Saturday, April 19, 2014

Laine's Letters And Paying Off Debt, Part 2


Last week, I began a series of posts from Laine's Letters on 50 ways to get out of debt. You can read the first post HERE. Every week, I will share more of what I learned from her by typing out some of her letters. She is truly a godly, wise woman and I would love to know how she is doing now. {Since this letter was written in 2005, some things are not applicable today, so I will put my two cents in!}

During this series, I am going to show you pictures of my home and ways we have saved money. Ken and I try to be very careful with our money and not be wasteful or extravagant. The above picture is our living room. The piano is the one my parents bought when I was a little girl. The rest of the furniture, I got from Craig's List from one couple for $600! It is all in great shape. {Yes, that is my cat's tail you see!}

4 ~ Save, save, save. Every paycheck, I do my best to put a little away. Even if it is only a little, it is a savings. We have a savings account, a retirement account where a sum is taken out of my husband's salary each month, and an emergency account for emergencies. "There is desirable treasure and oil in the dwelling of the wise, but a foolish man squanders all that he has." Proverbs 21:20

5 ~ A good budget is a necessity. There are so many good Christian books on budgeting by Larry Burkett and Ron Blue among others. I can tell right where I am in a month just by checking my budget in my purse that I keep on 3X5 cards. {Then she has a Yearly Budget and a Bare Bones Budget in case her husband became ill or hurt.}

6 ~ A Freedom Account is something I learned from Mary Hunt years ago. I take my yearly expenses and divide that amount by twelve, then I know how much has to go into my Freedom Account each month for these yearly expenses when they crop up....It takes discipline, but it's so profitable once you've been trained by it.

7 ~ I do my best to keep our electrical and water bills as low as possible. When we were in an electrical crisis and our bill tripled overnight, we went into a very small, hip high refrigerator with no freezer and shut down our water heater. ...We had to heat our water to bathe and to wash dishes. It was rough for awhile, but I was able to keep us on our budget. {She admits that they had to truly sacrifice to get out of debt and this is an example of a sacrifice they made, no hot running water for a time.}

8 ~ I keep our telephone bill at $25 a month or lower. The way I've been able to do that is by using a phone card from Costco for long distance calling...We call my mother-in-law weekly and a few other calls during the month, but mostly we write letters or email. {Today, with iPhone, it makes having a phone ridiculously expensive! I have lived 55 years without an iPhone and I am sure you can to if you wanted to in order to get out of debt.}

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Thank you, Lori, for this post! My husband and I are debt-free and have been since early in our marriage - thanks to him. He is the saver and I am the spender; however over our 25 years of marriage I have learned to live on a budget and recognize the freedom that gives. Saving has allowed us to adopt three children from South Korea and China, and I have been a stay-at-home mom since our first daughter was born 23 years ago. Most people think a budget is bondage...............but in fact, it is tremendous freedom!
I love this and the commenter on tremendous freedom. Isn't it all when we do God's will. I am working on keeping expenses down as part of my striving to become a better Proverbs 31 wife. I also have recently concentrated on keeping the house cleaner (something I never did before) because my husband wants that. I thought he wanted these good home cooked meals, but turns out, he's happier with a clean house and the meal comes second to his happiness. So I've been working on that and he has been happier and less grumpy. It is against my own habits to keep a house spic and span but it's probably best for all of us and it's kind of fun being a servant for God by serving my husband. I like finding new ways to make my husband happy. I have also begun coupon clipping. Since I stay at home in my free time I have begun doing that to save us money. It's all fun once you get your mind in the right direction. Thanks for these great tips!
Just a tip for saving money on cell phones: Use Straight Talk. You can buy pre-paid cards from Wal-Mart. I pay $45 a month for unlimited texting, calling, and data for my iphone. (Most people are probably paying double that for an iphone!) They also have cheaper cards for around $30. Just a tip for anyone who is looking to find a cheaper phone plan! Plus there's no contract.
Another tip for phone service. We have Ooma, which costs us $4 a month for home service. You have to buy the unit which is $100- $150, but it's way cheaper than traditional service. We use t-mobile pre-paid, we spent $100 on two phones, and we spend $40 a year for one and $1000 for the other. After the initial start up costs, it's very cost effective. We put $25 aside each month to cover the cost of the cell minutes when we need them and in case we need to replace the ooma unit.. However, 30 a month for home service and two cell phones is very inexpensive. We use the home phone for all family calls (our family is 1,000 miles away) and keep the cell phones for emergencies. I keep the one with lower minutes, in case something comes up when I am doing errands, the husband keeps the higher minutes phone, as he regularly takes public transit and is more likely to use it.
Sometimes God decides that your plans aren't His plans. I had a wonderful budget drawn up for 2014 - it was going to save lots and would work really well - but along came some major health problems with our son and I have forked out $1000's of dollars in the last 6 months. That was the end of the budget and savings. Only last month I had to find $2400 at very short notice. I would love to not have a mortgage, but until our son can live independently and not rely heavily on my salary, it will remain. I am not overly concern about our mortgage as it is small compared to many and I will continue to work to pay it off before I retire.

PS whilst some these savings work well for you in the USA -phone contracts in Australia are VERY expensive, likewise internet connections and even housing is more expensive. For those who wish to live on one income, it does mean relying on welfare and right now our current government is finding ways to cut that too.
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Loving been his wife · 571 weeks ago

Do you live in Australia as well Jo? I am in WA!
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Since her web site is down, do you know of any place that might have her recipes? Thank you.

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