Wednesday, February 10, 2016

Beautifying Your Home


It doesn't matter if you live in an old runned down condemned building like my parents lived in when they were first married or a large suburban home with all the new and updated appliances; it is our job to make our homes beautiful for a good wife is a good housekeeper. When the Bible commands older women to teach younger women, one of the components is to teach them to be keepers at home. This doesn't mean they spend their time at home lounging around watching soap operas, reading romantic novels or spending a lot of time on the Internet or smart phone. It means taking good care of the home the Lord has blessed you with.

"The wife who would be happy, and make her home happy and permanently beautiful, must work with her hands at the housewifely tasks which the days in turn bring to her...In other words, good breakfasts, lunches and dinners, a well-kept house, order, system, promptness, punctuality, good cheer...There certainly have been cases in which very tender love has lost its tenderness and when the cause lay in the disorder, the negligence and the mismanagement of the housewifery" {J. R. Miller}.

Yes, it's a tall order to keep a home running smoothly, plus being clean and tidy. However, if women would stop doing those things to entertain themselves and instead do those things that the Lord has called them to do, their homes would be beautiful. The Lord commands that we be lovers of God rather than lovers of pleasure. This includes keeping our homes beautiful, even if you have very little money. It is not gorgeous window coverings and expensive furniture and appliances that make a home beautiful; it is cleanliness and order. Clutter and dirt make even a perfectly decorated home ugly.

Therefore, it matters not how much money you have for even women in the olden days who had very little money, like my mother, could keep their homes beautiful by keeping it clean and uncluttered. This is your job from the Lord, women, so don't take it casually. Take it seriously and do your work as unto the Lord; being thankful and praising him that you have a home to beautify.

When you have small children, it is almost impossible to keep it orderly all of the time but teach your children from a young age to put back their toys right after they play with them. Teaching them to be clean and tidy will be a discipline that they will appreciate all of their life. Teach them to put their dishes in the dishwasher as soon as they are able. Don't buy a lot of toys and plastic junk for them. All children really need are balls, games, puzzles, crayons, coloring and reading books and a special doll for the girls. These things would keep them plenty occupied, plus a lot of time outside when possible.

Everyone loves going into a clean and tidy home, a beautiful home. As I have written in the past, a sedentary life is bad for your health. God created us to move. Use your moving to keep a beautiful home and a home of order. We weren't created to sit all day as many do today. We were created to move. If you are moving, you will create a beautiful home. This isn't optional, women. Keeping your home means to work hard in your home. If you work hard in your home, it will be beautiful.

And whatsoever ye do, do it heartily, 
as to the Lord, and not unto men.
Colossians 3:23
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Lady Virtue · 476 weeks ago

"However, if women would stop doing those things to entertain themselves and instead do those things that the Lord has called them to do, their homes would be beautiful. The Lord commands that we be lovers of God rather than lovers of pleasure."

This is pure gold. I am amazed at how much more time I have to be about the Lord's business after coming out from among and separating from the distraction of entertainment. The Lord convicted me hard about it and it now has very little place in my life.

Keep teaching what you teach by the Lord's grace, Lori. God bless!
1 reply · active 476 weeks ago
I just have to ask...what if the husband is the main contributor to the disorder? This has been kind of an annoyance with me as of late....there are so many unfinished projects that need to get done but my husband tends to procrastinate. I don't want to nag, but it seems that other things (like hobbies) get priority over the house projects. Mind you, these are only projects that he can do, otherwise I would gladly take them over.

Also, he's a bit of a hoarder. He was never taught how to organize or clean, or take care of his things. I maybe made a big mistake in designating the garage as "his area" since I like to keep the house very clean. So I put his things in the garage and I try to help him clean it out but since he doesn't like to get rid of anything, the job is often futile. So it results in neither one of us being able to park our cars in the garage!

This was a very timely post for me, Lori. I tend to get very anxious and irritable when the house isn't spotless, and I know that I have to work on these unrealistic expectations, but I would like to find some kind of middle ground with my husband. So I would appreciate any advice or suggestions! I'm going Anon with this since I don't want to seem like I am complaining too much about my husband...who is truly a wonderful man :-)
4 replies · active 476 weeks ago
..."her attitude toward the marriage as a whole should be to to think of it as a career. Being challenged by what a difference her cooking and her way of serving is going to make in the family gives a woman an opportunity to approach this with the feeling of painting a picture or writing a symphony." Edith Schaeffer
2 replies · active 476 weeks ago
Thanks for this post, Lori. I spent the morning doing my house work with the plan that I would not touch the computer (to read my favorite blog!) until my daily work was done. It is just too easy to lose track of time. I also learned to put my errands, if possible, on one day of the week. Otherwise one little errand can swallow up my entire morning! I think of staying on my feet cleaning as part of my daily exercise. Nothing will improve my mood (and then every one else's!) more than keeping moving until the house is in order. Blessings on your day!
1 reply · active 476 weeks ago
I know all of this to be true! I'm usually very tidy and keep my home welcoming and bright. I'm 14 weeks pregnant and have been stuck on my back for several weeks, not able to cook or clean. This has been so hard emotionally because I'm not doing my job. My house looks awful right now and it is depressing to all our spirits. My husband is trying to keep it up somewhat but it's very hard for him. I cannot wait to be able to take control of my home once again and feel like a productive wife and mother!!!
1 reply · active 476 weeks ago
I agree to keep a tidy house means to stay home and not run out and about. I try to only do errands one time a week. If I have an appointment than that is the day I do errands as well. I found to have wasted too much time, on the road. Thanks for the lovely post again!
1 reply · active 476 weeks ago
I love this post! As Christians I truly believe we should have welcoming, serene, peaceful homes. They don't have to be professionally decorated but they should be clean and orderly. How else would we show true hospitality? If dirt and clutter were "okay" than hotels wouldn't bother to pay a lot of money for cleaning people to keep things nice and neat.
1 reply · active 476 weeks ago
My grandmother used to say, "I've been poor but I've never had dirt or rags"
1 reply · active 476 weeks ago
I just wrote a blog post about this – the importance’s of keeping our homes clean and tidy – no matter what we do — including the chores and keeping our homes in order we need keep this firmly in our minds: "do it heartily, as to the Lord and not to men" (Colossians 3:23). We need to see our chores as a blessing that brings joy to others and our chores keep us busy and active and that in turn keeps us out of mischief ("She watches over the ways of her household, And does not eat the bread of idleness." (Proverbs 31:27)). I also think it is important to not use our children as an excuse for not cleaning our homes — they too need to see a clean home because when they grow up and have a house of their own, they know what they should be doing.
http://jo-stophaveachat.blogspot.com.au/2016/02/f...

I love making my house nice for my family —I don’t spend big dollars, I often buy bits and pieces from thrift stores or chariety stores, Its amazing what bargains one can pick up.
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ContentWife · 476 weeks ago

We have moved a few times, and currently live in a very small space, but anywhere can be a home if you put your heart into it! And actually, this has been our favourite place so far, despite the limited space. It forces us to organize, be considerate, and get along with each other. Great things to learn! :)
1 reply · active 476 weeks ago
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Momma in the Burbs · 476 weeks ago

Do you feel children need any books? My kids love them.
2 replies · active 476 weeks ago
Don't forget the library! Preschoolers can get a card and pick out books. They learn to be responsible and feel grown up! My grandkids love the library. They don't spend a lot of money on books and you don't have shelves of books they look at once and never again.
I have told my husband many times that a dirty, piled up house just shows laziness.
I don't want anyone to see that.
1 reply · active 476 weeks ago
What a blessing this post is to me! Thank you!!

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