Saturday, April 2, 2016

CHURCH! WAKE UP!


Are we not exhibiting grace if we teach the Truth of God's Word and it offends some? Women have told me I am judgmental and lacking humility and grace when I share what the Word says when bloggers rave about "mutual submission" or working outside of the home. This is the problem with many in the Church today. They have no idea what grace means. Does it mean we are not to speak to Truth of God's Word to others who are writing things contrary to it? Is this what grace means?

What shall we say then? Shall we continue in sin, that grace may abound? God forbid. How shall we, that are dead to sin, live any longer therein? {Romans 6:1} God's showered His grace upon us while we were yet sinners, He died for us. Once we are saved, He wants us to live free and dead to sin. He wants us to live like the saints He calls us. We are called to judge those in the Church as this blogger so clearly wrote ~

CHURCH: WAKE UP! We are called to judge each other! That’s right: we’re supposed be be judging things like movies and behavior. Why? Because our hearts are prone to wander, that’s why. Because our flesh wants to drag us off into the mire and muck of movies that bring dishonor to God and quench the Holy Spirit within us. Because God clearly says that engaging in such things is wrong.

We have allowed ourselves to become desensitized to sin. We allow it in our churches and call it “progress.” We watch it in theaters and call it “entertainment.” We excuse it in others and call it “freedom.”

How far we have fallen! No wonder our nation is in such grave danger: there are no watchers on the wall. Personal holiness is no longer a priority. This is not a gray area, men and women! Those who claim the name of Jesus should know His Word and long to bring honor and blessing to the Lord. Instead, we toy with things He died to save us from and then cry like babies if someone suggests that we might be crossing the line.

It’s time for Christians to grow up in Christ. These times need more than lukewarm faith. It’s time to seriously ask ourselves who we are living for. As Believers, our lives are to be a reflection of the One who redeemed us.

Whatever happened to “be holy as I am holy?” Whatever happened to Christians NOT wanting to be like the world? One day, we are going to give an account to the the Lord for the way we lived our lives before men on this earth—and God has made it clear what He expects.

Paul spoke God's Word forcefully and clearly because He knew it was God's Word alone that convicts and challenges people. He knows that people need to be rebuked and exhorted since he understood the deceitfulness of sin and how it quickly hardens people's hearts. 

God's grace gives us the power to say NO to sin and walk in holiness. It gives us the Holy Spirit to live inside of us. We are encouraged to exhort one another daily while it is called today; lest any of you be hardened through the deceitfulness of sin {Hebrews 3:13}. We are called to judge those within the church, as the Word clearly states. We are called to be a beacon on the hill proclaiming God's love and His ways to those in the Church. The Church is called to holiness as the Lord is holy. If you are a believer, take rebuke and exhortation for love does not get easily offended.

For by grace are ye saved through faith; 

and that not of yourselves: it isthe gift of God.
Ephesians 2:8

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Lori, you have truly been a blessing to me in my walk as a wife and mother. Coming from a career mindset, I can see how your sharing of God's Word would strike some as being "judgmental" or "critical." I felt the same way years ago, up until my Father showed me and completely transformed my heart towards my family. Continue to plant those seeds, even when women are feeling offended. Honestly, we are not responsible for them to receive the Truth, but are responsible in our obedience to Christ and what HE wants us to share. I am praying for you, dear sister. Thank you so very much for sharing the Truth.
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Thank you for your prayers, Jackie. Yes, I am doing what the Lord has commanded for me to do and I wouldn't want to be doing anything else for the days are evil but there will always be a remnant.
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FREEINDEED · 469 weeks ago

Exactly! Amen!
I read your blog frequently and i appreciate what you have to say on this and other topics. I have a slightly different experience in this particular area. There are many older women in my church including myself who do indeed wish to teach the younger women the truth. Over the years I have discovered that we must enter into a relationship with each of these younger women before we can have an impact on them. If I see an immodestly dressed young woman in the congregation on a Sunday morning, yes, I can walk up to her and tell her so. Unfortunately, it rarely had the desired result. This is because rules without relationships create rebellion. I have learned that I must get to know her, ask her about herself, maybe invite her to my home and allow her to see how I live (and how my daughters are required to dress) and then the young woman will be open to a discussion about modesty. It's these relationships that Christians aren't willing to take the time for. They just want to talk because, well, it's easier. I think of what Jesus said to the woman at the well. He asked her about herself, he wanted to know about her. She was deeply effected by his humility. We are missing that humility and perhaps this is why we don't have the necessary impact. I think people can sense when we are truly and humbly pointing to God's truth and when we are pointing at ourselves and insisting that WE are right. Perhaps this is why we are directed to "...take the plank out of your own eye, then you will see clearly to remove the splinter from your brother's eye" Matthew 7: 5
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Rules without relationship aren't what causes rebellion; a rebellious and hardened heart is what causes rebellion, Joy. I have never rebuked a women who I had no relationship with about immodesty, submission, being a keeper at home, etc.

There are very few older women who teach younger women to love and obey their husbands, love their children, be chaste, discreet, good and keepers at home as God has commanded them to so I have used a platform that allows me to teach any young women who want to learn. They come to me; I have never forced anyone to learn from me. I have mentored women in groups, individually, on the phone, through texts, etc. and I love it!

I point them to the Truth of God's Word, not my opinions, feelings, or thoughts since they are all worthless. God's Word will not come back void.
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Lady Virtue · 469 weeks ago

Lori, thanks for linking to the blogger above. I read her complete post and the comments. It's a truth that's hard to take, because many Christians are possessive about their entertainment and they get extremely defensive when someone challenges them to holiness in their personal lives. It's almost like we want Christ and the world too, but it doesn't work that way (see James 4:4).
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You're welcome, Lady Virtue. Unfortunately, many don't want to do it the Lord's ways in most areas of their lives, therefore, they look no different than the world. "Choose you this day whom ye will serve. But as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord." This hangs in our family room. I love it!
Thankyou for this post!! I can't count how many times I have read comments that started with: ' Well I'm a Christian and I don't think we have any right to judge'. Ugh!! And then it's followed by an out of context bible verse about not judging. We do have a right to judge fellow believers. It is plain sinful to watch another believer fall into sin and not do anything to steer them away from it with the truth of Gods word. So many Christians are bible illiterate. It's time we all wake up!
Thank you for the excellent post and encouragement. Everytime I read your post I feel uplifted and humbled and repentance to pray and ask the Lord to help me to walk in His ways. You have truly been a very big blessing in my life.
Lori ~ Thank you for always speaking truth.... Sometimes I feel like we fail at just realizing the answers were all provided for us, we just need to dig into the word and apply them.
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Julie Turner · 468 weeks ago

I agree with you very much. Gods idea about Christian women is very different from what I see in church. I don't want to see a loud brash woman seeking everyone's attention. What ever happened to a meek and quiet spirit. I don't want see women dressed in tight tiny clothing. The world tells women to be sexy, but Gods word tells women to be Godly and modest. A woman's cleavage is for her husbands eyes only, not the whole congregation.
There are many Christian women that do not think keeping a home reasonably tidy is necessary to our Christian walk. This distresses me. I am not a perfectionist but when a home is dirty and untidy it says to the occupants and others that the woman of the home is not respectful of what God has given to her and how He allowed her husband to provide it. That is when her actions malign the word of God. There is rare hospitality anymore because the women will have to clean their homes. I have had people to my home from all over the world and they enjoyed it. My home was an old farmhouse. It was cozy but needy and tidy. I am not bragging on myself to gain accolades but trying to share what will example and glorify Christ.

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