Tuesday, April 19, 2016

The Problem with Female Bible Teachers


There are many female Bible teachers today. Many women go to a Bible study each week to learn the Word. I sure have most of my life. The problem with most of them is they are teaching the Word boldly and clearly, yet they aren't teaching women to love and obey their husbands, be chaste and discreet, nor to be keepers at home. Therefore, there are many biblically strong women who are unsubmissive and disrespectful to their husbands and work full-time, which God calls blaspheming the Word of God.

Why do so few female Bible teachers fail to teach a woman's role today? What can be so hard about doing this? This is one thing that God clearly specifies in His Word that He wants older women teaching younger women. He doesn't command them to teach women anything else, specifically, but He is very specific what they should be teaching younger women.

Elisabeth Elliott taught this clearly and so does Nancy Campbell. This is why these women are my favorite Bible teachers to listen to. They teach the hard things to women; things most women today don't want to hear. Yet, think how differently the Church would look like if Titus 2:3-5 were being taught by all female Bible teachers. Not just a quick mention, but consistently taught. 

Marriages would be strong and lasting. Most of them would undoubtedly be very happy. More believing wives would be working on winning their unbelieving husbands by their subjection to them and their godly behavior. More women would love their husbands and do what they could to please them and make their lives better. 

The majority of Christian women would be home taking care of their husbands, children, and homes. They would have time to fix nourishing food for their families, keep their homes clean and tidy, bond with their children, and be available more often for their husbands in the evening. 

Christian women wouldn't be wearing bikinis and immodest clothing since they would hear that they are to be discreet and chaste, so they would adorn the Gospel. They would act and dress like women of the Most High God. It wouldn't matter to them if they fit into society or not. Pleasing the Lord in everything would be their concern.

Another problem with many of the famous female Bible teachers is that their teachings aren't geared to just women, so men come to their conferences as well. But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man {1 Timothy 2:12}. There were no female Bible teachers in the Bible, no female authors of the Bible, none of Jesus' disciples were women, no female Kings, no female leaders in the churches, etc. since the women were doing what the Lord commanded women to do.

Any man who comes to my blog knows full well that it is geared to women since I mostly write to encourage women in their roles. I do teach the Bible also since I am called to teach women to be "good" in Titus 2:4, 5 and the only way to be good, obedient to their husband, a lover of their husband and children, and to be chaste is by learning who they are in Christ. They are powerless to do any of this without Him. It is most important that women know that they need to repent of their sin, believe in Jesus, and learn all about this Jesus whom they serve {Let the women learn...1 Timothy 2:11}, but then they also need to know their God-ordained role in life. When searching for good female Bible teachers, make sure they aren't leaving out what God has commanded them to teach and that they are in submission to their husband and he is over their ministry.

"Today we have women in the Christian world who write books, edit women's magazines, travel on speaking tours, have radio or television shows, lead seminars, etc. If the teaching itself is biblical and Christ-centered, is it automatically to be assumed that the ministry is biblical and Christ-centered? The first question to ask and answer is, "Who is this woman's husband?" Next we must ask many subsidiary questions. Is she fulfilling her ministry to him? Is he her priority? Is she helping him? Is her house in order? Is he leading her in this ministry? Is her identity as a Christian woman centered, under Christ, around her relationship to her husband {if she is married}?...When a woman in ministry becomes successful independent of her husband, many temptations will accompany such success...Women have often been vulnerable to deception, and frequently they are self-deceived...The church today needs godly teaching for young women. It must come from godly older women. But godly older women need to be submissive to Scripture and submissive to their husbands first." {Nancy Wilson}

The aged women likewise, that they be in behaviour as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things; That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed.
Titus 2:3-5

*I asked the chat room for the names of godly women teachers and these are some of the names they gave me: Nancy Wolgemuth, Elizabeth George, Jennifer Ross, Martha Peace, Mary Pride, Edith Schaeffer, Cynthia Heald, Susan Hunt, Teri Maxwell, Ann Ortlund, Jennie Chancey, Stacey MacDonald, Erin Harrison, Courtney Joseph, April Cassidy, Jani Ortlund, Jane Fuentes, Marci Ferrell, and Marilyn Boyer. If you know of any others, please list them in the comments section! Thank you.

**I have started an Instagram account for my blog so I can encourage women with pictures of quotes from books that inspire me, time in His Word, etc. if anyone is interested! 

