Friday, May 29, 2015

Preventing Depression in Children


Young people seem to be experiencing depression more now than ever before. I found an article explaining eight reasons why this is the case. Most of these reasons are due to our prosperous, industrialized and fast moving society. We think technology and our comfortable lifestyles are good but they have come at a huge price to our health and the health of our children.

The first reason listed is a lack of play. Do you see children playing in your streets and parks anymore? When I was growing up, we were playing outside most of the time, when the weather allowed. We didn't have a lot of toys so we used our imaginations to play. It is SO imperative that your children are outside playing as much as possible using their large muscles to run, jump, climb, etc. besides the benefits of being in the sunshine and fresh air.

C-Sections are also another factor. Way too many c-sections are given today. Yes, there are times when they must be given but if at all possible, don't have a c-section. Natural births are, by far, the healthiest for baby and mother. Recovering from a natural birth is much quicker for the mother and the least amount of drugs you can put into your body, the better since ALL drugs are toxic to the human body.

Sugar. The more we find out about sugar, the more we find that most diseases are from eating sugar. Sugar robs your body of important nutrients, allows cancer to proliferate and beats down your immune system. Do all you can to prevent your children from eating sugar. There are so many alternative healthy foods. I properly prepare all types of nuts and sunflower seeds for snacks. Popcorn popped in coconut oil and fruit are all great snacks for your children. Train your children to snack on nutritious food, instead of junk food which results in junk health.

Antibiotics is another reason for so much depression in children. My boys never had antibiotics growing up. My daughters received a little bit for ear infections until I learned that ear infections clear up just as quickly with antibiotics as they do without, yet those ear infections cured without antibiotics don't come back. I found this to be true. Dr. Marshall believes all infections can be cured without drugs, except a tooth infection which needs to be fixed. I have cured bladder infections, sinus infections, breast infections, and ear infections all without drugs. Drugs should only be used in emergency situations.

Television is robbing our children of mental health also. It prevents them from playing, using their imaginations,  and relating with others. It is damaging to their developing brains and eyes. Some education experts believe that a child should not watch television until they are five or six years old.  Then it should only be for an hour a day. It is addicting. Little children will be happily playing until they get in front of a television. Then they don't move at all!

How many times have I written about the devastation of divorce on children? Many times. God hates divorce and commands we be covenant keepers for many reasons and one of those reasons is for the sake of the children. I have seen the devastation divorce is upon even grown children. The value of a husband and wife staying united as one for all of their days can never be overestimated. Stay married, even if it isn't easy, because in the long run, it will be better for many.

Toxins are another cause of depression. I have written often about the need for eating organic food, cleaning with non-toxic cleaners, and having your windows open as much as possible. We weren't created to live in a toxic environment, yet we all live in one. Do what you can to rid your family's life of toxins and then leave the rest in the Lord's hands.

Stress is the final cause of depression. Children are so stressed out today, especially if they are in the public schools with all of the competition and bullying. I never studied for the SAT. I didn't even have much homework in high school. We were allowed to be children and have a lot of play time. Most of today's children don't have this privilege. Do what you can to give your children a stress-free lifestyle.

Finally, the very most important thing this article left out is to preach the Gospel to your children early and often so they know clearly who they are in Christ and their precious value to the kingdom of God.

May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, 
so that by the power of the Holy Spirit you may abound in hope.
Romans 15:13 

***Remember, I'm NOT a doctor. I'm just a homemaker who loves to research 

natural cures and have found many that have worked for my family and me. Information I have given is for educational and informational purposes only and to motivate you to make your own health care and dietary decisions based upon your own research and in partnership with your health care provider. Any statements or claims about the possible health benefits conferred by any foods or supplements have not been evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration and are not intended to diagnose, treat, cure or prevent any disease. Nothing you read here should be relied upon to determine dietary changes, a medical diagnosis or course of treatment.

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I was a child who struggled with depression and yes I had 2 parents who worked outside the home and were both too tired to be parents. They were present, but not there. As I became a parent myself, I then realized why I struggled... I was not a priority so I had to parent myself and become my own advocate. This is so serious what is happening to our children in todays society.
1 reply · active 513 weeks ago
I didn't even think to mention the cost to children of mother's leaving the homes. It's tragic. Although I do write about it often!
Most all of this I agree with. And I agree that too much stress is a bad thing. If I had one thing to add to the conversation it would be that I also think "stree-free" is also bad thing. There is a healthy amount of stress that can teach valuable lessons.

