Wednesday, March 30, 2011

Make Him Happy!!!


It's the little things that make a great marriage and the father of your children happy.  My bible study leader said she was listening to this speaker and he said he knew his marriage had taken a dramatic turn for good when he opened the refrigerator and saw all his favorite foods in it...Wow!  So simple but so meaningful to him. 

So beginning today, figure out how to make your husband feel special and not just for one day but on a consistent basis. Ask him what pleases him. 

When I decided I wanted to please Ken, I asked him how I could do that ~ 

He wanted me to iron his shirts...simple, really. 

He likes it when I pick up his dirty dishes next to his chair or hug him when he walks by. 

He loves it when I smile at him when he walks in the room. 

 He likes to hold my hand when we walk. 

He likes to know where I am going when I go someplace. 

He likes it when I clean his study. 

He likes it when I really listen to him and don't interrupt. 

He loves it when I respect his opinion and not argue with him.

He likes it when I walk with him on the beach!

It's all these little things that is making our marriage so much better and it is good, very, very good.  Try to make every day special for your husband!  Ask him what makes him happy since you can't read his mind. Your children will benefit greatly and learn from your example to treat others better than themselves. They will also be modeled serving others and learning to please others, especially their spouse when they get married.

He that is married cares for the things that are of the world, how he may please his wife. She that is married cares for the things of the world, how she may please her husband. 
I Corinthians 7:33,34

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Thank you for drawing attention to the verses that say women should be modest and discreet. My husband is a man of integrity, but struggles with a couple things. I always used those "couple things" to not look at my behavior that was in opposition to the word of God. I didn't approach him as the head of the home concerning my opinions. And sometimes I would make commands to him like you would a dog! It wasn't my intention at the time but I SEE it now. I needed a tactic for respecting him so I would be successful and it was repentance ( changing my thinking) I started to not think thoughts against him and how upset I was about where he is flawed. Also, I am extremely opinionated and independent so I started to be quiet. Not that my opinion didn't matter because he really loves to speak with me about life, But I needed to practice being quiet because I talk too much. I cannot believe how much my marriage is changing. We have been praying for God to bless us and help us financially but I wonder if our disunity in the home was stopping some of those blessings!? We want to start a home church and do more in ministry but we both know that our home needs to be harmonious and at peace first so we can be a good example to others. ❤️ And now I will make it a point to Pay attention to the little things that make him happy. I'm a very good homemaker and usually know how to do those things but when I was disrespecting him he told me he didn't care if I never cooked another thing or did anything in the house as long as I respected him!

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