Saturday, August 24, 2013

Are You A Radical Homemaker?


Radical Homemakers live a life where significantly less money is earned, and basic necessities are produced or otherwise procured.  Packages from the mall, plastic-wrapped food, designer labels and television sets are seldom seen inside these households.  Rather, they are filled with books, simmering pots, some dirty dishes, musical instruments, seedlings, wood shavings, maybe some hammers or drills, sewing machines, knitting baskets, canned peaches and tomato sauce, jars of sauerkraut, freezers with hunted or locally raised meat, and potted herbs.  

Outside the door there are no multiple new cars or manicured lawns.  Whether in the country or the city, one is likely to find a garden plot or potted tomatoes, fruit trees, bicycles, probably a used car, shovels, spades, compost bins, chicken, maybe a wandering goat or some other livestock, and laundry blowing in the breeze.  These people are producing their life, not buying it. 

The more homemakers are able to do for themselves ~ whether it be cooking, preserving or growing food, mending clothing or purchasing it used, fixing cars and appliances to avoid replacing them, cleaning with vinegar and water rather than toxic chemicals, or making rather than buying gifts and toys ~ the less time they exchange for money, the fewer natural resources they require from the planet, and the less they rely upon the global extractive economy. {Radical Homemakers by Shannon Hayes}

So, are you a radical homemaker?  Remember the phrase "barefoot and pregnant"?  That is all I dreamed about being when I grew up.  There is nothing more beautiful to me than a mother at home tending to her family.   Our society has done everything it can to take mothers out of the home and away from their children, beginning with day care, being in public school many hours a day, careers for mothers, malls, restaurants, etc.  Don't let society suck you into its ways but head in the opposite direction, the one that God intends for us.

My people will abide in a peaceful habitation, 
in secure dwellings, and in quiet resting places.
Isaiah 32:18

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I don't have the energy and health for it so I just do what I can do. I believe this is all God expects of us!
He is always there for us guiding, leading, and protecting us. We can always count on that!
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Cynthia Swenson · 605 weeks ago

This post encourages me because even though my home is plain, I love to be here. I loved to "play house" when I was a girl. Some of my floors are painted plywood because after raising many young children, the main carpets were yucky. I just tore out the carpet & painted the subfloor as I couldn't afford nicer flooring. I began to experiment with mixing primer & paint & colors. I've mixed & "sponged" some of my favorite colors & I think they look quite nice, plus I can keep them CLEAN. I paint doors, cabinets, furniture, etc. my favorite colors. This is just one way God has helped me be creative with what I could afford. Love & prayers, in Jesus, Cynthia
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It is amazing what a can of paint can do. I just like my home to be comfortable. I don't care if it is a model home at all. I want it to be easy to live in as it sounds like you do, Cynthia!
I was like that when I was a young stay at home mother and wife. Although I don't have name brands in any sence, I have a lovely home I adore, as at our age we're already inheriting beautiful things from family that are leaving us. Yes, I'd love to see more stay at home moms, that way children would be raised in a loving home, well taken cared of, so they wouldn't be killing people cause they got nothing to do!!! SO SAD WHAT'S HAPPENING IN MY BELOVED USA!
FABBY
1 reply · active 605 weeks ago
I know, Fabby, I agree with you. The family is the bedrock of any nation and when it crumbles, society crumbles.
Do I still get to be in the homemakers club even though I hardly do any of those things? We live on one income but we don't have a garden, I don't cook from scratch, I've never canned a thing in my life, I can't sew (don't even have a sewing machine), we have two cars, a TV and more computers than I can count. And I don't think our apartment would let us get a goat. :/

But I am a homemaker. My home and my family are my first priority and responsibility. I'm home most of the time, I prepare all my husband's meals, I do all the housework, I do all the shopping and errands. I try to make it so that when my husband gets home from work he can relax and not have to do anything because he's already been working all day to provide for us. Like you, this is the life I dreamed of as a little girl and I love it.

