Friday, April 1, 2016

A Heavenly Boss with a Sacred Job


One woman wrote me and told me her church now has a female pastor. She was concerned about this so she wrote her pastor a letter and her pastor wrote her the following response.

"As to Sue’s ordination {named changed}, I’ve attached what I wrote to our congregation about Sue’s ordination. I think it explains my view simply and clearly. I obviously have no issue with Sue being ordained and using her gifts to the fullest. Women exercise authority over men all the time. Sometimes we even recognize when they’re doing so! Influence, responsibility and authority are intertwined when someone is using their gifts, particularly gifts of leadership, which is not gender-specific. The Bible says much more about women in ministry than the one verse you refer to from Paul’s writings and I think it would be helpful to have a more balanced perspective." {End of her pastor's note}

 “The Bible reveals this pattern of male leadership in the church and in the home as enduring and authoritative. We have no right to reject or to compromise clear teachings of the Bible in order to meet the demands of today’s political correctness. The Word of God is eternal and totally true. Without a firm biblical foundation, the church ceases to be a church in anything but name. It has become nothing more than a voluntary association with a liturgy." {Dr. Albert Mohler}

 “Throughout the Old Testament, women were active in the religious life of Israel, but generally they were not leaders. Women like Deborah {Judges 4} were clearly the exception and not the rule. There was no woman with an ongoing prophetic ministry. No woman was a priest. No queen ever ruled Israel. No woman wrote an Old Testament {or New Testament} book. Isaiah 3:12 indicated that God allowed women to rule as part of His judgment on the sinning nation.” {Dr. John Mac Arthur}

"There were no women kings among the kings of Israel and Judah. There were no women priests in the entire Old Testament. There were no women who authored Scripture and no women with an ongoing prophetic ministry. No women were listed in the minor or major prophets. In the New Testament, there were no women elders, evangelists, authors of Scripture or Pastors." {Barry Cameron}

"As for my people, children are their oppressors, and women rule over them. O my people, they which lead thee cause thee to err, and destroy the way of thy paths." {Isaiah 3:12}

When women rule they lead others into error and destroy the paths of the Lord. Instead of women being in the home, loving and obeying their husbands, loving their children, being keepers in the home, chaste and discreet, they have left the Lord's path and listened to the lies of females in leadership positions. If your church is ordaining women, find another church. Find a church that values the Truth of God's Word and His ways. It's highly unlikely that you will find a church that preaches a woman's role as boldly as John MacArthur does; so go and teach any women who will listen about their biblical role. The way to fight this battle is with the Truth of God's Word because it never comes back void. 

The Lord is your Heavenly Boss and He has given you the sacred job of being home, being a help meet to your husband, and raising godly offspring. Rejoice in this and be content for this is exactly where He wants you.

The further a society drifts from the Truth, 
the more it will hate those who speak it."
{George Orwell}

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Today's blog will strike a cord with so many people. But Lori its bang on. A few years when we really struggling my wife had a friend who believed she was a prophet and was in my home and was prepared to rebuke me. In my own home that is!!!! This world is so upside down. After almost 16 yrs of marriage just recently we started seeing the light in regards to truth and our marriage has turned the corner.

I referee men's hockey and we have a girl who plays on one of the teams. She is approx 23yrs old and cannot weigh more than 120pds. She told me she just became a police officer and starts on the road next month.

The reason I say this and you I might get ripped for it but it's true. It's 3am I am not home. We have an man hyped up on coke break in where my wife and children are. I honestly don't want her to be one of the first officers on scene. She would not have any physical strength to do anything other than get hurt and not be able to defend and protect my family without resulting in deadly force. Sorry but it's true I am 45 and when I was a child if there was a woman officer she was tough as nails and could probably kick anybody's butt!! But not now it's all political!!!

This world is so dam broken and people including Christians are living for themselves not for Christ. Too many people are perverting the Word to for their needs these days!!!!

One question I do have Lori is this lady who was going to rebuke me was using Deborah as her reasoning to wanting to do this She said I was not a good enough leader because I was not being understanding in my leadership and too harsh.
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I agree, Rob! As a woman, if I need protection and I call the police, I really don't want the first responder to be another woman. I'm sorry your wife's friend has caused some confusion in your home. It would not be the first time a woman spouted off and called it a word from the Lord. It makes me very said to see that happen.
I would never feel comfortable rebuking a man who was outside of my immediate family and I know the situation and it was wrong. Some women allow their "sensibilities" to rule them instead of the clear written Word of God.
I am sorry that someone tried to rebuke you in your own home Rob, that is wrong, whether they be man or woman. We should be encouraging each other, not trying to tear each other down.

As for woman police officers, the women constables here do a fantastic job. No, they don't have the strength of the men, but they are taught techniques to use to bring down a raging man if necessary. And women often have superior communication skills to men, which is extremely important in a job dealing with people. It is for their great communication skills that women make such great prison guards - a job I trained to do, (I'm a woman) but am currently not working in, as I am now at home with my children.

I agree with you that people are perverting the Word these days. I know a pastor of a church, she is a woman, she is on her third marriage (two divorces, she is not a widow) and puts her child into full-time daycare so she can work. Although I'm not sure what "work" a pastor does in an office all day! People pick and choose the Bible verses they want to, and twist them around to make them mean what they want them to mean. It is very, very hard to find a church that actually teaches truth.
There is certainly a great deal of false teaching in the churches today that confuse women and men alike. One has to have a very discerning spirit to decipher the truth from the lies. I can firsthand attest to the effects of promoting female leaders and pastors in the church. For a few years I attended a "full gospel" church, where the senior and associate pastors were males, but women often stood teaching on the altar as well. The pastor promoted women as leaders and often shared details about sending all three of his daughters off to college to become career women. The church pushed female power and leadership. There were never any teachings on submission and headship in marriage. In fact, the pastor often made side comments revolving around the theme that men just needed to "man up" to solve marital problems. This church had thousands of members, a great influence. A similar church I visited during this time seemed to have the same problem.

So why is this yeast being rolled into the dough? I believe this occurs when the church becomes more of a business, than a well of truth. The benefits of being likable, and flowing in the means of what's generally acceptable and politically correct begin to outweigh speaking the truth. The unpopular truth doesn't very well ellicit money, but submission to society's popular preferences does. The desire to be liked and successful in worldly terms (popularity and riches) pollutes our churches today. That's why these churches are following the feminist movement. Empowering women everywhere to be their own leaders and providers. In fact, not just be their own leaders and providers (aside from fathers/husbands) but to lead men also.

The truth has never been popular. It's never has been, it never will be. Scripture indicates so in old and new testaments alike. In fact, I would dare to say that if a church is following a sweeping popular new movement, it's probably not of godly origins. Pushing feminism into the churches is included.

I really enjoyed reading this post Lori. Good one!
Oh my! I would never rebuke anyone (man or woman) in their own home. That is just wrong.

I don't think women should be senior pastors, though I have very dear friend who is. She is with the Salvation Army. We were friends for years before, so I'm not going to let one disagreement ruin our friendship.
I don't mind teachers like Beth Moore or Joyce Meyer though. Their teaching is primarily for women,. I have seen seen men at a Joyce Meyer conference, but no one is forcing them to be there.

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