Do you want your husband to be more affectionate with you?
Start being affectionate with him.
Do you want him to compliment you more often?
Start complimenting him.
Do you want him to be more patient and kind with you?
Start being more patient and kind with him.
Do you want a friend to call you more often?
Start calling them more often.
Do you want others to be more generous with you?
Start being generous with them.
Do you wish the people at your church were more friendly?
Start being friendly with them.
God's Word works. He tells us that we reap what we sow.
If we sow kindness, we will reap kindness.
If we sow generosity, we will reap generosity.
If we sow joy and happiness, we will reap joy and happiness.
Don't sow seeds of discontentment, complaining, impatience, selfishness, etc. These are not things you want to reap. Jesus told us that if we love Him, we will keep His commands and they are not burdensome. They are for our good and for all those around us.
Be not deceived; God is not mocked:
for whatsoever a man sows, that shall he also reap.
for whatsoever a man sows, that shall he also reap.