Also, plenty of sleep for children is important. Make sure they aren't going to bed with electronics like phones and game systems.
1 reply · active 513 weeks ago
The world will always give all of us some amount of stress simply because of the sin that is continually present. However, we can do what is in our power to make sure our children don't have added stress in their lives. Playing outside, physical work, eating healthy and plenty of sleep, as you mentioned, all help to minimize stress in their lives.
I think a lack of vitamin D can be a factor as well. If children aren't outside playing enough, they will lack in vitamin D which is linked to depression. I struggled with depression all my life and once I increased my vitamin D most of the symptoms went!
As a mother of a young adult with depression (and attempted suicide) and with depression running through generations of my family, whilst environmental factors do play a part - genes are also a major factor and need to be considered when diagnosing a person. My son played out doors, got plenty of sunshine, didn’t eat processed foods, wasn’t a c-section, hardly had any antibiotics, TV was limited and still suffered badly.

Interestedly - for young people, unemployment, lack of opportunities, money difficulties, drugs and alcohol also are factors in depression and anxiety. Whilst a quarter of all deaths of people aged 15-24 is a result of suicide, the biggest rate of suicide occurs with men between 35-45 and much of that has to do with finances, lack of employment, work place stresses and overwork, mental illness and marriage break downs + the usual drugs and alcohol (that often go hand in hand with mental illness).

Mental illness is a very complex issue and often no one factor is the cause. As the author points out, these are her theories based on “a bit of research”. Just looking at suicide rates in Australia from 1900, things are improving - rates have decline and we now have better diagnosing which will pick up more people (raising number of cases) - in the past it was hidden as mental illness was not talked about and seen as something to lock away.

Whilst this list is important - it is far more than these issues.
2 replies · active 512 weeks ago
Hi Jo,
Of course this list isn't a 'cure all'. But putting some of these things into practise may help alleviate the symptoms. Mental health is a big concern and if it is a factor, such as in your case, it should be treated with appropriate medical care.I'm in Australia too and the council shire where I live has the highest suicide rate in the state. And I moved to that state from my home state where mental health is a BIG issue in the entire state. For some,symptoms of depression can be eased by improving their overall health. That is the crowd that Lori is referring to.
I have to agree with Anon. I grew up in a strongly Christian home, all-natural remedies, homeschooled, there was no television in the house. However, I grew up severely disciplined. Punishments were severe, discipline strictly enforced, I remember pretty much every punishment I received, and most of them were unjust. It colored everything. Now we children avoid our parents as much as possible; I am the youngest and stayed in the area because now our parents are elderly and need somebody. I'm the one who stayed because my siblings moved out of state as soon as they had the opportunity. All of us have problems one way or the other, either in our marriage relationships or in other ways.

As a teen I had suicide plans; one time I finally carried it out, which of course failed. But even though I was really sick, I never dared tell my parents what I had tried to do (they thought I had the stomach flu) because if I had, I would have been severely punished. I knew they did not care, they only cared about the image we presented to others. Listening to me or having me treated for depression (or altering their parenting for children who obviously needed a different approach) would have been unthinkable to them (depression was always interpreted as the devil, adapting their parenting tactics would have been giving in, and so forth). We all knew that, and our parents to this day have nothing but complaints about all of us, even though we all got married and had children in that order, profess the Faith, and are raising (some of us have already raised) our children to do the same (we hope). Being the one who lives nearest, I get the most and it's not endearing. They have nothing good to say about any of their grandchildren, either, because they regard us kids as such disappointments.

