Saturday, June 27, 2015

Grieving Over the Supreme Court's Decision


Yesterday, our Supreme Courts made gay marriage the law of the land. Yes, I wept when I read this since I know it is so far removed from God's will for marriage and hurts those involved in gay marriage, along with our society. However, we must not fret for even Jesus spoke these words when He walked this earth, "A wicked and adulterous generation seeketh after a sign; and there shall no sign be given unto it, but the sign of the propeht Jonah." {Matthew 16:4}.

God reminds us 365 times in His Word to not fear; a verse for every day of the year. We are NOT to live in fear but in the joy of the Lord, giving thanks for all that He has done for us. We must be in His Word daily, seeking those things which are above, and NOT things on this earth for this earth is NOT our home. Our home is with Jesus where we will spend eternity with Him; a place with no sin, sorrow or suffering.

Therefore, in the midst of the corruption swirling around us, we must continue to live in obedience to the Lord with the power of the Holy Spirit living within us and God's amazing grace on our lives! "Never dread any consequence resulting from absolute obedience to His command. Never fear the rough waters ahead...God is greater than the roar of raging water and the mighty waves of the sea. 'The Lord sits enthroned over the flood; the Lord is enthroned as King forever" {Psalm 29:10}. Dare to trust Him! Dare to follow Him! Then discover that the forces that blocked your progress and threatened your life become at His command the very materials He uses to build your street of freedom" {F. B. Meyer}.

NEVER give into the society's perverted and evil ways. Do NOT compromise with them in any way. Stand firm in your faith and the hope that we have in Christ. Refuse to become a lukewarm Christian. As the days get darker, we will be able to easily see the separation of the wheat from the tares. God is so much greater than the evil forces that are at work today; SO MUCH GREATER! Finally, be encouraged by these words from Charles Spurgeon ~

BANISH for ever all thought of indulging the flesh if you would live in the power of your risen Lord. It were ill that a man who is alive in Christ should dwell in the corruption of sin. "Why seek ye the living among the dead?" said the angel to Magdalene. Should the living dwell in the sepulchre? Should divine life be immured in the carnal house of fleshly lust? How can we partake of the cup of the Lord and yet drink the cup of Belial? Surely, believer, from open lusts and sins you are delivered: have you also escaped from the more secret and delusive lime-twigs of the Satanic fowler? Have you come forth from the lust of pride? Have you escaped from slothfulness? Have you clean escaped from carnal security? 

Are you seeking day by day to live above worldliness, the pride of life, and the ensnaring vice of avarice? Remember, it is for this that you have been enriched with the treasures of God. If you be indeed the chosen of God, and beloved by Him, do not suffer all the lavish treasure of grace to be wasted upon you. Follow after holiness; it is the Christian's crown and glory. 

An unholy church! it is useless to the world, and of no esteem among men. It is an abomination, hell's laughter, heaven's abhorrence. The worst evils which have ever come upon the world have been brought upon her by an unholy church. O Christian, the vows of God are upon you. You are God's priest: act as such. You are God's king: reign over your lusts. You are God's chosen: do not associate with Belial. Heaven is your portion: live like a heavenly spirit, so shall you prove that you have true faith in Jesus, for there cannot be faith in the heart unless there be holiness in the life.

As my cousin, Crystal, wrote on Facebook yesterday,  "He has already won the battle. Everything is going according to His plan."

Woe unto them that call evil good, and good evil; 
that put darkness for light, and light for darkness, 
that put bitter for sweet, and sweet for bitter.
Isaiah 5:20

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Thank you. I needed to read this. I also appreciate it and think you are brave and courageous. I saw what franklin Graham said and that was wonderful too. Thank you. Wonderful words.xxx
Just another example of how society normalizes sin. Even cheers for it!!! So sad!!!!!
Canada legalized same sex marriage 10 years ago, but our politicians never celebrated it so fervantly. My heart dropped to hear your president say it brings America one step closer to being perfect. There is truly no fear of God in a statement like that. In the eyes of the law there may be a new kind of marriage but not I the eyes of God Almighty.
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I felt physically sick when I heard the news.
We are getting further from God's ways everyday.
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This will be a new problem in our churches and Christian society. Of course we are to love the sinner - how do we respond to those who say they are Christian gays. That they were born this way. That they want the Christians to accept them for who they are. Of course the Word of God is our standard, but they use verses to their own liking.
This is a sad (although non unexpected) decision, but I'm sadder for the people experiencing SSA, in a world that promotes immorality, they will never be helped, they will be just told that they are "born this way" and they should live the homosexual lifestyle, while, in reality, they will never be happy living like this.
Thank you for these wise words. The challenge for me, who has always struggled with being devoted to the Lord with my whole heart, is that I have come into contact with homosexuals and they really do seem to love each other, altough I know this violates God's Word. It is similar to when I meet non Christians who seem to be "good people" (altough not in the eyes of the Lord). These have always been my struggles, do you have any advice?
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Lila
hi there, if you head over to the Gospel Coalition they have some really good resources to help you in your questioning. I think you will find the articles and videos really useful in cementing your biblical understanding on the issue.
Blessings
Helen UK
I live in Australia, and when I heard this news when I woke up, I cried too. I know Australia is not far behind. Neighbours have rainbows over their fb profiles to say that they are rejoicing. We could become scared with this decision, but my hope is in the Lord who made heaven and earth, and that He has all things in His hands. Instead of being scared/worried, we need to be bold and full of grace. Thank you for being bold. God bless xo
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About 20 or so years ago I read two books...One was called The God of the Jews Must Die and the other I have forgotten the name. But they were both fictional about the end times. One book minutes before and the other book about a month before the Rapture of the church. They both portrayed a society that was so perverse and open to every sin. Cheering for things that were so against the Bible. I see some of what was written in those books unfolding right now. The perverse is now praised and celebrated. I have several friends who I thought to be godly people now flying the rainbow flag on their face book avatars. So happy that now love can be equal. So decieved. Another thing I read in those books. Thank you Lori....between you and Ken I can leave the perverse and read the sanity and promises of our God.
What we have overlooked is that homosexuals were not the first to redefined marriage – ---the Church was. Pay close attention and see that equality of husband and wife is readily preached and written about and lived in the church [and has been for generations] so everyone is picking up on ‘you too can be equal to God’ or ‘be your own God’ or ‘write your own scripture’, without being very conscious of it built into us. I find equality almost everywhere as it is a part of church culture including marriage counseling books and even church ‘superstars’ mix it in in some fashion. No wonder the homosexuals have “=” as their logo! No wonder they have the rainbow [after God’s flood] as their flag! They know this is a very religious issue; in the very face of God.

