{Written by KEN}
It is not unusual for the
Christian to long for something more in their spiritual life; to want to have
a deeper and more abiding relationship with God that helps to satisfy a longing
for intimacy with the Creator that has been missing since the days Adam and
Eve walked in the garden with Jesus and fellowshipped with Him. Many
a Christian movement, church and cult have been founded on this seeming
need for more spirituality and more of a real and emotional connection with
God. The mystics have been with us since the founding of the church; those who
desire not just a relationship based on God’s Word and promises, but a real
time emotional connection with God.
Many of us hear our pastors
interject the quotes of many a mystic, and particularly one modern day mystic
named Henri Nouwen. Nouwen, like many mystics, have excellent things to say
about many aspects of spiritual life and hence make great quotes to spice up a
sermon and cause the listener to think; "I
do want something more than just knowing about God. I want to be in fellowship
with Him and walk with Him in my daily life."
Recently we discovered a
conference for Christian women where many of the well-known Christian women
bloggers and book writers presented their views on spiritual life. Much of what
was taught seemed to point from an old model of Christianity that is said to no longer be working to a new model based on the emergent church where women take on a whole
new role as leaders in the church. I am sure that much of what was taught was biblically accurate as the listener was moved emotionally by emotional stories and
videos to seek a deeper love for others; a strong sense of security in
self-worth and a contemplative prayer life. The virtues of the words of Jesus as given by Sarah Young in her long time best seller Jesus Calling seems to also help many believers create an emotional bond to Jesus.
Unfortunately, this new
budding movement is too often not discerning enough to be able to weed out those things not based on God’s Word, but on emotionalism and new age speculation that is rampant in
the emergent church. Like with Sarah Young, God seemingly speaks directly to the leaders and teachers
of the movement, and how can one argue if “God
says so?” God's Word in the Bible appears to take a back seat to a level of spirituality and contemplative prayer that is to replace the "old time religion."
Well, let me not argue with
the movement, but instead encourage you to make an easy test for whether or not
a female Christian blogger or author is on the right track or the wrong one. Do they
honor God’s Word or instead seek only an emotional personal word from the Lord
that they then want you too to believe is for you and the modern day church.
My test questions come from Lori and are quite simple as older women are commanded to teach the
younger women these things:
Do they ever mention what
young women are called to do according to the Word?
Do they teach that a
wife is to be obedient and submissive to her husband?
Is loving your children
enough to discipline and train them in the ways of the Lord an important theme?
"Titus 2:3-5 is the most important text in the Bible on married women's roles; capsulizing a young wife's marital, sexual, biological, economic, authority and ministering roles. Yet, women's books {and blogs} routinely ignore, mutilate or even mock this passage. There appears to be a great desire to accommodate Christianity to our culture, and a corresponding willingness to dismiss the Bible's teaching as a remnant of outdated, male-dominated culture." {Mary Price}
If your favorite female blogger or
author is not teaching any of these important Biblical themes, and perhaps not
even applying these things to her own life as her ministry comes first above
her husband and family life, I suggest you stop learning them. Find
Christian women who are teaching these important principles since this is what God wants young
women to learn and know. These are what will make the biggest difference in
your life and will be the greatest benefit to your family. {Nancy Leigh DeMoss,
Elisabeth Elliot, Nancy Campbell, and women like these are who you
should be listening to and learning from!}
So much of the church is now
seeking something new, something exciting, something intimately and emotionally
connected to God through contemplative prayer and the speaking in tongues with
miracles. Jesus knows that mankind wants signs and wonders and he spoke against
needing such things when he said: “Unless
you see signs and wonders you will not believe” {John 4:48} and "A wicked
and adulterous generation asks for a miraculous sign! But none will be given it
except the sign of the prophet Jonah" {Matthew 12:39}.
Listen, we are not against
new and exciting. We are not against a contemplative prayer life, or even
having one sense that God is speaking directly to you and not against speaking in tongues. What we are
strongly against is when Christian teachers want to teach a new gospel and
ignore, or go against, what is clearly written in the Word of God. God’s Word
will stand forever, and before the believer starts running to a deeper
spiritual life filled with emotional intimacy they should first ask the question, “Am I obeying God at His Word with
what I already know to be true?” God
honors those who honor His Word, and I fear that He allows those who walk away
from it into emotionalism, and new things for the church, to be distracted from a true spiritual life,
all the while thinking that God is with them.