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Great points! Thank you for articulating what I couldn't quite put into words.
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Your teachings are manna for a thirsty heart. And they are so biblically correct! Thank you for your encouragements and instruction. I pray that your message hits home with one or more of your readers today. It is critically important for each woman to be the nurturing caregiver of her husband, children and home. Today's news of chaos and divisiveness reflect the dismissive nature of this godly instruction.
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Such a timely post for me! I've learned so much from your blog since I first found it at the start of this year. This morning I was thinking of how I wish I knew of more blogs like yours that I could learn from. I'm so hungry to live obediently to God and His will for me. It's such a good place to be! Coming from a non Christian family, I was raised with many feminist idealogies, like going to school and getting a career just in case. Besides other things like: a woman's work is never done; she wears the pants in the family; the man may be the head but the woman is the neck who turns him wherever she wants him to go! These were not things I aspired to but they will affect you if you're not raised with sound biblical teaching once you become a Christian. I was ill quickly after marrying and at the suggestion of my husband we decided I'd take some time off school because the stress of taking care of so much while ill was overwhelming. I haven't gone back to school and have no interest in pursuing a career for myself. I'm so grateful that my husband agrees in our traditional roles. I long wondered what I was supposed to do with my life career wise and am so glad God had a plan for me all along to not be a co-bread winner but to be the valued homemaker to the bread winner. I think my mother in law said it well, the feminists can keep their careers, I'm busy enough! Thank you for fearing God and not men and women!
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Lori,
May I suggest Lydia Sherman? She has been a real inspiration to myself and so many others.

Blessings,
Christine
1 reply · active 466 weeks ago
Preach it [to women] sister!

Someone accused me of learning from a woman by reading women’s blogs. My reasons for reading them and occasionally commenting is 1) to see what is being taught [and reader comments], truth or not, to better understand the condition of the church, 2) because Paul says to husbands in 1Pet3:7 to “dwell with [wives] according to knowledge” [this Greek word is different from the ‘knowledge’ of spiritual discernment; Strongs 1108 defines this knowledge is ‘science’ or fact finding] so I read to learn what makes women ‘tick’ so-to-speak so I can better love, better interact with my wife, and 3) to occasionally offer a male perspective and hopefully additional sound scriptural perspective; I trust Lori feels free not to include any or all as she or Ken sees fit.

For what this is worth: I’ve done extensive book and web searching on marriage and effectively do this full time [I believe this is where the healing of the church lies]. Many godly men and women get the topic 80-90% correct but unfortunately leave in some glaring and important contradiction to scripture. I effectively never disagree with the posts here and if I do it is on non-foundational, more preference topics. And here, the zeal for the Lord shines through! In short, I recommend this blog to others as the best on marriage and that said, Lori, I hope you remain humble before the Lord, not having the blog become your God [production over spirit led] …and remembering 1Cor11:7 you are to glorify Ken in all you do [as Nancy Wilson shared] ……not that I have detected problems in either of these …just pride is a sneaky thing over time.

Blessings in Christ the Word.
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Debbie Williams · 466 weeks ago

I am fully agreeing with you, and love your post! But one women from the bible did come to mind, Deborah. I know she did not want the role but she was there. I also know she was not a bible teacher per say, but was the leader over men. It has always kind of confused me. Can you help me with this? Thank you!
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BlessedWife · 466 weeks ago

I've gotta say that this post has great points but also some so great points. Yes Titus 2 tells older women to teach younger women to love their husbands, love their children, be discreet and chaste however Jesus told us to go into all the world and preach the good news. This instruction is for male and female alike. There are callings and passions and spiritual gifts that He has placed within a woman just as He has a man. These things are very important to teach about as well so we as the body of Christ will be full equipped to further advance His Kingdom and rescue the lost and disciple them as we are also told to do. So yes we are instructed to teach young women the things mentioned in Titus 2 however there is much more to learn than what is mentioned in those few verses. Your passion, the passion that God has filled you with is within Titus 2. But please be careful when going after other female bible teachers whom God has placed others passions in as well as spiritual gifts to effectively do what they are called to do. They may agree with the Titus 2 teachings but God may have them speaking about it on a different level which is not wrong or sinful and He may have them speaking on other issues on a larger scale.
There were other female teachers of His truth within the bible. I know you don't like to hear about them however it does not make them any less what they were. Judges, prophets and witness's of the Lord's resurrection who went out and spoke of the good news.
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I like Sally Clarkson and Heidi St John-they are mostly known in homeschooling circles though.
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I am thankful for the daily posts. This I would rather read and be home in my house, than running off to a Women's Bible Study. I have done this already, but no more. It just was too much with children. I have loved just being content at home. I am not as tired, grumpy, ect.

