Thursday, November 5, 2015

Children Need a Bible and a Belt


Have you noticed that the more politically correct this culture gets, the worse off it gets for everybody? Many believe that we need to get rid of guns since they are the cause of so many violent deaths. No, guns aren't the cause of all the violent deaths we are seeing today with people going into classrooms and murdering children. People have owned guns in America since it began over 200 years ago and nothing like this has been seen until the past ten years.

The causes of so many unnatural deaths we are seeing today is because we live in a culture of death. Millions of babies are being murdered in the womb. Feminism has caused the death of many marriages; wives have left their homes for careers and no longer have time to be help meets to their husbands or raise their children. Our entitlement mentality and lifetime welfare culture has caused the death of hard-working men who provide for their families, get married and raise their children. Getting rid of the Bible in our society has caused the death of morality and living by what is good and right. Parents raising their children without proper discipline and boundaries has led to the death of obedient and self-controlled children.

Children used to be obedient, had self-control and knew right from wrong. Now, they have no moral compass and have no clue what is right from wrong. They need to be taught to be obedient, respect authority and the value of life from conception through old age. They need to be taught to work hard and be responsible. They need to be taught God's ordained role for them as  a male or female. They need to be taught to be covenant keepers until "death do they part."

Joey and Rory sang a song called A Bible and a BeltWe raised our children with a Bible and a belt. We believed in teaching them God's Word from the time they were little. We also believed in the rod that the Bible exhorts parents to use. He who withholds his rod hates his son; But he who loves him disciplines him diligently {Proverbs 13:24}.

They were both made of leather
 Both black and frayed and worn
And I was brought up to respect them
Since the day that I was born
One came here from England
And it's been handed down for years
The other one was ordered from
A catalog at Sears
One my mama read to me
Till I was well into my teens
And I thought all the other one was for
Was to hold up daddy’s jeans
Till I told a lie and learned
It had another purpose too
And out behind the shed, my daddy said
This'll hurt me more than you

‘Cause one had my daddy’s name on it
The other said King James
With love they taught us lessons
But we feared them both the same
One led us to heaven
And the other left a whelp
Those were the days when kids were raised
With a bible and a belt

I remember when I was twelve
I stole a dime store comic book
And how mama read where the scripture said
To take back what I took
When I refused my daddy grabbed
My arm and said “come on”
I needed more, he knew than just Matthew,
Mark, Luke and John
Sometimes it made me cry
Sometimes it made me fightin' mad
And I wish I'd been raised without them
Like some other children had
But now I’m grown with kids of my own
And I know just how they felt
You know it seems to me what the world still needs
Is a bible and a belt

‘Cause one had my daddy’s name on it
The other said King James
With love they taught us lessons
But we feared them both the same
One led us to heaven
And the other hurt like hell
But those were the days when kids were raised
With a bible and a belt
 A bible and a belt.

You'd have to be blind to see how out-of-control and rebellious children are today and the destruction that is coming from it. These same children turn out to be out-of-control and rebellious adults. It's time to go back to the Word of God and obey it!

For further guidance on raising children to be obedient and trained in the ways of the Lord, I highly recommend the Pearl's book To Train Up a Child. If you've read my posts for very long, you know I have no desire to be politically correct. My only desire is to be biblically correct in everything. 

Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly in all wisdom.
Colossians 3:16

***There is a prayer vigil for Joey tonight at 5:00 CT.  "But please, one thing I ask, don't pray that Joey is healed. Yes, pray for a miracle, but also pray for peace in her heart, and ours, if God chooses not to let this cup pass from her sweet lips. His will, not ours." {From her husband Rory}

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Out of all the comments I had to moderate the most severely when I maintained my blog, were the comments on posts that dealt with biblical chastisement. People have a real rebellion to biblical training of children.

It's the most severe among Christians. New "teachers" that have emerged, which teach a counter biblical message, of "only grace" and "grace based parenting" to our children have led to a huge deception.

I really don't even enjoy most public places anymore, because parents have become so afraid of their children and of upsetting them, that nearly every place is filled with children who are disobedient, disrespectful and rude. All for the sake of not offending the new teaching.

Our church is filled with children like this. Parents just do not want to hear the truth. Yet, they come by and shake their heads saying, "Oh my..I don't know how you do it. I can't handle my one!" I don't "do it" at all. God hasn't left us without instruction. We, as a nation, simply don't want to follow it!

Again, it's not some accident that results are the way they are. It takes consistent work, prayer, love and time. Not an accident, at all.
1 reply · active 490 weeks ago
I completely agree. Great post! What I have seen and heard is that many parents are trying to figure out a balanced way to discipline their children in a biblical way yet also remember that these sweet children are still people and they need to be treated as so meaning that "the rod" is not used every time and conversations with the tender heart is needed more often instead. I've read about the Pearls and have some checks in my spirit about their discipline teachings.
With my children I pray over them often. I battle their attitudes with prayer meaning taking every thought captive within them to the obedience of Christ as we are told to do. As well as looking at what the spiritual atmosphere is first before spanking is involved. Because so many pastors no longer teach, in depth, about the spiritual battle raging for every life there are many who don't realize that there are many tormenting spirits effecting our children's lives and instead of dealing with it in the right manner many just use "the rod". I agree with spanking when it needs to be done but also want to look at the whole picture of a child's negative behavior before doing so.
3 replies · active 490 weeks ago
Love this!! It has already proved to be true with our two year old! Excited to be training our 6 month old from the beginning. We didn't "discover"or implement these traditional biblical child training techniques until our oldest was one and a half but once we started it it made a world of difference! We weren't raised by this method at all but "To Train Up a Child" was so helpful as was going on No Greater Joy to listen to/watch some of there training media!
1 reply · active 490 weeks ago
I highly recommend Parenting by the Book by John Rosemond (the Book in this case being the Bible). He covers a wealth of biblical principles with children such as, let your yes be yes, and your no be no. In other words training your children that you say what you mean, and you mean what you say. No waffling back and forth or changing your mind because the kids whine or beg or argue or throw a fit. Not to mention teaching them that if you ask them to do something they better listen the first time, because you will not be repeating yourself but rather moving directly into a consequence (making spanking in extreme cases, but plenty of other consequences out there as well) if they did not listen the first time.