I don't know about being "radical" but I think as long as a woman sees her home/family as her top responsibility, it doesn't matter whether she grows all her own food or serves TV dinners. As long as she's devoted to fulfilling her role and doing it the way her husband directs, that's what makes her a good homemaker. I suppose in this world, that's radical.
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You are a fabulous homemaker, Mrs. P. I don't do many of those things either but I love reading about women who do! As long as we are taking good care of our husbands and children, we are in the homemakers club!
I dream of a life like that! I think it's a little extreme though. I do think we live as close to that as possible, but we do love to go out to eat on date night and other little things like that. :)
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You defintely have to be called to a life like that, although, most of our ancestors had no choice but to live like that. We are blessed to live in a day and age where we do have many choices, Tiffany!
I just love your post and the picture above it. Really glad I stopped by.
We live somewhat like that, but I have to be careful I don't get so busy preserving vegetables and fruit for the year ahead that I neglect what's really important- my family. It's possible to get so wrapped up in the day to day things that I don't have energy for relationships with my family and friends. This is where I need my husband and church family to help me focus on eternal values. Occasionally my church friends and I get together for the day even if we bring our work along. It's fun to visit while sewing little girls dresses etc.

Thanks for your posts. I really look forward to reading them. It has helped me to enjoy my role as mother more.
I had to smile at the word radical in this post. My parents lived this life on their farm all my growing years and at no stage did they see it as radical - it was normal, not just for them, but for most rural folk. We grew almost all our own food (my dad ran a commercial fruit orchard), my mum sewed and knitted all our clothes and did arts and crafts too. My parents preserved our home grown food for the winter months, we killed our our meat (my brothers trapped rabbits), milked the cows for butter and cream, baked bread and never we never bought cakes or other sweets as mum baked all this too (with the help of us children) and we had chickens (for eggs and meat).

However we did have beautifully manicured lawns (which my brothers mowed each Saturday) as one can have both a large vegetable garden and a beautiful garden on a farm and we did own more than one vehicle as this is important on a farm. Our home was filled with books (overflowing) and classical music and we didn’t own a TV. Was it a dream - yes and no, life on a farm is hard work for all and things can got wrong (such as a bush fire that destroyed everything in 1983 - it was all rebuilt thanks to my fathers determination and their faith in the Lord).

But, and this may surprise you, my mother was the schoolteacher at the local school and dad ran the farm - and that still didn’t stop them from provide this beautiful way of living for us all in the Australian countryside. I grew up in a truly blessed home - was it radical, no, it was normal and I tried to do the same for my children in an urban setting - not quite the same, but close.
I am a radical homemaker *wife* not mother (by choice). My calling was to be a wife, and I'm very blessed to live my dream.
Yay! I am not alone! I love living this way.... I am totally self taught in all homesteading things! We recently moved into our modest-but-beautiful dream house in the country, we homeschool/farm school, we garden and can/freeze/preserve, we have 8 layers that should be laying eggs by the end of sept., we just built goat stalls in one of our out buildings, and should have a lactating mama and her baby girl by the end of the week... $ is always tight, but I just feel called or driven w/ the passion of being self sufficient!!!! Most of the time, this feels pretty radical to me! Blessings, y'all!!! The virtuous women described in Proverbs 31 is full of great courage!!!! She is who I strive to be!!!
I am working hard to be a radical homemaker. We are trying to get out of debt and keep me at home and homeschool. I just get lazy sometime. But i know the God is my strength and through Him We can do all things. Gods will be done!
I do many of these things to stay connected with my home and children. I work outside the home during the day (DH is losing his eyesight) but thankfully my MIL is retired and can be there when i cannot.
No, sadly I'm not.
My children are all raised now and I am working towards a simpler lifestyle!
I may not be "radical" as stated above, but I certainly try to do what I can to be a good wife, mother, homemaker, etc. I am constantly learning. I have gone from making my own cleaning products, laundry soap to making shampoo soap, regular soap. I do a lot of sewing, make most of our own meals, clean my own house, am homeschooling my final son (12th grade). We do have a nice home, 2 cars and live in a Suburban neighborhood. I do what I can! :-) Like Lari above stated, I have to be careful not to get so involved in my day to day projects I forget what is really important. The Lord! He is the one who has given me everything I have. We have been through 6 very tough years with our middle son and some medical issues. You really do realize what is important when something like that happens. Blessings everyone!
Thank you for a beautiful post and a book recommendation!
Yes I'm definitely a radical. I've chosen to retire early and live on less, making as much as possible from scratch, sewing, gardening, the works. After 2 years I'm still loving it.
What is the name of that small fruit?

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