Virginity is no longer in fashion. Feminism taught that women are equal to men in every way. Women can join the hook-up culture and enjoy free sex just as much as men. They can have sex with no emotions involved and no consequences.
Women were lied to. Men can have sex with the same woman for six months and feel no attachment to her whatsoever. Women release oxytocin when they have sex. It binds them to the men they are having sex with. They think having sex with them will cause the man to fall in love with them.
It is all a lie. Virginity is what actually gives women power. Why should men marry if they can have sex with whomever and whenever they want? Why should they settle down, get a steady job, and support a family if they can get sex for free?
Saving yourself until marriage will make a decent man want you much more. Men are wired so differently than women. Men want sex. Men have sex with promiscuous women, yet want to marry virgins. They know they are the ones who will be good and faithful wives and mothers.
Saving your virginity will cause a man to want to work hard and provide for you. Men like a challenge. They like to hold their woman on a pedestal. It is much easier for a woman to say "no" and stay pure than it is for men, although men can do it too. Most men admire pure women who hold onto their virginity and integrity.
Don't fall for the lies of society. Women and men are completely different. Women's bodies were made to bare and nurture children. They want a man that will provide and protect them. Men are strong with lots of testosterone and want to provide and protect a worthy woman.
Don't give away our virginity for free. Don't not risk an unwanted pregnancy, abortion, STDs, and heartbreak. Those are NOT sexual freedom. Sexual freedom happens in the confines of a marriage relationship, period. Teach your daughters this while they are young.
Teach them to dress modestly and value their virginity saving it for one man. Teach them that couples cohabit because they are afraid of divorce, yet cohabiting couples divorce much more frequently than those who don't. Teach them the lies of society and the Truth of God's Word. This will lead to their chances of having a much stronger, long lasting marriage that will glorify God.
Marriage should be honored by all,
and the marriage bed kept pure,
for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral.
Hebrews 13:4
