Monday, May 18, 2015

A Hard-Working Home is a Productive Home


Many are growing up to feel entitled today; entitled to free things without working for them. Yes, there is a place to help those who can't help themselves but there are WAY too many who are getting things for free and are able to work. Many out of work, don't even look for work. God calls us to work, period. How about you? Is your home always a mess, do your children sit around all day playing video games and watching television or is your home a hard-working productive home? 

Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men. 
Colossians 3:23

The soul of the sluggard craves and gets nothing, while the soul of the diligent is richly supplied. Proverbs 13:4

 If anyone is not willing to work, let him not eat. For we hear that some among you walk in idleness, not busy at work, but busybodies. Now such persons we command and encourage in the Lord Jesus Christ to do their work quietly and to earn their own living. 2 Thessalonians 3:10-12

You NEED to be busy at home. Your time shouldn't be spent idly doing nothing productive. Of course, if all your work is done or you are exhausted and need a break, take a break but if your home is in disarray and your children are not getting their work done, get to work! Train your children to be hard workers, not expecting hand-outs when they grow up.

As soon as they are toddling, have them help you do some easy things. This is when they are most willing to help. Use this time wisely and they will grow up enjoying work. Sing while you work and never make it seem like drudgery. Thank and praise the Lord for work. Appreciate your husband often for working hard and providing a living for your family. If you struggle with this area, look up all the Bible verses about work, type them out and begin memorizing them. Memorize the verses about discipline and self-control also since we are transformed by renewing our minds with God's Truth as His Spirit works mightily within us.

And whatever you do, do it ALL to God's glory! Don't do a sloppy job making your bed. Teach your children to make their beds neatly, also! Make them as neat as you can. When you clean the kitchen, do it with all your might and make it shine. While you cook, make the most yummy, nutritious meals that you know how so your family will love healthy food. We are here for the purpose of glorifying God and He wants us to do our best, just as we want our children to do their best. 

One woman just commented this on one of my posts about a cluttered home, "My mother had to work full-time and be a wife and mother of four. Our house wasn't the cleanest, nor the dirtiest... It's too much for a woman to work and raise children. Looking back, Mom was under way too much stress and noise. We had clutter issues. Clutter is crazy making, and I truly believe, the clutter got to her and that's why she would yell. Us brats are all on our own, and Mom - now widowed - has a quiet, clutter-free space of her own."

Hopefully, you won't have to wait until you're old and widowed to have a clean and tidy home. This is why mothers NEED to be home, if at all possible. Their work should be in the home; keeping it clean and tidy, fixing healthy meals, training the children to help and making a sanctuary for their husband so they can have a productive home!

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Growing up in a large family, meant we were just expected to work. I still remember that every Saturday, all of the shoes would be lined up on the picnic table and polished. We would babysit for people who had church functions. My mother expected us to tidy their homes while we were babysitting. My brother shovelled the sidewalks of the widow across the street for years for free.My parents had their last child in their forties so I learned very quickly to hang up snow white diapers outside and fold them afterwards. We didn't have a television - my parents thought there was enough comedy in our home. The funny thing is, we all love working and none of us are a bit poorer because of the work we did for free.
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Maria, What a wonderful legacy you have. Thank you for posting your story. I came from a unloving yelling home and just wished my mom wanted to stay home but she didn't.

I tried to bring up my 4 boys with the same attitudes that your mom had. All of the boys served our neighbors like your brother and we all loved being together at home.

You are blessed beyond measure.
Your boys must be wonderful men, Diane!
This is a lovely legacy you had, Maria! Hard work is GOOD for us. We were created to work and teach our children to work. I always told my daughters to marry a godly man who worked hard!
Yes! We are meant to work and this ethic is taught in the home. Another reason for working and being productive in our homes is that it can help lift feelings of sadness. I read an article about a widower who was having trouble getting through the day after he lost his wife. One day he walked all around his house with a pencil and piece of paper, writing down all of the repairs and projects that needed to be done. He tackled those items one at a time, and after a few weeks he began to feel so much better. I remember this story any time I am starting to feel sorry for myself for some reason. Get up and do the next thing, as Elizabeth Eliot says!
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I have heard things like this before, Tam. Work is good for us spiritually, emotionally and physically!
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carolin martens · 514 weeks ago

In our home we all work. Being a single mother with 3 girls and working out of home 50 hours a week plus. I cannot keep up myself. I stress to them to keep up on their homework, after that it is the chores. One may be doing the laundry, cleaning the bathroom. Sweeping the floors. etc. I cook from scratch, so there is always dishes to be done. People have asked me if my girls fight a lot. Being close in age 15, 14 and 13 in Oct. I say no, they have learned to work together. If the work is done they are free to jump on the trampoline, go on the computer.etc. I do not get to sit down much, so it is not like they are doing all the work and they see this. They see what it taked to have an efficient home and having it run smoothly. If we get the work done, and money allows I will treat them to an icecream cone, or go for the day to an outing. Very rare, but they love the surprise and we love being a family together that can have fun without a T.V, or a lot of electronic gadgets.

I have gotton my daughter reading your blog and it helps us both so much--she has read the one about being Modest, loved it and it has helped her in choosing her clothes. Thanks for a wonderful message.
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You're welcome, Carolin. It sounds like you are doing a wonderful job in raising your daughters!
What a blessing to sit down and read this post this evening Lori! I just spent my day grocery shopping, doing several loads of laundry, scrubbing my bathrooms, dusting, mopping and vacuuming, bathing children and making dinner! I'm worn out and was feeling quite picked and sorry for myself, ha. I love what you said about teaching our kids to work. I need to be better at enlisting their help!
Agreed. I'm 23 and am trying to be better at it but I am just not great at staying organized and my dad had always gotten on my case for it. It made me want to try even less. I CAN be good at organizing my room, if I have the time and energy to do it. Encouraging parents definitely help create consistently clean adults that's for sure. I want to be able to do all kinds of chores without help when I'm married but a lot I just wasn't taught and it's hard to learn on your own.
Agreed. I never even realized that this was an issue in many families until I started school and heard about children being paid money for doing chores! In my family it was just the norm to take part, it was a natural part of getting to enjoy the benefits of a home. Saturdays you helped mom clean, every day you kept places tidy, did the dishes, laundry, helped with the cooking, mowed the lawn once you were old enough etc. My dad even taught me to change tires (even though my husband now thinks it is his job and does not want me to have to do it - oh how I love that man).

Now I have baby of my own and another one on the way and love love love being a stay-at-home mother. I love taking care of my husband's needs, our home and our precious child. What I struggle with is the outside work I do (from home, but still). It feels too much and I am exhausted. But I also feel guilt at not wanting to work, I feel like I should "earn my keep" too, due to old conditioning. So thank you ever so much for your posts on homemaking and how to be even more frugal. I hope that one day soon I will be able to stop working or at least decrease the amount of work I need to take on.

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