Monday, December 30, 2013

Kay Treats Phil Like A King


There is a video of Phil Robertson and his wife speaking about their marriage. I was very curious to see what they said about it so I listened. I am very happy I did! These are his words exactly ~

"Miss Kay is an exact replica of Sarah, Abraham's wife: kind, gentle-spirited and great work in God's sight...She treats me like a king. She literally treats me as her master. I don't force her to. She's just that kinda woman."

Kay is a godly, submissive wife who honors and obeys her husband, very rare indeed in this day and age.

For ten years while Phil lived as a "heathen," in Kay's words, she remembered her godly grandmother's words, "'One man, one wife' and they never left me. You're going to have to fight for your marriage." After fighting for her marriage for 10 years and realizing she couldn't do it on her own, that is when she fell to her knees and came to her own faith.

Kay said that for ten years, Phil was mean while living a godless life. She would tell her three small sons that this mean man that they called "dad" was not who their real dad was. She stuck by his side through the "worse" part of "for better or for worse" and won him to the Lord without a word {I Peter 3:1}.

Phil finally found Jesus. "The resurrection of the dead trumps the momentary pleasure of sin." He pointed to Kay and said,"That's my little sex machine over there and that's all I need."

By staying by his side for better or for worse, Kay sanctified her husband as the Bible says {I Corinthians 7:14}. She "renders him due benevolence." Kay is a great example for us to follow.

Even as Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him lord:  
whose daughters ye are, as long as ye do well, 
and are not afraid with any amazement.
I Peter 3:6

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Almost brought tears to my eyes. They are a treasure to watch on t.v. these days. I just posted something on FB about 25 ways to show your husband respect. Several of them were more or less ways to submit. "Smile at him, be joyous no matter what, etc." I have not gotten one "like" so far. haha! I know people must think I am crazy, but God's ways are the only ways I have found that work, and can resurrect dead marriages. It works for our marriage, and it worked for Phil and Kay. And my husband really looks up to Phil and that's his favorite person on the show (And honestly, he kind of looks like how my husband will when he is 60 if he grows a beard, which is kind of weird to think about). My husband is tall and slender but atheletic looking, and wears camo's a lot when he's not at work (he loves to hunt and does whenever he can). If he starts making me cook some squirrel we may have to re-evaluate some things. haha! I also never thought I would marry a man who wore camo, but mine does! Oh well. Thanks again, Lori!
It's been interesting watch this entire scenario unfold. To me it has gone farther to call out the "intolerance" of the left rather than conservatives. I have seen and heard more outlandish comments from folks who clearly didn't take time to read the article and I believe the entire thing was a set up by GQ. I worked in PR and Corporate Communications for a Fortune 500 company for many, many years and one thing is clear. Phil Robertson's publicist should be fired for accepting an interview with that particular publication...or should they? Maybe everyone involved knew that question would come up and exactly how Phil would answer that particular question and that got this discussion going! I have been very surprised at many of the youth who support Phil that I never would have expected and are standing their ground with their peers on the subject. I think this has been a good thing and even better watching A&E cave on their stance. So maybe their publicity folks should re-think jumping our there and apologizing for Phil while still running a DD marathon. Lots of good and healthy debate has come out of this media event:) I also want to add that you can love and show kindness to those with whom you disagree.
They really are a Proverbs 31 couple. Miss Kay is busy, industrious and Godly and Phil who is an Elder, praises her at the gates.
Calling his wife his "little sex machine" seems rather demeaning and objectifying. I don't know much about this show... would most people write off that comment as him just being manly and indelicate? I guess it's not so bad if it's a lighthearted joke and he really does respect his wife as a whole person. But when I read that I thought, "If that's a godly husband, I'm glad mine isn't!"
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I've never watched this show but I hear a lot of good things about it. I think one good thing is these folks are getting the world to start a conversation about God and faith that maybe they weren't ready for before. Marriage takes work, and I"m glad to hear celebrities say so, Lori. They have a great opportunity to make an impact for God.
I only recently starting watching the show & I was really struck by the true love connection between Kay & Phil. They are definitely quite funny, relaxed (not uptight & overly religious!) but sincere in their faith. With the recent controversy surrounding the show, our family knew we should stand by them (we prayed, used social media, etc.) and are glad to hear about the outcome.
We need more examples of what sincere, devout christian couples would look like in the media...Thanks for sharing your post!
I just look at their eyes. That is love. God's love. They just absolutely adore each other. Kay isn't trying to change Phil, and with all that they have been through she is a rock. His rock and he absolutely adores her for it. I love watching them.
His comment was regarding the sexual temptation fame brings and how Miss Kaye is all he needs. Goodnight. Married men are susposed to want their wives and I dont think I have seen a happier women then Miss Kaye.
LOVE IT!
What I love to see on the show is how *he* treats Miss Kay. It's quite obvious he's willing to do whatever she wants him to. He is completely devoted to her, and calls her his best friend. Yes, she is submisive to him, but it's quite obvious that he is willing to do what she likes nearly all the time.