I look forward, everyday to the posts, knowing I will learn something to apply to my life.
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Hi Lori, I greatly appreciate your blog, and as an older Christian woman myself, I am encouraged and challenged by it to obey the teachings in Titus. I do mentor a group of younger women currently. I plan to check out the teachings of the ladies you mentioned, but am curious about what you think of Beth Moore and her teachings. I've learned much from her, but know nothing about her personal life in Christ.
Thank you and Blessings,
Toni
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If a womans husband approves, is it then ok for a woman to have speaking engagements, books, tv appearances, etc?
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I enjoy learning from Kathy Pollard. Here is the link to her blog: https://life-and-favor.com/

She also wrote a book called "Return to Me" about when loved ones leave the faith.
Hi Lori, I don't expect you to post this, unless you think it is helpful. I would like you to hear my story and perhaps you could give me some prayerful feedback. I have thought on seeking your counsel for awhile, and this post has sent me over the edge :)
For over 18 years, my husband and I have been in ministry, that I felt a call to as young as 15. Also, I have always been called to be a wife and mother and God has blessed me with a wonderful man for 19 years and 5 beautiful children, whom I home cook and home-make for everyday.
Anyways, back to the ministry. In this ministry, we must BOTH be ordained and toiling side-by-side. We are Appointed all over the Western U.S. to particular ministries, in the beginning it was Churches with Social Services and I had plenty of women and children to minister too. This appointment, our 7th, and the previous appointment has been at a Drug and Alcohol Rehabilitation Center. ALL MEN. Part of my responsibility, under my husband's leadership (which he's not too firm on) is to PREACH to 75 Men 3-4 times a month. I still don't "like" doing it, but I am in the position where I have too and have been for many years. My husband and the organization require this of me. I cannot quit- we own nothing and worst of all, my husband, who thrives in this ministry would also have to step down. We will be left homeless, car less, without pension, without insurance, etc. The organization owns everything. So, I have felt between a rock and a hard place for a very long time and have been begging God for relief from my conscience. Am I over-analyzing and not trusting? Why, in such an egalitarian organization, egalitarian seminary, egalitarian conferences, etc. do I still FEEL like a closet complmentarian??? I speak to other women in my organization and most are bra-burners, but there are many older ones who admonish me to take care of my family, but on the down-low so no one will hear. I KNOW that I am representing one thing while believing and patterning much of my life like another. I continue in all of this because I understand it as submission to my husband that God has joined together. What would you say to this? Is there a solution I have not thought of? Please pray for us.
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Thanks for this post, I will refrain from directly commenting on it as this is one of those topics that gets me fired up. But thankyou for your insight. God Bless!
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Mona Overton · 466 weeks ago

Jacque Line at Deep Roots at Home blog. Wonderful lady. :)
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There is a lot more to the Bible than Titus 2, though. I enjoy hearing another woman teach me other things in the Word. Beth Moore has a great study on the fruit of the spirit. I love to hear about the courage of Esther and the faithfulness of Ruth. Women also need to be taught about how to live as Christians, not just how to be wives and mothers.
Just this morning, listening to Joyce Meyer, I was convicted about some bitterness I was holding about something a friend did. It was an issue that had nothing to do with my husband or children, that I needed to hear from the Lord.
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excellent..
we have a new preacher that has our women youth leader do the closing prayer each week. many , me included just feel odd about it..
what do you think ?
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What are your feelings on women who NEED to work fulltime? For example, my husband is going back to school to get a higher degree so that he can get a better job and God-willing make it able for me to be home. However, in the meantime, I need to work fulltime to make ends meet.
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I enjoy listening to Audrey Broggi. Her husband is Dr. Carl Broggi from Search the Scriptures. She is a real Titus 2 mentor. Her radio broadcast is Mothering from the Heart and you can find it through her husband's radio ministry. http://www.searchthescriptures.org/

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