Monday, June 18, 2012

Keeping Children Productive


If you don't want the precious baby to grow up to be into materialism, drugs, sex, violence, or crime - do something!  Rip the TV out by the roots.  Throw it "over the hill."  Move to a farm and make them milk six cows before breakfast.  If you don't have a new baby soon or a gramma to tend, adopt a special-needs child or two. Give your child something real to think about.

Plant a big garden to give him blisters. Teach him how to cut firewood, then use it. Don't wait until it's too late to mend spoiled brats. Catch them quick, while they are young and tender, and sock it to them! Get beehives, rear chickens, make pies to sell to the neighbors, hunt frogs and eat the legs, or do some serious fishing.

Take them to a mission field to live. Don't just stand back and wring your hands, do something to break the pattern and the peer pressure of our culture.
{Written by Mary Rice Somerville}

This sounds like some good practical advice to me. Children have way too much free time on their hands today and a strong sense of entitlement.  It is good to keep them active with productive projects. Long time ago, when most people lived on farms, the children had to work hard and be productive for the family to survive. Everyone had to pitch in.

Today it is much harder to keep your children busy and productive. Don't let them just sit around playing with the computer or watching television all day. This is not good for them mentally, spiritually, or physically.  Be creative and find ways to teach them to be hard-working, productive members of society.

The soul of the sluggard craves and gets nothing,
while the soul of the diligent is richly supplied.
Proverbs 13:4


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Great post! So true!
Yep! Everyone and all over the worls talk about how kids this days have a "strong sense of entitlement"... you always say things perfectly!! My daughter makes her little daughters fix they room before they can go and watch tv, the 5 year old doesn't like it, but she just stands til SHE DOES IT!! I'm so glad she's a little strong that way, but in the other hand she's so gnerous with the girls, hope they appreciate her kindness. Your girls are beautiful.
Have a good week,
FABBY
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Sheila Payne · 666 weeks ago

Beautiful picture. I so hope you are feeling better. What is your opinion of television viewing? I always struggle with enjoying television and wondering if I am addicted to it. I watch clean shows but it is something I want to do everyday. It is my favorite way to relax.
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I don't understand parents who don't make their children help around the house. Helping me taught both my sons the skills of managing a home and cooking - both valuable when you leave home. It also teaches them how to work in a team (working together), the value of work and the joy of working (the result can be a yummy meal). Even when my sons where little they had to pick up all their toys and put them in the colourful boxes I provided, it didn't take long for them to understand the need to put toys away after play.
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We were blessed with very little money when the six kids were young . We had a small homestead, farm and lots of work for each one to do. All are adults, my baby girl is 35 and are hard working and have children that have a good work ethic. We had no TV when they were growing up back in the day... no time to watch it, lol.
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Amen! ;) Just finished reading a book about this same topic. Totally agree. I'd love to have you link this up to Titus 2 Tuesdays on Cornerstone Confessions. Hopping over from Growing Home.

Kathy
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I agree 110%. I had co-workers and friends that would laugh at me because we don't have cable and don't let the kids lay around in front of the TV. Summers were filled with books, field trips, and the park. It's getting harder to push the last two into action, but give up? No. I make a plan for how to fill our days. Childhood only happens once and I am not done raising them yet!
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I love the quote and your encouragement!
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Such a beautiful picture! I'm a little puzzled--I guess you and your family do eat sugar treats occasionally?
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Loved this post, please link it with me tomorrow at Wow Us Wednesday!
Yes! I had some wonderful friends who taught me by example how to train the littlest ones to work, and as they grew, those kiddos' chores grew with them! Mine are 5&7, and already have a better work ethic than I did in my 20's! They are sooo cheerful as the work (mostly...bedrooms sometimes get groans, lol), and I love having my helpers alongside of me! We are about to begin our own homestead, and all our work is about to expand immensely, but we are thrilled by that! And we are excited to have farm children! ;)
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julie marling · 666 weeks ago

Great post! Newest GFC follower. Love your blog. Look forward to reading more. Love for you to follow back when you get a chance.
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Great post and so true. i realize this more and more as my children get older.
Absolutely!!! Thank you for the encouragement :)

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Great job! To encourage your children to be productive and independent.
Very true! Mine are only 6, 4, and 2 but they are all expected to pitch in with chores at age appropriate levels!
This post as timely for me, as I have just decided to add more work to my young kids' summer routine. They need it!
Oh, I like this, here's to sockin' it to them. =)

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Interesting. I watched a documentary on the Amish. When kids go through "rumspringa" they seem to all turn to alcohol, sex, drugs and every other vice known to man. It is as though they are taught all their lives that this is what awaits on the other side. It would seem wiser to teach kids that yes, there are negative things in the world, but that one can live in the world and not turn to sinful practices. It is all well and good to keep your kids busy from sun up til sun down, IF one also teaches them how to live in a fallen world, and remain unspotted by it.

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