Women aren't taught the importance of homemaking anymore. One of their most important jobs, if they are a wife and mother, is to keep a clean, tidy home and prepare healthy, nourishing food. There are just too many distractions that seem to cause women to neglect these important jobs.
Many women don't even cook anymore. The single most important thing to having healthy bodies is to prepare your own food from scratch. This takes time. If you eat a lot of fresh food, you have to shop more often. Washing and cutting up salads and vegetables takes a lot of time, but it is worth it.
Healthy husbands and children should be a priority over spending time on the computer, watching television, or doing home projects. It should even be more important than church Bible studies or other ministries. Your first ministry is to your family.
Clean and tidy homes should also be a priority. God is a God of order, peace, and beauty. You need to spend time every day making sure your home is picked up and cleaned. Train your children to help you as soon as they start walking. Here are several verses about disorder ~
I went by the field of the slothful, and by the vineyard of the man void of understanding: And, lo, it was all grown over with thorns, and nettles had covered the face thereof, and the stone wall thereof was broken down.
Proverbs 24:30,31
By much slothfulness the building decays; and through idleness of the hands the house drops through.
Ecclesiastes 10:18
We need to be good steward of what the Lord has blessed up with. We need to be hard workers and take good care of our family's health and home. We need to be lights to a dark world in all areas.
Don't let clutter take control of your life. You take control of clutter. Remember, everything is going to burn someday. Don't hold onto things you aren't using. Give them to someone who might need and use them. Don't hoard. Remember that God is your provider. Hold onto things very loosely.
So no matter how much or how little money that you have or how big or small your home is now, make it a clean and organized home. This promotes peace in husband and children. This is your job, ladies. Don't expect your husbands to do your work. You do your work with a cheerful and thankful attitude!
And whatsoever you do, do it heartily,
as to the Lord, and not unto men.
as to the Lord, and not unto men.
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Joluise · 683 weeks ago
My husband and I do share some chores - for some reason he loves to vaccum so I let him!!
jbeane6 36p · 683 weeks ago
You really can't "do it all" or "have it all".
My husband is incredibly helpful and very appreciative. It wasn't always so but has been worth the wait.
God's ways are the best..
Brit · 683 weeks ago
I agree about turning off the TV and computer! A while ago we had to cancel our TV for financial reasons. We had cable because our house is not in a good spot to get antenna signal, so we have no TV now. We tried to get another atenna, but it doesn't work. Both my husband and I have been so surprised at how we don't really miss it at all. I don't even think about it. We do have Netflix that we watch sometimes. I definitely get a lot more done when I don't get hooked on any shows.
Brit · 683 weeks ago
I'm a type A personality and I struggle with thinking my house has to be perfect ALL the time. When it doesn't I feel like a failure. I remember our house being a mess the few weeks after having my son and crying thinking I was a bad mom because I couldn't "do it all!" Have you felt like this? How did you overcome the need for a "perfect" house 24/7.
I also really struggled keeping up with housework the first 3 months of this pregnancy. I was so sick, tired and I had 2 1-year-olds to take care of. I again struggled with the need to be the perfect wife/mother with a perfect house.
I agree that this is an important skill, but we need to be careful to not be too hard on ourselves!
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Rightthinker · 683 weeks ago
I've written a lot on my blog about keeping a clean, organized and welcoming home. Today, it seems "home" is just a landing spot for everyone with all their separate activities-soccer, clubs, etc., and their technology. I think it's very sad. No wonder no one wants to be at home..entertainment and involvement reigns supreme over home being a refuge!
No matter where we go, my husband and I, and our children, look FORWARD to returning home, and just because we have 6 homeschooled children, doesn't mean we are "super busy" the way the world defines it. We are home focused, and our home is our refuge, away from the world and all the bombardment of "be like us" we can't, and don't wish to attain.
It's such bologna that because we have children we can't have a clean home. One of the most important principles to impart to children is a sense of thankfulness for what they have been blessed with. That comes from responsibility through chores! Our children all contribute..even the 18 month old, to learning to keep our home a peaceful and clean sanctuary for the Lord and our family and to be hospitable.
I have a schedule and a routine and an extremely clean home and cook fully from scratch. Not because I'm better or I have some secret, but I have commitment and devotion and joy. If my family isn't healthy, it will take far more time to care for and pay for a sickly family. If they do not develop responsibility and hard work ethic via chores, they won't care to serve others..they'll be selfish. Today, because so many families have only one or two children by choice, they believe that they must be their constant playmate..they feel "guilty" when having more children that they cannot spend the time entertaining them.
I play with my children, sure, and daddy does as well. Yet, is that our most important role? No way. They have tons of siblings for play, and we have Christian friends. My most important role is to be a gate keeper of this home, a home manager, and to instruct them first in the Lord, and then in their studies, and to bring them up understanding they are NOT THE ONLY people on the planet..they serve a bigger purpose, and they are not here to be constantly entertained..purchased for..busy...and "happy".
Happiness comes through service of our Lord, plain and simple. Modern life of being busy, away from home, fast food based and rejecting the notion that we should actually care about our homes and blessings, hasn't brought anyone happiness..even the feminists that proclaimed it would.
Erin · 683 weeks ago
PJB · 683 weeks ago
Firstly, why is it that you consider home management to be an exclusively feminine ministry? It seems to me that persons of either gender are more than capable of managing the home environment and benefiting their family members by that ministry.
Secondly, why do you compare the worth of home-making as a ministry against the worth of other ministries? Clearly there are many valuable ministries -- and I'm not understanding your foundation for the concept of comparing their importance.
It seems to me that there is such a thing as 'adequate' home making, which might not be ideal. If a person's home environment is adequate, thereafter, would you say a person's remaining energy best directed towards improving one's home-making ministry to ideal levels, or can the home remain 'adequate' and the person's remaining energy be directed elsewhere? Is there freedom in these things?
Hayley · 683 weeks ago
We know that as mothers and wives, our first ministry is to our families because that is the biblical order of things. We can always be sure that we are doing the right thing when doing what is best for our families!
Jasanna · 683 weeks ago
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ayearinskirts 66p · 683 weeks ago
I agree with the sentiment in this post but wanted to mention something as well. (Just as a food for thought.)
Whenever I read a post like this from well, anyone really, there is always a picture of an extremely beautiful well decorated room. I do wish sometimes that posts like this showed a fully average, or even slightly below average decor. To show that a clean and tidy home is inviting and a blessing, even with brown speckled carpet and outdated wood siding. I say this because it's just like reading a post about diet and exercise and have the picture always be of a fitness model, rather than an average woman. Over time it causes the reader to have a distorted sense of what health and beauty really is. With our homes I think it can also contribute to people not appreciating what they have.
Mind you, I'm not blaming you! It's just something I've noticed in general and wanted to mention it.
Nacole · 683 weeks ago
very convicting and sobering. this will have me thinking toward positive change.
blessings to you!
~Nacole
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Jennifer · 683 weeks ago
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thesimplejoysofhome 12p · 683 weeks ago
Thanks for sharing on what turned out to be a touchy subject.
Blessings,
Elisabeth
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