Wednesday, July 25, 2012

Sex Without Commitment


Sex week was celebrated at Yale, Harvard, and other universities around the nation recently.  They have decided that maybe sex classes didn't prepare students for the experience of sex, whatever that means!  I think women have been lied to for long enough.

Many macho men have always tried to convince women to have sex with them.  "If you love me, you will."  Then feminism came along and taught women that they were just like men.  They could have sex with whoever and whenever they wanted without any commitment.  So feminism became macho men's greatest ally!

Universities have tried convincing people that male and female natures are the same.  They are not.  Men's testosterone levels are from 250 to 750, while women's levels are from 25-75.  We are different.  Most men want sex a lot more than most women.  Most women do want commitment when they give sex.

Women aren't being taught all the painful consequences of promiscuity...sexual diseases, pregnancy, abortion, emotional trauma, etc.  Women suffer from sex without the commitment of marriage.  I don't care what the feminists have taught.  They were wrong and their teachings have hurt women.

You need to teach your daughters that sex is a wonderful thing created by God to be shared between a husband and a wife.  It was created to enjoy and create babies.  It was created for intimacy, the closest kind between a husband and his wife.  It is a beautiful gift she can save for her husband.

I feel sorry for all the women who have fallen for this lie that has been perpetuated upon them.  I feel sorry for all the women who have tried getting guys attention by satisfying the guy's sexual appetites.  I feel sorry for the women being used in this way.  They have been deceived.

Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body.        
I Corinthians 6:18

Let your fountain be blessed, and rejoice in the wife of your youth, a lovely deer, a graceful doe. Let her breasts fill you at all times with delight; be intoxicated always in her love.        
Proverbs 5:18,19

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I agree 100%!
Lori, this is beautiful. I'm so happy you posted it.
Debi
LOVE!
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ERDR'swifemomof12 · 661 weeks ago

Just curious to older mom's, especially homeschoolers. At what age (daughters') did you start open discussion on this topic?
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scienceteacher · 660 weeks ago

I agree that girls need to guard their virtue more carefully, but I also think men/boys need to be reminded of this message. It is unfair to ask girls to shoulder the entire burden. I know you don't direct your message to men, but someone needs to tell them too! Remind them that sex is a gift for a married couple, and to be more respectful of women who have boundaries! (I recently had a relationship end because I refused to have sex with the man I was dating. As soon as I told him I did not intend to "sleep" with him, he stopped calling.) We (women) are not setting these boundaries to be cruel to them personally, but rather to protect ourselves!
I have never even once thought about using this lame reason over my girls in the past. I mean, it's not rational. How could a moment of pleasure define the value of your relationship? If a man really respects her woman or the woman herself is cautious about her morale, she will not fall for the trap. Good read here. Thanks for sharing.

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