If you want to know the
dangers of Christian mysticism where God speaks to a mystic directly all the
while this teacher moves away from the foundational truths of God’s Word,
listen to Henri Nouwen, the philosopher who your
pastor may be quoting this Sunday, in his final book, and tell me if you can see
the lie plainly. It's not the lie that Buddhism and Hinduism and all religions have much to offer Christianity, but it is the ultimate culmination of exactly what Satan wants to do in the end of times; to form all of the world's religions into one religion upon which the Whore of Babylon may ride. The modern feel-good religion of Christianity where Christ dies for all, and nothing more is necessary for salvation because Love Wins:
“Today I personally believe
that while Jesus came to open the door to God's house, all human beings can
walk through that door, whether they know about Jesus or not. Today, I see it as my call to help every person claim his or her own way to God.” {Henri Nouwen}
Mixed with many great
thoughts about the spiritual life and how to get close to God are often lies
that cut right through the heart of Christianity because an individual heard
God’s voice which was louder than His infallible Word. Don’t ever allow
anything to trump what God has already clearly told us in His Word, as God, and
His Word, are never changing.
Herein lies the truth of the matter; Henri Nouwen may indeed have been a wonderful Christian priest who through his battles with with loneliness, homosexual inclinations, which he is said to have never acted upon, and depression, has left Christianity with a wealth of spiritual thoughts and gems that can lead us to a closer walk with Jesus. So too, these emergent women may have some things to offer in their quest to recreate a more living and applicable modern gospel, but let us never walk away from the time-tested truths that God Himself has spoken so that one might move forward into "spirituality" while leaving God's established truths behind.
There are many differing Christian ideologies, and we must embrace our brothers and sisters in Christ, all the while "testing to see if this spirit is from God" {I John 4:1}. To run ahead with personal spirituality without doing those things you know God has called you to do, is a test where you are failing God at His Word. As for me, I would much rather hear a great preacher like Charles Spurgeon in his devotional Morning and Evening than focus upon the modern words of one who hears a voice of Jesus. The apostles and prophets I know, but I can't ever have certainty of words received by women who hear a personal voice of Jesus speaking to them well beyond the end of the Good Book.
John
8:44
kathy · 488 weeks ago
I looked up, and read some more about him and it's not to say that he didn't have a lot of good things to share, but that quote definitely sends red flags up. Interesting to me is that I was given a book from a friend that was authored by another Catholic priest. It didn't seem quite right so I researched a bit about him. The thing I find interesting is that in both of those men's pictures they were not wearing the priestly attire of black with a collar, and there was some controversy written about both of them by other people of the Catholic faith. They were also heavily into the physiological realm.
I get that lots of people have trouble in that area, myself included. If people truly studied and took to heart and "mind" what our creator instructs about life in the bible, then practiced what was taught there, it would and can all be life changing. It has been for me.
We always need to be discerning. Staying in the Word, is truly the only way of having a discerning heart when it comes to life matters. I believe that if our spirits are truly healthy and in good standing with God, it supports all of us. We will see good things happening, mentally and physically.
This all reminds me of a little analogy I read long ago. If someone offered you a plate of fabulous chocolate chip cookies, and you loved chocolate chip cookies, would you eat them if you were told there may be a bit of arsenic in one of them? We definitely need to be careful. Thank you for the constant reminder Ken and Lori.
Brit · 488 weeks ago
I have Lysa Tyrkeurst first 5 app on my phone. It's meant for it to be your alarm clock and spend the first 5 minutes of your day with God. It had been amazing to me how 5 minutes in the morning can change my attitude and get me ready to face the day with my kids. It is scripture based...with a short reading and devotion from that scripture. Then you can write down your thoughts, read other mama's thoughts and look back through your comments on different scriptures.
Ken · 488 weeks ago
We are not opposed to anything that is strongly Biblically based and remains faithful to the foundation of God's Word. We do think it a bit disconcerting when a women blogger/writer has more than a full time job and travels a lot when she has children at home who need her. To gain the world but lose your children would be a terrible thing and perhaps proof that what one was sure was their calling was not supposed to be carried out in this way. Definitely 5 minutes a day is important, or more, to spend with our Lord and Savior. Good for you.
helen · 488 weeks ago
thank you as ever for a thought provoking post, I am amazed at how many people are careless of what they read and reference and the liberalism sugar coated as 'tolerance' (ugghh, hate that word!). I was listening to John MacArthur yesterday talking about books like the Shack and that one about the child that went to Heaven etc and how they came over as very 'Spiritual' but were leading people astray and were frankly, blasphemous. As Dr MacArthur says, we have a closed Canon and there is no more 'new' revelation!. Don't get me wrong, its vital to want a closer walk with God (a calm and heavenly frame,what a great hymn!) but any 'leanings' towards 'feelings led' faith rather than one based on the word of God is sadly a walk down the wrong path.
