Many men today, even Christian men, are attending the School Of Porn. This school teaches men that a real body isn't good enough. It teaches that one body isn't good enough. It teaches them that their wife's {or future wife's} body isn't good enough.
Real women can't compete with these images. These images cause men to view women as a commodity. Pornography has been found to act like a drug that deadens a man's desire for real women.
Single men, the greatest thing you can do for a great romantic relationship down the road with your wife is to quickly check out of this school. This school sets you up for extraordinary disappointment. Begin renewing your mind with God's Truth. Be in His Word daily. Give other guys your passwords to all your internet access and have them hold you accountable. Walk in integrity and holiness.
Ken and I have personally seen the destruction that pornography can have on young couples. Young men aren't interested in sex with their wives. They find sex boring. It is devastating on a marriage. Teach your sons to flee all forms of sexual immorality when they are young and continually teach them God's Word so they will be able to put on the full armor of God daily to fight this beast.
Society teaches men that it is not their nature to be monogamous for life. God tells them they can be. Who do you believe? Do everything you can to prevent your sons from checking into the School Of Porn. You will save them and many others much heartache.
Run from anything that stimulates youthful lusts.
Instead, pursue righteous living,
faithfulness, love, and peace.
Enjoy the companionship of those
who call on the Lord with pure hearts.
II Timothy 2:22
***A lot of the content of this post was from a sermon I listened to by Andy Stanley.