It is SO important to value your children as human beings in their own right, instead of viewing them as your property or as an extension of yourself to make you look good. The Josh Duggar story is an example of this -- his parents didn't throw him out or kick him out of the family, they got him the help he needed so he could seek the grace of repentance. I would venture to offer that a lot of the vitriol spilled right now is from a lot of people who see their children as property to make them look good.
Re: teeth, and gums. I keep mine totally free from any pain, inflammation, and what nots with coconut oil. It's called Oil Pulling. Have a quick research, you will love what you find. And you'll probably NEVER have to go back to the dentist again if things work out. :o)
1 reply · active 512 weeks ago
I'll have to try that! Sounds interesting. Do you just rub it on your gums? I have had three wisdom teeth pulled and one root canal; not a lot of luck in the dental department.
I agree with most of what you have written. I think that the demise of the healthy family unit is at the root of most of the problems in our society today. thanks for sharing your thoughts!
I think that while depression is a very real issue, there is one cure and that is a heart and mind totally given over to Jesus. The scripture confirms this: Isaiah 26:3 "You will keep him in perfect peace, Whose mind is stayed on You, Because he trusts in You." And Isaiah 61: “The Spirit of the Lord God is upon Me, Because the Lord has anointed Me To preach good tidings to the poor; He has sent Me to heal the brokenhearted, To proclaim liberty to the captives, And the opening of the prison to those who are bound; To proclaim the acceptable year of the Lord, And the day of vengeance of our God; To comfort all who mourn, To console those who mourn in Zion, To give them beauty for ashes, The oil of joy for mourning, The garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness; That they may be called trees of righteousness, The planting of the Lord, that He may be glorified." And 2 Tim 1:7 "For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind." However, the Truth cannot set one free unless we believe in the truth and choose to put our minds on Christ and His promises in the Word. I have a teen who has Aspergers and who battles with depression when they get overwhelmed. So I pray that one day these truths will become their own too.
1 reply · active 512 weeks ago
This is very true, but don't underestimate the absolutely vital importance of good family relationships and lack thereof that contribute greatly to depression. It's a serious problem in that a lot of good Christian people believe that all depression is caused by Satan and can be cured simply by prayer, fasting and a better relationship with Christ. Some parents use this as a club to admonish a severely depressed child, so they can avoid being compassionate and loving towards that child when s/he needs it the most. I am sure, however, that the majority of parents would not act this way, and that this scenario is in the minority -- but it can happen.
Medical research is showing a link between antibiotics which kill healthy gut bateria and depression.
http://medicalxpress.com/news/2011-05-anxiety-gut...

The research appears in the online edition of the journal Gastroenterology.
For each person, the gut is home to about 1,000 trillium bacteria with which we live in harmony. These bacteria perform a number of functions vital to health: They harvest energy from the diet, protect against infections and provide nutrition to cells in the gut. Any disruption can result in life-threatening conditions, such as antibiotic-induced colitis from infection with the "superbug" Clostridium difficile.

Working with healthy adult mice, the researchers showed that disrupting the normal bacterial content of the gut with antibiotics produced changes in behaviour; the mice became less cautious or anxious. This change was accompanied by an increase in brain derived neurotrophic factor (BDNF), which has been linked, to depression and anxiety.
When oral antibiotics were discontinued, bacteria in the gut returned to normal. "This was accompanied by restoration of normal behaviour and brain chemistry," Collins said.
To confirm that bacteria can influence behaviour, the researchers colonized germ-free mice with bacteria taken from mice with a different behavioural pattern. They found that when germ-free mice with a genetic background associated with passive behaviour were colonized with bacteria from mice with higher exploratory behaviour, they became more active and daring. Similarly, normally active mice became more passive after receiving bacteria from mice whose genetic background is associated with passive behaviour.

and: http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC34942...

Antimicrobial compounds and psychotropic medications often share overlapping mechanisms of actions and pharmacological effects. The immune system appears to be an important site of interaction as several antimicrobials display neurological and, at times, direct psychotropic effects, while psychotropics have shown significant immunomodulatory properties. The isoniazid class of antibiotics for example has been shown to possess monoamine oxidase activity, while selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors have shown significant effects on leukocyte populations. As the importance of the immune system's role in CNS homeostasis and disease continues to move to the forefront of neuropsychiatric research, these shared pharmacological effects may provide an important insight, elucidating the complexities in neuroimmune pathophysiology and guiding the development of potential treatments.

Do your own research... The use of antibiotics may be necessary, and when it is, be sure to replenish the healthy flora with an excellent probiotic.
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Kelley Dibble · 488 weeks ago

November 18, 2015

Dear Lori,

I tried to locate a way to e-mail you but came up empty. I wanted to inform you of a fabulous series I recently listened to on my Insight for Living app, Chuck Swindoll's site. "Family Matters" was the series, especially November 9, 10 and 11 titled "Getting Past the Guilt." Dr. Swindoll is teaching on a cruise and invites his wife (now of more than 60 years) Cynthia to share a deeply personal testimony of how she overcame the sickness of depression with the Word of God and forgiveness. It impacted my life as not only a child of parents who divorced after 25 years (and two days) of marriage, the daughter of a violent dad and a mother who left me with a babysitter at three weeks of age, etc., but as a woman who today mentors young women and young couples along with my husband. I listened to Mrs. Swindoll's testimony three times, it so captured my heart. But don't just listen first to November 9-11; listen to the entire series on "Family Matters, Lori." You and Ken both would enjoy it immensely.

Hugs to you for a blessed Thanksgiving,
Kelley
P.S. I no longer blog at Kelley Highway or Letters Unfolded.
1 reply · active 488 weeks ago
Thank you, Kelley. I will listen!

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