Wednesday, February 25, 2015

NEVER Paid a Penny in Interest!


She was born in 1963. She was the fifth and final child in her family. Her mother was a stay-at-home mom and her dad, who is 91 years old and looks amazing, would work three jobs to keep food on the table. He knew where every single penny was spent. He never had debt and never wanted to pay interest on anything. If the family needed something, they would save up until they had enough money. He bought his cars and home with cash. He never overspent. She said their childhood was a happy one!

Her mom would go to the second day bakery and they all wore hand me downs but they had a lot of fun. Their vacations were at a friend's cabin at a river near their home. Children today get gifts all the time; they got a gift at Christmas and their birthday and that was it. They never felt as if they were struggling; they just lived on a very strict budget.

Her dad went through the Great Depression and she feels that he has the key to healthy financial living. He never paid a penny on interest. He has a relationship with cash; something this generation knows nothing about. We have a relationship with our credit cards. "In my day, you'd get a quarter and spend 15 cents and save a dime. Your generation gets a quarter, you spend the quarter; you borrow another quarter at 23 % interest."

His first pay check was $3.63. He's from the era of sticking to a budget. He had a couple of envelopes and used cash. He kept track of every penny he made; his income and every bill that needed to be paid were in a little book from 1942 to the day he retired in 1990. "You need to pay yourself first and save some each time you are paid. Save it as if you didn't have it because you are going to need it eventually."

Now, they own their home and they are well set financially but they still live frugally and within his budget. This is her dad's mindset: If you can't afford to pay it with cash, you don't buy it. Whereas, we go shopping, hand over the plastic and have no idea what we're signing or how much we've spent. If you had to turn over $100 bills there's no way we would spend so much. MIT did a study and there is a pain associated with turning over cash, but you do not have that pain when you turn over plastic.

Stay home. You don't need granite counter tops, stainless steel appliances and brand new cars. Learn to live simply and within your husband's income. Be content with buying needs instead of getting wants. Get rid of clutter and stop wasting time on the iPhone and computer. Keep your homes clean and tidy. Fix nourishing food from scratch.

We expect too much today. We want what we want, when we want. We are not willing to wait patiently for anything, therefore, we are a nation deep in debt. I encourage you to get out of all debt. Stop paying money on interest, if at all possible. Live simply, frugally and content!

Owe no man any thing, but to love one another: 
for he that loveth another hath fulfilled the law.
Romans 13:8

***To get you started, here are my recipes for homemade laundry and dishwasher detergent and a very cheap, non-toxic and effective all purpose cleaner!

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Thank you for this post! I love posts like this-We live like this about 80% of the time. I keep track of all expenses and we live on a small income, always have, but we managed to put 3 children through Christian School and college. It is a lifestyle choice, what is more important.We don't have an i phone , just an old flip top & no cable. Having a thankful heart is a sign of contentment.
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People today feel like they need so much stuff and so much of it is so expensive. All the new technology and how quickly it is updated is mind boggling. Yes, godliness with contentment is great gain!
Thank you Lori. I appreciate this. We are trying to pay off all debt. We moved to an apartment and I homeschool. I would like to get a desk to organize my child's homeschool materials/crafts and for her to use to do her homework. I found one reasonably priced on Craig's List. Should I avoid purchases like these until we are out of debt? What about second-hand decor for the kid's room?
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I would only buy what you absolutely need until you get out of debt, Michelle. Can they do their work at the kitchen table? Your children can live without decor until you are out of debt. Debt is so spoken against in Scripture that I would do everything I could to get out of it before buying things that are not truly needed. It calls us "slaves" if we have debt!
Thanks Lori for the good advice. I have to update you. I had already scheduled to see the desk and so had to let him know I wouldn't be coming today. He replied back that if I was still interested in it he would sell it to me for the price I first asked him for. So I decided to go see it. (And felt very conflicted). A little later he let me know that a part of the desk is missing (but can easily be fixed). I wrote and told him I hadn't realized that and didn't think I would buy it. (I felt at peace again). But before I sent the message I let my husband see it. My husband told me that I shouldn't let that stop me from looking at it if I was still really interested so instead I wrote and told him that I would still come by. (I felt conflicted again). He told me he'd call after 6pm to give me directions. So later this evening I went by the store to get some cash. On the way there I prayed that the Lord's will be done since I knew I really wanted the desk (I had drooled over Pinterest photos of painted desks and already knew exactly what I was going to do with this and all the stuff I would be able to store in it). So I knew I had to give my heart over to God so that I would make the right decision. Which is the decision I knew from the start and was confirmed by your earlier response. When I got to check out and get my cash I couldn't for the life of me remember my bank card number! I called my husband and he couldn't remember either! and he has a memory of steel. So after about 10 combined tries on the register and separate ATM I gave up and left. (And I felt at peace again). So to top it all off, he hasn't even called. I think the Lord has been speaking loud and clear since this morning.
God works and convicts in very mysterious ways! ;)
Well said!
Glad you are passing this on.
And how much happier without all that clutter!
I have recently started to address spending again. I say again because I have run our home for 27years. We are well enough off not to count pennies but I just feel we need to save more to have a dowry of sorts for our daughters and leave an inheritance for our sons. So the first place to save is in food and shopping. I hope to gear up our vegetable garden yields and have stopped buying extras. There is a great book I read years ago called Miserly Moms which was a great starting point in case someone is needing help in this area.
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Thank you, Wendy! Food and shopping is a great place to begin saving.
My husband ranches and farms. He has always provided well for us and has always paid for everything in full, with the exception of buying land. The banker has even told me how much they think of him and how hard he works, etc and that we're doing well for being so young. My husband recently built a new machine shed that he needed to store equipment, and I've been dealing with some jealousy because we live in the original home (our farm goes back 5 generations) and the house is almost 100 years old. It has been kept up and maintained, and we've made it our own place, yet it's still pretty old and outdated. What's hard is many of the younger couples and friends in our area are all building new houses. I really have to keep my heart in check and not be jealous of their beautiful homes. I remind myself that at least we are very stable financially and we always have more than enough. My husband said we'd have enough for a new house too, but he prefers to save that money and invest it back in the farm. We love each other dearly and he has always been so good and faithful to me. Yet every time I walk outside and see the brand new shed, I cringe a little. So now I'll tell myself a good husband, a beautiful 4-year-old girl and a healthy bank account is more important, as well as many other blessings we have.

