Friday, February 7, 2014

The Truth About Men

Christian women need to be told the truth about men ~
Men are attracted to youth and looks. This is normal. Men are not evil, base or perverted for being attracted to youth and beauty. Young Christian girl, if you are not getting approached or asked out, it’s probably because you’re not attractive enough, you’re not nice enough or you’re not available enough. You need to work on this. You need to lose weight, grow your hair out, wear nice clothes and some decent makeup. You might be a b****, and if you are, you need to be nicer. If you really want to find a man and marry, then you need to get serious about it while you’re young. 

There is a big push in our society as its waistline expands to accept being heavy as normal and beautiful.  Our love affair with high fat foods, sugary sodas and desserts, and highly processed foods is finally catching up to us.  Sure, we hear about the dangers of obesity but it seems we are trying to normalize it instead of fight against it and call it what it is...gluttony.

Before you call me judgmental, you should know by now that I try to speak out about all sin.  Sin is destructive.  It is never beautiful or something we should glorify and make normal.  

There are so many beautiful women who would love to be married but are heavy and out of shape.  I posted that first paragraph which was written by a man to try and persuade young women who are looking for a husband to begin eating healthy, working out, join Weight Watchers, whatever it takes to look better.  Men are visual.  That is the way God made them.  Instead of criticizing them and trying to make them think being overweight is attractive, realize this is not true and do something about it.

Gluttony is a sin.  Don't let that cookie boss you around anymore and potentially destroy a future marriage for you.  Take charge and get in shape.  Eat lots of salads, fresh chicken, eggs, and fish.  Laugh a lot and be happy.  Be feminine.  This is very attractive to men!

Be not among drunkards or among gluttonous eaters of meat,
 for the drunkard and the glutton will come to poverty, 
and slumber will clothe them with rags.
Proverbs 23:20,21

Follow up thoughts to this post ~ Getting Blasted!