Loved the episode where she wanted a new pet turtle and he sat at the edge of the water catching turtle after turtle until she found the one she wanted. And then, when she suddenly said she wanted the new one to have a 'friend' he went right back to catching them until she found another one to take home.
Found this web page through a Wifey Wednesday link up. It is encouraging and refreshing! Thank you for such great content. I just subscribed!
Hi Courtney

I read Cooper’s post with interest and became repulsed by his the ridiculous correlation between patriarchy and the objectification of women. I hate to even take the time to address his ridiculous postulations as they have zero merit, and if he was conscientious about his study of patriarchy he would know this.

The fact that Stu Webber accurately points out the obvious that women’s bodies were made for reproduction can in no way lead to Cooper’s conclusion: “In its hyper-sexualization of the female body, secular society upholds essentialist patriarchal ideals: women cannot think, theorize, write, speak publically, or be public leaders of men.”

Patriarchal ideals are against the objectifying of a woman’s body as a “one man - one wife ” ideal seeks modesty and keeping our wives and daughters out of any sexual limelight. This has been the pattern of Christian patriarchy since its beginnings. Sexual purity is of the utmost importance to anyone who holds a patriarchal view. Family is far more important to patriarchy than sex, relationships the ideal, not sexual things.

Webber’s quote says nothing about a woman’s ability to perhaps out think, out speak and out lead men, but only that men were built by God to find their natural bent in being the protector and bread winner of a monogamous relationship. Take one look at Lori and at me, understand her make up and mine, her stamina and mine, and you will quickly conclude that I am the one who should be working outside the home 50 hours a week to make sure that our family is well fed, dressed and has a comfortable roof over our heads; and Lori is better to insure that the house becomes a home and the kids are raised well. This does not mean that our roles never cross over, nor does it mean that she is not more intelligent, or a better thinker than I am. We simply must do our thinking and use our intelligence within the bodies and roles that God and nature has given to us.

Any true attempt to look at the objectification of women as sex objects will lead one far from Christian patriarchy. Instead I believe it can be found in the natural unbridled depravity of mankind and sin. Because sexual sin is so prevalent, the more sin abounds in a society the more women will be used, and viewed by many as an object to fulfill a fundamental need outside of God’s clear design for marriage. It is Hollywood who must bear the blame for the vast majority of our current views of women as sex objects as most movies and television regularly show women sleeping around outside God’s order and design.

This is so far from the ideals of patriarchy it is not even funny and I can only conclude that Cooper is some young student trying to become a professor some day at one of our large universities that Denis Prager rails against because of the almost complete lack of wisdom and intellectual integrity left in academia. Cooper writes an article that quotes an intelligent thought just to blurt out his own bias with an absurd correlation. I would never send my kids to a secular school to study religion or philosophy of religion precisely because they cannot learn the truth from a club of high minded thinkers who are contrary to anything truly Biblical or Christian because they have no anchor in God’s Word.
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Intelligence abounds in academia but it is unchecked by wisdom, which starts with the acknowledgment and fear of God. God says what happens when mankind refuses to acknowledge that there is a Creator God and that they will stand before Him some day and give an account.

"For although they knew God, they did not honor him as God or give thanks to him, but they became futile in their thinking, and their foolish hearts were darkened. Claiming to be wise, they became fools" (Romans 1).

I am very familiar with those who get Philosophy of Religion degrees at secular universities. The stuff they write, say, teach and believe is all about religion as if it is all made up by mankind and God does not really exist, or if He exists he cannot truly be known for he has not shown Himself clearly in History and through His Word.

Start with a false premise and you will end far away from any truth. The University system by its own admission is humanistic and is helping to build a new Tower of Babel based on intelligence and technology to take mankind to great heights. But in the end it is all foolishness until man puts God into the equation.

Just ask yourself this. With all you know and can see in the world system, if the God of Christianity is the true Creator God, would that not change almost everything in your perspective and in the perspective of Universities if just that truth were acknowledged?

The fact that you and I can carry on an intelligent conversation at all, is all the proof God needs of His existence, yet mankind works so hard to avoid the obvious that God not only exists, but has been reaching out since the beginning of Creation to create a family of God, and a relationship with all of mankind.

Read this list I just found on the dangerous things that Universities teach from Pager and you will find it includes: "We live in a patriarchal society, which is injurious to women." Prager
http://www.dennisprager.com/what-kids-now-learn-i...

I enjoy your questions and hope that I am not coming off too harsh or difficult in my responses. That is certainly not my intent :) nor heart.
You asked, "With all you know and can see in the world system, if the God of Christianity is the true Creator God, would that not change almost everything in your perspective and in the perspective of Universities…?" I consider the purpose of research and study to be searching for the truth. If the evidence leads to a God, then great! But I don't know… maybe the more we learn, the more we find that there are natural explanations for everything, and the supernatural explanations of our ancestors fall away in light of our growing understanding. I think "intellectual honesty" means following the best evidence, even if where it leads isn't what we were hoping for. I get the impression that Christians think atheists are atheists because they're against God or don't want to be held accountable for their actions or something. But I think most atheists in academia are intellectually honest; they've studied it out for themselves and just don't see the evidence leading to a god or gods. Just my perspective. You don't come across harsh. I hope I don't either.

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