Friday, August 5, 2011

Marrying Unbelievers


There is only one admonition to Christians in the Bible....Marry another believer. That is it, but many believers fail to take that admonition seriously.

I was talking with a woman at church yesterday and she said that there is a woman at church that mentors a large group of women. She said that 75% of the women in her group married unbelievers and deeply regret it.

Then she said something even more astonishing...All the unbelieving husbands are now believers, but all the women said they still regret their decision to marry an unbeliever because of all the pain it caused in their lives! Wow!

God knows what he is talking about. One can never underestimate the influence a father has on his children. A strong, godly, steady father most often produces strong, godly, steady children. This is one reason to marry a godly man.

Your politics, your views on raising and disciplining children, your entertainment choices...so many things stem from what you believe. So if you are thinking of getting married, marry a believer. You will be sparing yourself from a lot of future pain.

A woman is bound to her husband as long as he lives. But if her husband dies,    she is free to marry anyone she wishes, but he must belong to the Lord.
 I Corinthians 7:39


Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship has righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion has light with darkness?
II Corinthians 6:14

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This is very good advice but what if you were both unbelievers when you got married? I was an atheist when I got married but I recently had a huge awakening and became a christain. It's been hard on my husband since I changed so much and it's hard on me that he doesn't agree with my new beliefs. It seems no one writes about this problem- is no one else in a similar situation?
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Read my marriage posts. The Bible is clear that you may win your husband without a word as they watch your godly behavior. Let the Word of Christ dwell in you richly and allow God to transform you into a godly woman. This will attract your husband to Jesus better than anything else you could do!
This is another good post. I'm sure it's something needed to be heard by many people. I married an unbeliever and while there is love for him, I have chosen a very difficult life for myself. Satan did a great job of convincing me it was the right choice. Just knowing I am not alone is always comforting. My husband is now a believer, but it's just a very dim twinkle of his candle if that makes sense. I truly believe he believes, but he and I are still definitely NOT equally yoked. I adore the children he gave me. But I have chosen a life that will make their life difficult also. I can only pray for all things and praise God in all things. He does not make mistakes (nor allow mistakes to overcome His purpose). Thanks again.
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Thank you for sharing. God's ways are so good but thankfully He can still bring good out of our messes! ALL things work together for good to those who love Him and are called according to His purposes
Do not be unequally yoked. In addition to that, as far as possible, marry someone that is not just a believer but spiritually alive and truly seeking to grown in the Lord. Many are saved and are believers but they simply refuse to grow in the Lord and serve Him.

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