Tuesday, April 9, 2013

Experiencing Drugs, Sex, And Alcohol

His oldest son went to the same Christian school that my children attended in high school.  After graduating high school, his son went to a secular university.  He came home and told his two younger siblings they needed to go to the local public high school because the Christian school didn't prepare him for the partying, sleeping around, alcohol, and drug use that goes on at the university he is now attending.  Therefore, this father put his two younger children in the public high school.

When he was telling me this,  all I could think of was I am so happy I don't need to be around people who are partying, sleeping around, and involved in alcohol and drugs.  I would never intentionally put myself in that kind of a situation, yet many parents are doing just that when they put their children in public schools.

This was very strange logic to me.  He said the Christian school protected them from that stuff too much.  "Hallelujah!" was my thought.  Why any parent wants to intentionally expose their children to that garbage is WAY beyond me.  Maybe some of you can explain it to me...

We are commanded to dwell on the lovely and the good.  We are told bad company corrupts good morals.  We are told to walk with the wise.  This doesn't seem to be happening in the public schools.  You put a bunch of young, hormonally driven children together without any parental protection and you are asking for trouble.  The statistics of Christian children walking away from the faith after being in public schools is frightening.

Yes, we need to be in the world being salt and light but most of our children aren't ready to do that before the age of 21.  When they have deep roots in Jesus, then send them out into the world to share their faith with a dying world but don't let them be polluted by it before they are well prepared.

Bring them {your children} up in the 
nurture and admonition of the Lord.
Ephesians 6:4

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1 reply · active 624 weeks ago
Thank you. I posted this on my facebook page.
It just seems so illogical story to me. Do you think maybe he said the christian school didn't prepare him academically for college?
1 reply · active 624 weeks ago
No, he said nothing about the academics. My son is almost an orthodontist and his is almost a physical therapist. Our Christian school academically prepared the students for whatever they wanted to do.
As a parent, I have encountered the same assumption. Especially when I see what young people are being socialized toward, I agree this is an increasingly problematic assumption.
If anything I would say that maybe his argument was that Christian school doesn't prepare you to deal with the peer pressure of those situations. Much as we like to believe that mere teaching and rooting our child in Christ will prevent any mistakes on the part of our children but there is an element of practice to it and learning how to deal with peers and how to say no. I have known many homeschooled children in particular that leave the path of Christ because when they finally have a great deal of association with peers and they have never had to say no before, they don't know how to keep the faith in face of nonchristian values. This will not be true for all children obviously but for some it definitely is.
1 reply · active 624 weeks ago
I much prefer to train my children to be oak trees with deep, solid roots in Jesus so when they encounter evil, they will recognize it immediately and flee.
I'm a teacher in one of the best public high schools in the country.
I won't be sending my kids to public school.
They can get a good education if the kids are motivated and if the parents are involved, but they are at risk in the process. Our public high schools (and I'm sure elementary and middle schools) offer the students temptation in every way possible, from drugs and sex, to cheating and materialism, to denying their faith.
I couldn't think of a worse place for teenagers to cultivate character. Public school isn't a personal place; the kids, as much as we want to provide for them, are mere numbers. In a school of 2500 students, most of them will be lost in the framework and a few of them will stand out if they're gifted.
Character has been stripped from the curriculum in exchange for political correctness, humanism, and entitlement. College, it seems, isn't much better. I know there are no easy answers to this problem, and so until the system undergoes a major transformation, we will be staying far away after I leave at the end of the year.
1 reply · active 624 weeks ago
Very well stated. Thank you. I feel we must warn parents of the dangers so they can make wise choices for their children. After all, there is no greater joy than to see your children walking in Truth.
I'm reading a Christian fiction novel by Frank E. Peretti right now and came across an interesting line that has stuck with me the last couple of days. The paragraph is about a demon who is in charge of corrupting children/teachers in a public elementary school.

"He was thinking of all those young, impressionable children sitting in all those classrooms down there and what they must be learning right now. As usual, most of his spirit underlings were occupied with that task. They were the best, AND HE REVELED IN THE FACT THAT FOR THE PAST SEVERAL YEARS, EVER SINCE THE LAWS HAD BEEN CHANGED THEIR JOB HAD BEEN SO MUCH EASIER. OH HOW QUICKLY MEN COULD ACCEPT THE MOST OUTRAGEOUS OF LIES ONCE THE TRUTH WAS REMOVED FROM CONSIDERATION!" Emphasis mine, obviously. Truth, even in fiction.

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