Sunday, April 21, 2013

A Story Of Redemption


Joyce was sexually abused by her father all of her growing up years.  She said she had no childhood. She grew up, accepted Jesus as her Savior, got married, and had four children.  The Lord has completely transformed her life.  She forgave her dad even when he didn't ask to be forgiven.
He became sick later in his life and Joyce and her husband, Dave, had to buy a home close to them for her parents to live in.  They bought them a nice, little home.  They moved her parents into the home and furnished it for them.  She shopped and brought groceries for them every week.  She took her father to the doctor numerous times.
After three years of living near them, her mother called Joyce and told her that her father had been crying for the past three weeks.  Could she come over and talk with him?  She went over with her husband who had always treated her father with love and kindness even after knowing what he had done to his wife.
She went to her father and her father told her that what he had done to her was wrong.  He asked her to forgive him.  She overcame evil with good.  She heaped burning coals upon his head by feeding her enemy.  She forgave him.
She then asked him if he wanted to accept Jesus into his heart.  He wanted to and lived the rest of his life knowing and loving Jesus.
This is a story of redemption.  God restored all the years the locusts had eaten in Joyce Meyer's life.  She has a strong, solid marriage, four children who walk with Jesus, and a ministry that she loves.  All things are possible with God.  He promises to do abundantly more than we can even think or imagine.  He is so good.  So very, very good.
If your enemy is hungry, feed him;
if he is thirsty, give him something to drink;
for by so doing you will heap burning coals on his head.  
Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.
Romans 12:20,21

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Joyce's story truly exemplifies the power and mercy of Christ. How wonderful that she could, not only forgive, but love her father as Christ loves us. I wish more stories of abuse would end this way, but I don't think many victims could be that strong and many abusers able to repent. Unfortunately, my childhood was similar, except the abuse was from my grandfather (my mother's father). My parents are divorced and I lived with my dad; he pressed charges against my grandfather and I never saw him again (he died when I was 10). I have forgiven him and have forgiven my mother for not protecting me. I don't, however, allow my mother to keep my daughter unsupervised (actually no one, but my dad and step-mom have ever and will ever be trusted to keep my daughter. I know that my mom would never hurt her, but I cannot risk the possibility that she might not stop abuse. Knowing that I have a generational curse of abuse (and divorce, for that matter) has me on my knees praying that God will break those chains and end that cycle. Praise God because my husband and I do not struggle with either of those. I was curious if you would share your feelings on the biblical reaction to child abuse and any scripture references. Is it biblical to press charges (for yourself or your child? Even if it's a family member?)? Does God ask abuse victims to keep their abuser in their lives? If so, how do you protect any children involved? I would appreciate any insight. I truly enjoy reading your blog. In fact, my husband has requested that I extremely limit my online time (to focus solely on our family and to be more productive), but he told me that not only does he not mind me reading your blog, he insists that I do!
You know, for some reason I thought you'd stopped posting until after your surgery, when you were feeling better.

So I popped over here to say I'm thinking of you and praying for you today (and tomorrow) and here you've been posting away, lol!

I didn't not know this about Joyce Meyer. Forgiveness is a powerful thing.

I once met two sisters who were sexually abused by their father as well. They too had forgive him, but they had daughters, and they said that one of the consequences was that they never left their daughters alone with their grandfather, and I thought that was a wise thing. Forgiveness doesn't mean being foolish and forgetting to protect when protection is needed.

Anyway, thinking of you today and hope you are having peace and just resting in the Lord today. Please keep in touch when you can after the surgery and know that I love you and will be praying for you, my friend!

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