Monday, February 24, 2014

Come Home, Mothers!


Life in America is becoming more and more like life in ancient Rome according to Jerome Carcopino who wrote Daily Life In Ancient Rome. Rampant feminism led to demoralization in Rome. Women feared having children for fear of losing their good looks, thus many marriages were childless.

Women vied with their husbands in physical strength. Women didn't want to be domesticated. They didn't want to be in the home. They wanted to be dominant and defiant.  They charged into all areas where only men had previously been allowed to go.

They quit sewing, playing instruments, and singing and put all of their energies into rivaling men in every sphere. Some plunged into legal pursuits and politics. They practiced gluttony and drunkenness. They broke their vows of marriage and instead lived with the motto, "Live your own life!"  They wanted equal rights and equal everything. They wanted to lay aside femininity and become men. Women vacated their kingdoms, their homes.

Paul wrote in this environment. He wrote against all of these things. He calls believers to live lives that are completely opposite from what society is telling them to do. Authority and submission in a family brings harmony. When God's divine plan is followed, the whole marriage relationship is right.

There really is nothing new under the sun. People continually bemoan the devastation immorality is having on our society. Most societies of old practiced prostitution, homosexuality, sexual immorality of every kind, feminism, etc. This is not new. However, we, as Christians, are not called to participate in this plan.

God's plan for women is to be help meets to their husbands.  He calls women to have children and raise them to love Jesus.  He wants the mothers to be at home raising their children in the nurture and the admonition of the Lord so His name is not blasphemed.  Come home, if at all possible, dear mothers. Being a wife and mother is your high calling from God.

Older women...teach the young women to be sober, 
to love their husbands, to love their children, to be discreet, 
chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, 
that the word of God be not blasphemed.
Titus 2:3-5

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Good post Lori; there really is nothing new under the sun. We should just look at what eventually happened to the civilization of Rome as an example!
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Yes, but never be discouraged because we know how it all ends and who is in control!
Emily Wierenga wrote something the other day that REALLY stood out to me about mothers who should not be afraid to let their bodies be "dented & dinged" (I think she put it that way)..also to not be afraid of a muffin top or stretch marks, as they are more like beauty marks picked up in the honorable profession of motherhood. So I paraphrased here, but got the main point. Some of you may know that Emily has struggled with anorexia as a young girl. I just want to point out that true godly men continue to love their women through pregnancy, childbirth, sickness, old age, etc. Loving husbands & children means SACRIFICE. It's hard, but it's joyful. We don't obtain love & joy unless we are willing to sacrifice ourselves for others. (This is a good post Lori!) Love & prayers, in Jesus, Cynthia
1 reply · active 578 weeks ago
Fabulous thoughts, Cynthia! Thank you.
The historical background here really makes the teachings come alive! Great post and love the picture:).
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It is from my wonderful friend Pam's blog!
http://whiteironstonecottage.blogspot.com/

She gave me permission to use them whenever I want so I do a lot. :)
Wow, fascinating info about ancient Rome! So similar to our day. I love being a mom and especially being home with my children, it is the greatest blessing of my life. I'm so thankful for a husband who wants that too.
Really great post!
We are studying 1 Corinthians at our church right now and it's even more enlightening learning a little bit of the culture during Paul's life. It's difficult to say what's true when it goes against the grain of society. But Paul was not dissuaded. I am so encouraged to find your voice proclaiming the truth and goodness of God's design in culture that hungers for the opposite.
Beautifully written post, Lori. Loved it! I am delighted to share that you will be featured in this week's A Return to Loveliness! I hope you stop by - I have a special Edition post today - review, interview and giveaway of a Tea Shop Mystery book by Laura Childs!
Kathy

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