Sunday, November 22, 2015

Men Make Better Pastors


All Christians who believe the Bible will affirm that the office of elder {Pastors are simply the elders who labor in preaching and teaching} is limited to men. We affirm this because the Bible says it with greater clarity than almost anything else.

However, as we affirm this truth, we often make the mistake of giving too much ground. Given what Scripture says, we should not affirm that a woman would make a fine pastor, but we can't do that because Scripture does not permit us to do it. She would not make a fine pastor.

The reason for this is very straightforward: a woman would make a terrible pastor because she would exercise her pastoral duties without the aid of the Holy Spirit. The Spirit will not empower us to do what the Spirit has explicitly commanded us not to do. In short: men make better pastors because faithful, qualified men are empowered by the Spirit to do the Spirit's work. {Tim Dukeman on Facebook}

There are many good women Bible teachers. I have no problem with women teaching the Word of God for even Paul wrote to Timothy how his faith was taught to him by his mother and grandmother {2 Timothy 1:5}. We must be women of the Word and know Truth so we can pass it down to the next generation.

However, I do have a big problem with women who stand behind podiums in churches and teach the Word to men since this is strictly forbidden. Let your women keep silence in the churches: for it is not permitted unto them to speak; but they are commanded to be under obedience, as also saith the law. And if they will learn anything, let them ask their husbands at home: for it is a shame for women to speak in the church {1 Corinthians 14:34, 35}. Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection. But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence {1 Timothy 2:11, 12}.

Men are to be the leaders and preachers in the church! This is how God ordained it and we must obey it. If you go to a church with women preachers and teachers of men, I encourage you to find another church who obeys the Word of God. We must fear God and take His Word seriously, women! It’s not something we want to fool around with. I would NEVER feel comfortable teaching in a church service or a Bible study where men were present since I know this is not my role.

***The picture I used is John MacArthur. He has been faithfully preaching the Word for many years. In fact, I went to his church once in a while when I was in high school, a long time ago. He is one of the very best expositors of the Bible today. If you want to listen to his sermons, go HERE.

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Lori - I was just reading the cover article in the Nov. issue of The Restoration Herald. I checked the computer because your post usually arrives early. I was surprised to see that your post is about the same topic. The author of the article ended up leaving the church they and their family had attended for so many years. You ended your thoughts with "I know this is not my role." What peace we (men and women) find when we study scripture and honor God by living within His plan for us. Thanks for this article! I don't know your policy on mentioning publications so if this is unacceptable that is fine, just wanted to share this with you.
1 reply · active 488 weeks ago
You're absolutely right, Lori - women cannot and should not be pastors. In fact, having women pastors is usually one of the first concrete signs that a church or denomination is headed straight downward.

I do respectfully disagree with you on one point - I do not believe that women should be Bible teachers, except in areas specifically commanded for women to teach other women (Titus verses on marriage and homemaking, etc.). Women teaching the Bible through non-pastoral means will still fall into the same errors that female pastors do (being led by emotion, taking spiritual authority over men, etc.). I have no problem buying a specifically "women's book" written by a woman (i.e. a book on being a wife, mother, homemaker), but I do not buy books of theology written by women. We believe that the job of teaching the Bible in the church (and the church includes the universal body of believers at all times, not only when we are gathered in a church building) has been given to men. My husband and I also avoid Bible translations that include female translators, for the same reason. I know that you don't agree on this point, but I wanted to bring it up!

By the way, I love John MacArthur! So much good stuff in his work. He is so uncompromising and yet gentle in how he teaches. A great combination. We always watch his church's Christmas concert live on the web each year.

Have a wonderful Thanksgiving!!
20 replies · active 487 weeks ago
Good post today Lori! I don't agree with women being the head pastor over a church body however I do believe that a female can hold the office of pastor in which she may be called to pastor women and shepherd women within the body or fellowship she is a part of. Also there are many women who are called along with their husband to be the head pastors of a church where she then assists the women in and with a shepherding heart.