Further, it is just a matter of time that the American church will lose it’s free speech rights over this homosexual issue. It will take down the First Amendment and parts of the Bible. Not abortion. Not the name of Jesus. Rather, the very Authority of Jesus……we now don’t have to surrender to Him anymore. We can be equal [serpent].

I used to be upset at homosexuals for pushing this on my country. Then I realized that’s like being upset at Obama for getting elected. The church empowered homosexuals to do this with the creation of equality in heterosexual marriage.

Lori, I am so glad that you are bringing this issue to the forefront in your venue because I believe it is THE issue in the healing of the church: submission in marriage models submission for the church to Christ Jesus….for all to see.
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What is quite frustrating are those who cannot understand the many detrimental implications of the legalization of gay marriage. It would be one thing if gay marriage is indeed between two men and two women who actually make a lifelong commitment to faithfulness to each other, but in most gay marriage vows this is far from the case. Much of the issue of gay marriage would be mitigated if indeed they meant marriage the way we mean it in current man-woman marriages where we know it is adultery to have sex with someone not our spouse. Find out what % of gay marriages have any intent to remain sexually faithful to one person for life, and you will see that we are talking about two very different relationships.

I am not referring to hidden affairs that happen in marriages. "Research at San Francisco State University reveals just how common open relationships are among gay men and lesbians in the Bay area. The Gay couples Study has followed 556 male couples for three years -- about 50 percent of those surveyed have sex outside their relationships, with the knowledge and full approval of their partners." http://www.nytimes.com/2010/01/29/us/29sfmetro.ht...

So for a vast number of gay "marriages" ... we will find that marriage does not mean marriage, in most traditional senses. It is a full redefining of the word with no ability to procreate apart from artificial means, no permanent fidelity, and not lifelong commitment between a man and woman as it has been defined throughout history.

So what will most gay marriages have in common with a traditional marriage? The same tax deductions, legal status to pass down inheritances, and maybe some health care benefits, all of which were granted under civil unions, which much better defines the vast majority of gay marriages.
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OMsweet God, what can I say.

Just bless us human beings, dear Lord Jesus Christ...yes us, your children in these hard times, where everything is ok, no matter how wrong and bless us for the confusing times we have to survive and the hardships of these uncontrollable trying era for most Christians like us.
Thank you for sharing.
FABBY
I am sickened by this ruling. Someone on my husbands Facebook page posted a link about paedophiles now using the same tactics as the LGBT community to make their cause legal. And if they succeed, you will have beastiality legalised as well and who knows what else. Sick! I am so thankful our prime minister is standing firm on not legalising gay marriage. But it's only a matter of time before another federal election and a new leader will make it legalised. Come Lord Jesus! Come!
Several points.
1. I was also grieved by this.
2. I love your paragraph 2.
3. Something I have not seen addressed too much. Several of the states, including California where apparently homosexuality is pretty rampant, voted down gay marriage. It is the judges and now the Supreme Court that have legalized gay marriage. So, in essence, the United States is no longer democracy.
Thank you so much, Lori! You are bold and brave. I hope you understand how much your blog means to some of us. I will continue to lift you up in my prayers every night. You have single handedly guided me from a failing marriage to a flourishing marriage through your stance on submission. Together, now, we can ride these wild waves that the Devil is trying to place on this Earth. I can't imagine going through this alone. Your reward is surely in heaven. God bless.
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Justice Kennedy wrote (quoted in the New York Times) that "suffer the significant material cost of being raised by unmarried parents…, thus harm and humiliate the children...".

Roe v Wade specifically mentions how the "stigma" of being an unmarried mother was why abortion needed to be legalize. We've spent 40 years dismantling marriage, inventing options, only to throw it all away and fight for "stability and predictability marriage offers" (Justice Kennedy in the New York Times). The very "stigma" used to justify Roe v Wade has now been flipped upside down and used to justify gay marriage.

With those I know who support gay marriage, they desire the traditional family framework yet talk civil rights, equality, and stigma. It's the stigma argument is when I start giggling and giving them the above timeline, poking at them that they are hiding behind the children. They have no answer for this. In fact, one friend always gets rattled.

I predict that, in 2-3 generations, the same results being reported about the negative effects of divorce on children (it used promise positive results) will apply to gay marriage. Around the merry-go-round we go.

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