Blessings to you both
Helen UK
Ken · 488 weeks ago
I have no doubt that these people/teachers have good intentions to help Christians experimentally in their Christian lives. We all who are long time Believers should have times when we felt that the Lord "speaks to us" or shows us His close presence, but when we go too far, we find feel good books like the Shack that are not fully Biblical and potentially dangerous, all because humankind wants a sign. We want to experience God not just know about Him, but each individual experience must be considered "individual" and not something to be duplicated or necessarily shared. One person's closeness and presence or experience may be another's indigestion, so we must be very careful not to attempt to pass along what we feel God said to us, but to act on what God seems to be saying until we see it no longer matches God's Word.
Some commentators are not be published by Lori because although they are probably right in what they are saying, they do bash good Christian people, and that is not our purpose here. But a Titus 2 Blogger/Writer with huge success wakes up one day and discovers that she herself is no longer being the Titus 2 wife and mom to her children... how does she reconcile this with her own teachings? Will not she stand before the Lord some day and say, "Did I not do this or that in your name Lord with great success?" And God's response may be, "Yes, well done for wanting to serve me, but why did you not practice what you preached with your own family?"
You cannot have it all, full time ministry and be a Titus 2 wife and mother. To teach otherwise is to buy into the world's system of leaving family to grow up without a full time Mom which is Russian roulette with the spiritual live of the children.
Mrs.M · 488 weeks ago
This article sums it up perfectly. I highly recommend reading the whole thing as it is very thought provoking. The author says,
"Never forget that these books are sold on either the implied or explicit proposition that they are going to tell us something that we didn’t know about God/Heaven/Jesus before. Something new. Something different." http://www.firebreathingchristian.com/archives/61...
I certainly don't dispute that God in his infinite power could choose to send someone back from heaven. However, with no way to sort out the truth tellers from those looking to make a quick buck it is dangerous to think that we can or should look to anything but the Bible to tell us about heaven or anything else.
Lori Alexander 122p · 488 weeks ago
If He wanted us to know more about heaven, He would have clearly told us in His Word. There is a stern warning in the last chapter of the Bible to those who add or subtract anything from His Word. So those who teach His Word are held to a higher standard and must make sure that what they are teaching lines up perfectly with the Bible.
"For I testify unto every man that heareth the words of the prophecy of this book, If any man shall add unto these things, God shall add unto him the plagues that are written in this book: And if any man shall take away from the words of the book of this prophecy, God shall take away his part out of the book of life, and out of the holy city, and from the things which are written in this book." Revelation 22:18, 19
Kristin · 488 weeks ago
Ken · 488 weeks ago
Kristin · 488 weeks ago
Thanks again for your post today Ken. I look forward to hearing/reading what you teach on. You should start a blog for men - The Titus Man!
helen · 488 weeks ago
Good morning from the UK!. If we believe God is in control, sees the end from the beginning and holds the Universe in his hand, he was well able to direct the 'putting together' of the Canon of Scripture according to his will!. Hence, our Bible is the only revelation we need.
I firmly believe the warning is there exactly where God has placed it ie right at the END of his inspired word, saying don't add to this book or take away from it.
Blessings to you
Helen UK
a friend · 487 weeks ago
I was just wondering, if we are not supposed to take away or add to the Bible, why is it okay that Protestants took away certain books from the "Catholic" Bible that was around for a thousand years! I mean, the Bible wasn't even written down all the way for hundreds of years after Christ's death. It doesn't make sense to me other than people just didn't like what some books had to say and decided to take them out.
Thanks for your imput and if you could shed light on this confusion?
Rachel · 488 weeks ago
I am catching up on your writings, as I had not been reading for a while. I still appreciate your mature "older women" (sorry!, but you know what I mean) understanding of Scripture and your ability to expose cultural movements that have been gradually eroding Christian life.
For a while I was reading "A Man and His Wife" blog, then he went offline, but before that he said they were moving to Anchorage, Alaska. That's where I am. I thought perhaps you may still have contact with him? If so, would you mind to give him my email. My name is Rachel. His family has been on my heart many times lately. I even thought I might meet his wife for Coffee or something.
Thank you,
Rachel
Lori Alexander 122p · 488 weeks ago
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Ken · 488 weeks ago
It sounds like you and your husband are having an awakening and it is great that the Lord is showing you both together the direction He desires you to go in your spiritual journey. Be careful not to regret too much of the past as God intends "to take our mess and make it our message."
This is the beauty of Christianity that we don't have to have it all together from day 1, but rest in Him knowing that He is the one who will grow us up into Christ Jesus when we are willing participants. We are to be driven back to the Word of God as the foundation for all His promises and commands. We must leave the widest tent possible open to other Believers without judging them, but holding strong to our own firmly rooted beliefs found in the study of the mind of God in His Word. Thanks for sharing and may the Lord bless you as you move forward with your spiritual growth and understanding, and as you gently take others you love with you.