Needless to say, this post spoke volumes to me. I needed to read this today as it was just last night I was confessing my jealousy to my husband and asked him to help hold me accountable. Many times your posts seem to come right when I need them.
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It's wonderful that you confess your sin to your husband, Katie. The Bible commands that we confess our sins to one another and pray for each other. It is a very good practice to get into. The first place to begin is simply recognizing our sin! Just doing this means you've come a long way to stopping to do it!
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FREEINDEED! · 526 weeks ago

Agreed! Katie - these are the kinds of sinful thoughts that people harbor for decades. You are very wise to name it and confess it! This kind of stuff can rot the marriage if not dealt with swiftly, as you have done! Way to go, sister!
Thank you both! I used to think that if I confessed to God alone that was enough, but I really am discovering that although it can be scary or embarrassing to confess, to my husband or whomever I feel I need to confess to, it helps me tremendously to turn away from my sin. And my husband knows me so well, that often he isn't surprised when I confess. It's humbling, but i takes a weight off of my shoulders. My husband's prayers and guidance have really helped. I just wish I would've done this all sooner as I know now I can trust him and he has my best intentions at heart.
This is a very personal matter and whilst some families want to scrimp, save and live as frugal as they can, others don’t and I think that is ok if it works for them (and they aren’t getting into debt to live that lifestyle). My husband and I want to live comfortably (especially into retirement) and be able to afford treats both for our children and for each other (such as books). We don’t want to watch every penny and we do want to be able to afford to help our children when we can (which we currently do) and our future grandchildren. I also think it is important to buy quality (which costs more) as it lasts much longer so when we had our kitchen renovated we did spend more than usual, but now we have a kitchen that will last many years so it was money well spent. One needs to be wise with money and not make it the centre of one’s life. And it’s so important to not judge others if they have two cars or go on holidays etc.. as their situation is likely to be different to yours. Whether rich or poor or somewhere in the middle – money should never be the centre of your life.
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Jo, I just wrote this on my Facebook wall yesterday and SO many people liked it. In fact, it got the most likes by far of anything I have ever posted, "In my Grandmother's day, no woman was ever asked what she did for a living. A woman's job was her home; where she cooked, cleaned, and raised a family. The majority of them were very content making a house into a home because they knew they were right where they were suppose to be."

Many women long to be home full-time and be a homemaker. It is because God created us to be keepers at home and many women must sacrifice a lot financially to be able to do this and I applaud them. I will continue to encourage women to go home, if at all possible.
I would love to be at home (I have a pile of quilts that I need to finish) — part time at least but this isn’t an option at this stage (as I am the sole earner) and I accept that as its Gods will and not mine. Regardless we are content in our current situation and live very comfortably and able to help our children when necessary and I do what I can for my father (who lives in another state). I think it is wonderful when women are doing what they love, but many (in Australia at least) have to rely on government welfare to get by and that is starting to tighten up as the government find ways of making savings and I wonder how some families will cope. One can only be so frugal before it becomes very difficult.
My husband and I agreed when we got married that we were going to pay cash for everything and not use credit cards. Our friends thought we were crazy when we saved up to buy the furniture we wanted, using old pieces from our apartments in the meantime. I look back with happy memories to those years spent going to estate sales, creating our living space little by little. There were lean times when my husband was between jobs, but we weathered it because we had no debt to worry about. Thanks, Lori! Your post is filled with wise words, as always!
1 reply · active 526 weeks ago
You're welcome, Tam! I try to get my wisdom from the Great Wisdom Giver!

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