While we were in Wisconsin, I took Emma to an organic farm. There were two baby calves and we enjoyed just watching them. They were so adorable and I could tell that we would get very attached to those two calves as they grew, if we were around. As we were leaving, a big, burly guy was driving a huge truck filled with large cows, probably taking them to be slaughtered.
This got me to thinking. If there were no men in the world, we would all be vegetarians. Women have a hard time not having an emotional attachment to animals and would hate having to slaughter them. When I mentioned this to Erin {my daughter-in-law}, she told me that when her grandmother was a child during the depression, they had a victory garden and raised rabbits for food.
When it was time to slaughter them, her dad would go down the street and change rabbits with their neighbor so they wouldn't have to eat their pet rabbit. When she grew up, she found out that her dad simply went down the street, shook his neighbor's hand, then slaughtered their rabbit. They were eating their pet rabbits all that time! He knew his daughter would never be able to handle the fact that they were eating their pet.
This was just another example to me of the differences between the sexes even though our society likes to blur the lines so much that there is hardly a noticeable difference between the two. From the beginning of time, men have been the hunters and providers while women bore children and took care of the home.
The blurring of the lines between the sexes has caused havoc in our world. Men look like women and women look like men. Men are becoming feminized and homosexuality is becoming more common. Women are becoming more masculine {even fighting in wars} and no longer think they need men. Sexuality is becoming undefined, therefore, children are growing up very sexually confused. Women go off to work and men leave their families. Women have children without husbands and expect the government to take care of them. Children are growing up without fathers. Society is lost and suffering without clearly defined male and female roles.
God established these roles from the very beginning. In fact, they have always existed. God the Father was the authority and the Son submitted to the Father. God made Adam the authority and Eve was to be his help meet, submitting to his authority; clearly defined roles.
Woman's curse was ~ thy desire {to control} shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee {Genesis 3:16}. God's prescription to overcome the curse is ~ Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fit in the Lord. Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them {Colossians 3:18,19}.
It is that simple, women. God created clearly defined roles for a reason. There is peace and harmony in the home when they are followed. Therefore, begin submitting to your husband in everything. Allow him to be the leader of the home, then go eat a piece of meat and thank the good Lord for creating men!
The blurring of the lines between the sexes has caused havoc in our world. Men look like women and women look like men. Men are becoming feminized and homosexuality is becoming more common. Women are becoming more masculine {even fighting in wars} and no longer think they need men. Sexuality is becoming undefined, therefore, children are growing up very sexually confused. Women go off to work and men leave their families. Women have children without husbands and expect the government to take care of them. Children are growing up without fathers. Society is lost and suffering without clearly defined male and female roles.
God established these roles from the very beginning. In fact, they have always existed. God the Father was the authority and the Son submitted to the Father. God made Adam the authority and Eve was to be his help meet, submitting to his authority; clearly defined roles.
Woman's curse was ~ thy desire {to control} shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee {Genesis 3:16}. God's prescription to overcome the curse is ~ Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fit in the Lord. Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them {Colossians 3:18,19}.
It is that simple, women. God created clearly defined roles for a reason. There is peace and harmony in the home when they are followed. Therefore, begin submitting to your husband in everything. Allow him to be the leader of the home, then go eat a piece of meat and thank the good Lord for creating men!
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Robin J Cox · 547 weeks ago
Her husband, on the other hand, kept an entire freezer of game downstairs - venison, etc. He had packages of pork sausages in the fridge. He did eat her vegetarian meals, but he also prepared meat for himself and ate it in her presence and the presence of their children.
She "made" their children into vegetarians, however. I do not know what he thought about this, or how they arrived at this arrangement. I do know that he was aware of her being a vegetarian when they were dating, so I imagine this is something they worked out before they married. They are professing Christians, but have more of an egalitarian marriage.
Sometimes I felt sorry for him because his children had a book entitled, "Why We Don't Eat Animals" in their library, and they often asked me to read it to them. What must they have thought of their daddy while reading this book? Was Daddy cruel for eating animals? It made me laugh, but it also made me sad for the entire situation.
I enjoyed this post because it illustrates the differences between God's roles for men and women. We balance each other in a healthy relationship if we are living it the way God created it to be.
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Colleen · 547 weeks ago
My husband on the other hand says he's just plumping up the pet rabbit for Thanksgiving. I'm 62 percent sure he's kidding... but I wouldn't put it past him.
Desiree · 547 weeks ago
Now that said...I could fish (but not put worms on a hook) and I could kill a fish if I had to. I have done that before. It would not be easy but I could.
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Julie Ann · 547 weeks ago
Also, society is definitely trying to blur gender roles. Even baby girls' names are now trending toward the masculine or androgynous. Btw, I have a theory that if more women stayed home, men would not have to compete with them for jobs, and men would be better able to support their families, like they did in the 50's.
Loving being Mrs. W · 547 weeks ago
However there is no way I could do it!! I would be in tears the whole time!!!
Lori, do you kill ants, snails or cockroaches? I do but I even find that hard at times!!!
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anna mary · 547 weeks ago
I married a man who used to hunt. He would bring home his deer with a huge smile on his face. I would always feel bad for the deer, but would tell my husband how proud I was of him. Then I would help him process the meat. Wasn't my favorite thing to do but it needed done.
If I had to kill to feed my family I think we probably would be vegetarian. Once we had a mouse in our house and my husband killed it. I couldn't even watch that even though I hate mice.
Thank God for men! What a gift they are.
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