When dealing with kids I always say that "it is not a democracy, it is a benevolent dictatorship!" People today think that you can't tell a child "because I said so." They think you have to reason and explain yourself to the child. Well guess what, your child is under your authority as a parent and when an authority figure tells you to do something, "because they said so" is the only reason you need!
1 reply · active 490 weeks ago
In recent weeks a number of local cafes in our area have closed their children’s play rooms due to unruly behaviour of the children and the very poor behaviour of the mothers. Not only were mothers letting their children scribble all over the walls, make big messes, drop food and grind into the flooring, scream and cause havoc, the mothers were leaving dirty nappies (diapers) on tables where the food was eaten and not taking any responsibility for their children. The café owners said they were amazed at the mothers for not disciplining their children and willing to leave a room that looked like a bomb had dropped without any concern. No wonder our children are spoilt brats with the mothers and fathers many have today. Just walk into a supermarket and listen to the demanding children, the running about the scream and yelling in public (from children and parents). When my sons were young I would never have let them run wild in public (unless it was a park!) and if they made a mess, they would have to clean it up.

PS I drive every day to work and I am appalled at the behaviour of drivers—as a society no one cares about anyone else anymore – it’s all about me and it’s been passed onto modern children who are turning out nasty (not all, but many).
2 replies · active 490 weeks ago
Hi Lori,
I have 8 children. The oldest is 12 and the youngest is 20 months. I regret to say that I have not trained them properly. Pretty much everything that comes into my house gets broken by the kids, food gets taken without asking for it, my 7 year old,4 year old 3 year old and almost 2 year old are screamers, I have children that have been potty trained but refuse to keep themselves clean, and they are old enough to know better, (and yes, we have made sure it's not a medical issue), they refuse to help with chores except my 12 year old. And even then has enough of helping once in a while, I'm constantly breaking up fights, my 5 year old is a tattle tale. And about half of my kids are habitual liars. And we struggle to get thru schoolwork each day. As my house is constantly a mess and we have to clean before we can do anything, except cleaning takes all day. And then it doesn't look like we have done much at the end of the day. I'm all for smacking, but I get to a point where I feel like an ogre or I'm asking too much of them for their age. Or I'm being unfair. Or that I am smacking too much. And some vindictive friends have reported us to Dhs ( they made up a bunch of false accusations and I found out later it was because they were jealous of our family size) before and they were so harsh it has left me extreemly nervous. They never found anything as there was nothing to find. But it really affected me and I don't want to go thru that again. This is an issue I really want resolved, but I don't know where to start. I have read to train up a child,created to be his helpmeet, listened to Michael pearls starting over, read raising Godly tomatoes and I'm just left feeling overwhelmed. When I try and put it into practise I'm left feeling exhausted and extreemly emotional by lunchtime. My husband has asked that I keep the kids sitting up at the table but then one of them will ask to go to the bathroom, so I escort them to make sure that a) they aren't lying and b) they come back. While I am doing that, all the younger ones up and leave the table and I end up chasing them around the backyard trying to get them inside. By that time the older ones have left the table and I have to start all over again. I have tried offering rewards for good behaviour but it's like they don't care. I agree with all you said, but putting it into practise is so hard. And that's only a few issues we have! My husband is stricter than I but I sometimes feel like he is being too harsh or makes a bad judgement call without knowing the full story beforehand. Any encouragement or wisdom would be great.
11 replies · active 489 weeks ago
My daughter is just over five. She is very bright, caring and obedient and really is a joy. But we still struggle with her being shy. Actually, the shyness isn't what bothers me, it's that she doesn't always answer adults when they say hello to her or ask her a question. I will say that she is much better than she used to be, but still needs improving. We've done reward charts, praising her for good and polite behavior, etc. My concern is that I don't know if she is truly scared of certain individuals or if it's just disobedience. I hate to punish her if she is truly scared... But there are times she needs to say please and thank you and she won't. Again, she's improving, so maybe she's doing all right... I will say that my husband and I were the same way. I remember being very young and company coming to our house, and I would literally hide from them behind the furniture. She has never done that, but shows a lot of similarities to my personality. It takes her 5-10 minutes to warm up to someone or a new situation, but then she talks and interacts really well. I am still an introvert, and my husband is as well, but we still are involved in our communities, go out and visit with friends and take her along, take her to different events, play dates, etc. Does anyone have any advice for something like this? I'm reading how it's harder to discipline after five, so that concerns me. She always does her chores and is otherwise very obedient... We just seem to struggle yet and I'm wondering if this is normal or if we need to handle it differently.
2 replies · active 489 weeks ago
Thank you for a timely post, full of truth!

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