“Males have a tendency to wander a little bit, and what you want to do is make the home so wonderful that he doesn’t want to wander,” Pat Robertson said.
Wow! Mr. Robertson is getting pounded for saying these words. He was responding to a woman whose husband had cheated and she just can't forgive him. Mr. Robertson told her to forgive him, dwell on all his positive qualities, and make a wonderful home.
I agree with him. Many will say that men are not made to be monogamous. They just weren't built that way. So I guess women weren't made to not allow their emotions to control them. We are just made that way!
God commands men to be monogamous. Therefore, they can be faithful to one wife. It makes it a whole lot easier for the man, however, if the wife is a godly help meet to him. The man has to take responsibility for the affair and ask for forgiveness, but then the wife needs to do everything she can to keep her husband happy.
Women do set the tone in the home and most homes have ugly tones. There is strife and tension. If you are always mad at your husband, do you expect him to stay just because he is a christian? Yes, he should but he may not. You begin to obey God, become the wife He calls you to become, and watch how beautiful your marriage can become.
Yes, God made men with a lot of testosterone which makes them highly attracted to the female body. Keep him happy and fulfilled at home. You were created to be his help meet. Spend your life learning how to be the best help meet to this man God gave you. Your husband and children will thank you! NOTHING beats a happy home.
Every wise woman buildeth her house:
but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands.