Thursday, October 2, 2014

Dealing with a Cluttered Home


Elizabeth Elliott said, "A house that is cluttered is usually lived in by people whose minds are also cluttered, who need to simplify their lives. This begins with simplifying and clarifying their thinking. Mind and life need to be freed from the ‘disorder of the unnecessary."

I posted this on my Facebook page and a woman asked how to achieve this in practical steps. I would think the first thing would be to get rid of clutter. Get rid of everything you don't use or haven't used in a long time. Get rid of a lot of knick knacks. If you have four potato mashers, get rid of two or even three of them. If you haven't worn a piece of clothing for over a year, get rid of it unless it is for a special occasion.

This is a lot easier for people like me who aren't very sentimental and don't like clutter. I love a simple, uncluttered look. I know many of you aren't like me and I don't expect you to be BUT there are always things you can get rid of no matter how much you like knick knacks and how sentimental you are. You must no longer use those as excuses and begin purging your life of unnecessary things.

Having a lot of things just means more things to take care of and to clean. We were never meant to store our treasures here on earth. If you have little children, yes, your home will get messy. However, they don't need a lot of toys and teach them to put them away at an early age. People shouldn't expect you to have a perfectly clean and tidy home when you have children, but you can work on getting it to look more organized.

Clutter's Last Stand is a GREAT book to get if you need help in the decluttering department. Even when it comes to Christmas decorations, do you really need that many? I know some people go ALL out for holidays and decorate their homes. I follow some blogs who do this and they are lovely homes. If that is your thing, go for it but many just don't have the space to store it all or the time to put it all up and take it all down. I have just pared mine down to a few of my favorite and most meaningful things.

Some will complain that they just don't have the discipline to keep an orderly, uncluttered home. YES you do!!! If you are a believer and filled with the Holy Spirit, you have self-control since it is a fruit of the Spirit. Stop saying you aren't disciplined and remind yourself who you are in Christ and that you have ALL you need for life and godliness.

Therefore, take small steps and begin decluttering one area of your home. Have your children help you. Part of your job as a keeper at home is to keep a well-run home and a home with no clutter is always a more peaceful home and a whole lot easier to keep clean and tidy than a cluttered one. It will be good for your body, mind and soul!

But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, 
patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, 
gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law.
Galatians 5:22,23

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This exact thing has been on my mind lately. Last week I was looking at my house and actually thought about how my house looks like the inside of my brain. Seriously. I grew up in a cluttered home though, and my mother also had (and still has) a cluttered mind. I'm in the process of decluttering both mentally and materialistically right now. My mindset right now is this: my past =/= my family's future. (That's an "equals not" sign. Sorry, I'm kinda nerdy.)
1 reply · active 547 weeks ago
Cute, Mrs. P! I am glad you explained it. Our past definitely doesn't have to be our future. It may take more discipline to change but it will be well worth it for you and your children's sake!
I love "Clutters Last Stand" and also would recommend Speed Cleaning by Jeff Campbell.
1 reply · active 547 weeks ago
His books are good also!
Agreed! It is very freeing to get rid if clutter. I have read a few books on keeping a Christian home organized and clean. One thing they really spoke to me was reading that EVERYTHING you have in your house takes energy. A book, an article of clothing, even a paperclip. Because everything needs to be either cleaned, moved around or dealt with in some way. Also, just setting the timer for just fifteen minutes a day to clear clutter and organize can really make a huge difference when you feel overwhelmed. Or cleaning out one drawer or shelf a day. Even if you are feeling lazy, if you are watching TV, get up during commercials and do a bit here and there.. My mother always taught me that when shopping, remember that for each item you bring home, one item in the house needs to go. It can be difficult to do, but it is a good goal to keep in mind. Take advantage of the days when you are in the mood to clean and declutter. Getting your children involved will teach them valuable skills and can make it easier too. Less clutter equals greater blessings in life all around, in my opinion! I have much more time, space, energy and mental clarity. And a peaceful satisfaction in knowing my home is a welcoming, hospitable environment for my family and guests.
1 reply · active 547 weeks ago
Many great tips, Katie! Thank you for sharing.
When we got our house ready to sell back in 2007 I put any unecessary things in boxes and stored them. I LOVED the simple, clean freeing feeling of the house. But, I knew that my things were only temporarily stored. I am by no means a hoarder but do come from a long line on my dad's side so I suppose it could be in my blood. Anyway...add to that how sentimental I am about all my grandparents things and well...I do have a lot of knick knacks. Part of me needs the clutter-free but the other part needs my sentimental stuff. What a vicious circle!!! I think I will get that book you mention. Maybe it will inspire me!
1 reply · active 547 weeks ago
It will definitely inspire you! The reason I am not sentimental is because I realize it is all going to burn someday anyway. Only what we do for Christ {putting our time and effort into people instead of stuff} will last!
You are right...it will all burn. I need to try to keep that in my mind...at least for some of the stuff. Thank you Lori.
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thejoyfilledwife · 547 weeks ago

I am very passionate about this subject. If life feels chaotic, cluttering and organizing your home should be one of the first things on the list. Having a clean and tidy home makes more of a difference than most people realize. It's just not fun waking up to clutter and, in most cases, encourages you to subconsciously much more easily go back to sleep so you don't have to deal with it. Keep your home neat and clean and you will find more motivation to get things done.
I LOVE decluttering actually! lol. I don't want all this junk hanging around. That's just more for me to pick up. If only my family felt the same way.... :)

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