My dad is a pastor and Ii studying the different offices spoken about in Ephesians for quite some time I have found that now a days many seem to believe that a pastor and teacher have the same calling or that an elder is the same as a pastor however the Greek words that were used to describe these "titles" are not the same at all. An elder described in the Word is simply the mature and "aged" men of the fellowship that is being referred to whereas a pastor carries an actual office through the HS in order to shepherd the hearts of those within that specific fellowship. Anyway, that's my 2 cents. :-)
Enjoy your Sunday!!
1 reply · active 487 weeks ago
Our church has only male leadership (except for children's Bible class teachers) and I appreciate the adherence to the Bible in this matter. I think a lot of churches start to go wrong in their understanding of the role of 'pastor'. What we term 'pastor' is also termed 'elder' and 'bishop' in the Bible. These aren't necessarily the same role as a preacher. Many churches call their preacher "pastor" although their preacher does not fit the definition of a pastor. Not only must a pastor be male, but he must be married, have children who are believers and be hospitable (as well as other attributes). Many people call single male preachers "pastor" or men without children or believing children "pastor" . I think with churches playing so fast and loose with the term, it is easy and unfortunate to continue to expand on the true Biblical definition of that role, ergo female "pastors".

Also while a pastor may also be a preaching pastor, I believe there is confusion when only one person is called "pastor" while the rest are called "elders". In Timothy we are told, "The elders who rule well are to be considered worthy of double honor, especially those who work hard at preaching and teaching. So unlike the definition "Pastors are simply the elders who labor in preaching and teaching" I believe scripture calls all of them both elders AND pastors although those who rule well or work hard at preaching and teaching should be given double honor.
1 reply · active 488 weeks ago
Amen, Lori! The scripture is so clear on this. Have a wonderful Thanksgiving with your family!
1 reply · active 488 weeks ago
I totally agree. How would you counsil a woman who believes this biblical truth but her husband doesn't really know or care and chooses to attend a local church who occasionally have women teach?
2 replies · active 487 weeks ago
Hi Lori, The church my husband and I attend has only male pastors but occasionally one of the women will lead us in prayer or read a bible verse before the pastor gives his sermon. Is this ok? We have only recently started to attend this chuch and appreciate its traditional values

thanks
Miriam
1 reply · active 487 weeks ago
I keep having this thought about it too....our home ought to reflect our church, and vice versa. In the home, we know that the husband was created to be spiritually responsible for the wife and children. He will be held accountable to the Lord for that one day. In the church, a man will be held accountable for the condition of his flock. Both need a man to be the head. We (women) were not meant to be held accountable in that for which they (men) will answer.
1 reply · active 488 weeks ago
Our church absolutely stands by those verses-it's actually why our church came to be as the former church started approving female preachers. My husband was a toddler and my father-in-law and his father helped build our current church. They refuse to allow a woman to speak over a man while learning. We are encouraged to feel free to ask our husbands or pastor, or a woman in good standing with the church if we have questions afterward. With the older high school students in Sunday school, they will not allow a woman to teach (allow they can mentor the girls) because some of the boys are 18 or older and they feel that is too close to being an adult. Families are allowed to vote one time on important church decisions (like when extending a call to a new pastor, electing new elders and deacons, etc) and the men are always encouraged to allow their wives in the decision making process, but the men get the final vote. Widows and single women over 18 are allowed to vote as long as they are members and in good standing with the church (men have to be in good standing too), but we have widows who won't even vote them for those reasons. Women's bible studies are led by women who are approved by the council to teach, but all other Bible studies are led by men or the pastor himself. Not claiming this is all 100% biblical, but that is how our church does things and my husband and I love attending it and haven't found anything unbiblical yet. I teach the preschool class and really enjoy it, yet take it very seriously. I would not be comfortable teaching older teenage boys, that's for sure! I'm blessed that my husband has always been very good about explaining how things are done and involving me in making decisions, but I always remind him that if he doesn't agree with me, I respect his final decision. Sometimes I'm in awe of how much God changes us for the better as when we were first married, this was all very difficult for me to accept. Now I don't think twice about it and I know God's given me a good and patient husband to lead me.
2 replies · active 487 weeks ago
Thanks for standing on the word of God! Very refreshing article! God bless:)
What is your opinion of Joyce Meyer? I've heard her support female pastors.
1 reply · active 472 weeks ago

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