Thursday, April 30, 2015

The Richest Couple in America


For nearly a year our daughter lived in a one-room cabin with no running water, no bathroom, and no inside kitchen. She had five children and was pregnant with her sixth. They now have a bathroom, a kitchen, running water, another room added on ~ and their seventh baby! But they still don't have bedrooms or even beds for the children. There's no room for beds. Each night the children take their blankets from the big pile in the corner and make their cozy spot on the floor in the all-purpose room. Is Evangeline a grumbling mess? No! Are the children deprived? No! They all have a wonderful life. She is the most joyful mother in this nation. The children are happy and live adventure-filled lives. Some time ago, some young people gathered together and began to discuss who were the richest people they knew. They all came to the conclusion that Evangeline and Howard were the richest! It had nothing to do with their material possessions. It had all to do with their joy of the Lord and their attitude to life. {Nancy Campbell}

Most people think that the richest couples are those who have careers, fame, fortune, big homes, travel the world, etc. NONE of these things have any eternal value. Children have eternal value. Way too many young couples are putting off children so they can have experiences or things. Experiences and things have NO eternal value. Producing godly offspring has eternal value that can affect our society for good and for God's purposes.

So many women leave their homes and work to give their children stuff and a better life than they had. Children don't need stuff! Their needs are VERY simple. They need a mother and a father who love each other and are committed for life. They need food, shelter and clothing. They need a mother home full-time with them to teach and train them to grow up to be hard-working, disciplined and God-fearing adults. This is what children need.

We have listened to the lies of society. We think our purpose in life is to be comfortable and have an easy life. We think we need to have all the latest iPhones and electronics. We need to have several cars and wide screen televisions. We need the latest and best medical care in the world. We need...we need...we need...It is a never ending cesspool of needs that have NO eternal value.

Our purpose on earth is to glorify God. When we have children and raise them in the nurture and the admonition of the Lord, we are spreading the Gospel and spending our time on eternal things. Stop listening to the lies of the enemy and what you think you need to be happy and begin investing your lives in things that have eternal value, like loving and serving your husband and raising godly offspring.

Has not the one God made you? 
You belong to him in body and spirit. 
And what does the one God seek? Godly offspring.
Malachi 2:15

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I just ordered this book for myself and my 20 year old daughter to read. My daughter is getting married next month to her high school sweetheart. Yesterday she posted a picture of herself trying on a pair of maternity jeans handed down to her from my sister. She is planning on trying to get pregnant on her honeymoon. That photo elicited ALL KINDS of comments about how she should wait to get pregnant. She went to cosmetology school to be a hair stylist but is not working because she knows she wants to get pregnant immediately and start her family and stay home with her children. She has received very little support. Of course me being a SAHM and homeschooler, and my mother being a SAHM keeping children in her home during my childhood, we completely support her decision. We have taught her to live frugally (they purchased a $20,000 2-bedroom home, that is very nice in our small town) and are living with one running vehicle right now as hers needs a new alternator (her fiance works an hour and half a way so he has the car every day). She just walks where she needs to go or borrows my car when I don't need it. I hardly need it because I just walk where I want to go in our small town, too. The world is appalled at their decisions. I am proud of her for being courageous enough to live her life the way she knows is right.
2 replies · active 516 weeks ago
Wonderful comment, Nicole! Thank you. My oldest son was told the same thing, I am sure. However, they "accidentally" got pregnant on their honeymoon and she turned out to be their BEST wedding gift and it was from God, of course. She has been such a huge blessing in all of our lives. I would cheer your daughter on if I knew her!
My husband and I wanted to get pregnant on our honeymoon too. It didn't work out that way, but we wanted to start our family very early on. I wish more people would approach child-bearing the same way.
I've met Evangeline. In fact, she was part of the homeschool group my family was part of when we lived in Tennessee. She was friends with my mom. And it's true that she was always happy and never complained. I remember hearing that they didn't have running water and things were tough for them. But I never heard her speak a cross word about her husband or about her situation.
1 reply · active 517 weeks ago
Thank you for sharing this very special bit of information, Lindsay! It is so wonderful to be around people who don't ever complain and are content in the situation the Lord has put them in. We all need to strive to be this way!

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