.
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Yes, April, it is definitely a completely different culture then it was a long time ago. It seems the "not caring what others think about you" motto has gone a bit too far, in my opinion.
We are heading into summer and the start of “wearing as little as possible”. I am often amazed that young women think it’s perfectly ok to go out with skirts that do not cover their backsides and then struggle when it is windy and the skirt keeps blowing up in the air. Or with tops that don’t cover and then spend ages trying not to fall out of the neckline!

My mother (when I was growing up) never left the house (to visit friends or going shopping) unless she has changed her outfit to something neat and tidy (she was always modest) and had added a little powder to her nose and perhaps some beads. How times have changed. Even at the nursing home she likes to be neat and smart looking. Women like her are disappearing all too fast.

When I fly in Australia I usually see women reasonably well dressed (depending if it’s a flight full of business people or those going on holidays) and most are not too immodest — but the days of travelling like those in the 1960s are well passed.
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You're mom sounds amazing, Jo. Come to think about it, my mom is also always put together whenever she goes out, even at the age of 82. She's always dressed extremely modest but looks great! I remember when I was a teenager, the look was to be as sloppy as possible. I did it for awhile but then tired of it, thankfully!
My mum is turning 82, the same age as your mother. They grew up in an era where nice girls dressed modestly, dressed well, took care of their appearance (without being vain) and were well versed in the etiquette/social norms of the times. They knew what was expected of them. I can’t remember my mother or her three sisters ever looking messy or untidy, even when at home, they were ladies through and through without being ostentatious and certainly never showy. What a lot we have lost in a few short years. ;((
They were also vow keepers! My mom and dad weren't "happy" together but they stayed together in spite of it. Now, they are so HAPPY they stayed together. Morality and integrity were taught and expected back then, unlike today.
I love seeing old pictures like that. The first thing you notice is that people cared about what they looked like. Now, it is sometimes hard to tell man from woman- especially from the back.
When I see people out now I wonder if they have any self-respect. To me, you should take care of what you look like if you care about yourself.
We have fallen so far as a society.
Linda
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We are temples of the living God and God commands we take care of this temporary temple we've been given as representatives of Him. Our society has fallen far, Linda, but it doesn't mean we have to!
You started talking about comfy seats, full meals, and incredible service. I thought you were going to talk about how we pay top dollar for cheap standards.
Take it from this high school teacher, the world and families have changed immensely...but God still sits on the throne and is there to get us through one day at a time. Thanks for sharing with the Thursday Blog hop!
The last time I flew was in 2005 with my husband. We were going on a little vacation just the two of us. While boarding, a woman walked by in a mans undershirt. The very thin, tank top kind with no bra on and you could see EVERYTHING underneath. I covered my husbands eyes because I noticed her first. I was really shocked by that. People tell me I'm a prude.

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