Monday, April 1, 2013

Needing "Me Time"


My days seem so full from morning to end. Luckily I don't feel trapped. I know a lot of moms feel the need for ME time but I think I have very little me outside of my mothering/wife roles. I feel blessed to take such satisfaction in "my toil." My "me time" is getting a full night's sleep, deep cleaning or cutting up veggies without Piper clinging to my calves like ankle weights. I don't say BLESSED lightly. I know that God has done a work in me...to find joy in what God has given me to do is pretty outstanding. I marvel at the peace I find through Him.
These words were written by Sarah to her mother-in-law, my best friend, Sandy.  She understands the beautiful ministry the Lord has blessed her with.  Is it easy?  No, it is extremely exhausting being a full-time wife and mother, forgetting about yourself, and using your life to minister to your family
God's ways are usually not easy.  They go against what we want to do and what society says we are suppose to do.  However, we find the greatest fulfillment and satisfaction when we do things God's ways and not our own.  The more you learn to give your life away and serve others, the better life will become.
If your home is full of a bunch of little ones, you have very little "me time."  Someone is always wanting your time and attention.  Continue to renew your mind with God's truth.  You are His servant sent to do His will.  His will is for you to love and serve your husband and children, to wash their feet with your life.

He will give you the strength you need to do His will.  You can do ALL things through Christ who strengthens you.  If God blessed you with children, He will provide for you.  Trust Him!

Sarah is a godly, young woman who has learned the ways of God at a very young age.  Her husband, Zac, is blessed.  Her children are blessed.  Godliness with contentment is GREAT gain.

Strength and dignity are her clothing
and her position is strong and secure; 
she rejoices over the future.
Proverbs 31:25

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i worked outside the home for 5 years after my daughter was born. A very demanding 5 years when I worked for people who care less about my life or family. During that time, I spent my weekends getting facials or getting my hair done, then cramming the few other hours into "quality time" with my daughter. When I look back I am sad not only about the time she spent at daycare but those free hours I didn't spend with her. Can't get them back. Now that I homeschool, color my own hair, seldom eat out and haven't had a facial in years, I can see how God richly blesses me with me time in devotional with my daughter, more relaxed time with my husband and plenty of time to keep my home. I now am blessed beyond my wildest dreams. I think God gives us me time, but we need to look where He put it!
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Thankfully you learned before she was all grown up! Our children are so precious, God calls them gifts and blessings, and we need to treat them as such.
"Continue to renew your mind with God's truth. " Amen. I agree 100%. Thanks for sharing this truth. I have 4 kiddos at home and love it - but I do need to continually renew my mind with the Truth, because it IS a very demanding career choice. praise god for His power in our lives!
1 reply · active 625 weeks ago
Yes, I think through all phases of life we need to continually renew our minds with God's truth but especially when we have small children. This is why it is so important to know His Word.
Beautiful post! I feel the same way as Sarah. I very rarely am away from my family, and I wouldn't have it any other way. Children and motherhood are SUCH a blessing, I don't even have words to express how I feel about it all. Feeling very thankful today. Thank you Lori!
1 reply · active 625 weeks ago
Being thankful is a very good thing, Tiffany! I bet your husband and children love having a thankful wife and mother.
This is a great post...and the renewing of the mind is definitely KEY. Keep on encouraging! This is the only blog I read these days due to your continued support with family and time being precious with 7 children, 6 of them 6 and under! :D
1 reply · active 625 weeks ago
Wow, Emily, you are one busy mommy! What blessings God has bestowed upon you.
I absolutely love this post, especially Sarah's beautiful words. It is so encouraging that there are other young mothers who delight in their God-given roles. My me-time is couch time with my husband when he gets home from work, couponing to save my family money and wisely use my husband's paycheck, and finding time for that spring cleaning that makes us all feel happier. I do not want, or need, time outside my family. I strive to wake up before the rest of my family (it happens almost every day, but I do have an infant who sometimes wakes frequently in the night) to start my day with the Lord and focus my mind on the task ahead. It makes such a difference in my attitude. I praise God that He has blessed me with the beautiful role of being a helpmeet to my husband and momma to our daughter. We pray daily that the Lord will bless us with more children. Thank you for speaking the truth that we need to stop believing the lies of this world and that we need me-time and should expect time outside of our family. It's such a dangerous thought pattern for young mothers.
1 reply · active 625 weeks ago
It sure is. This is why I am commanded to teach younger women to be keepers at home. It takes a lot of time and effort to raise your children in the Lord, with good manners, and protect them from harm. They need their mommies doing that for them or they will "blaspheme the Word of God."
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