Wednesday, April 1, 2015

The Blessings of Tidying Up!


Have you heard of the extremely popular book The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up? A young woman who has always loved to keep things clean and orderly has written a book that she claims is "life-changing!" I definitely don't agree with her religious views but she did teach me some things that I want to share with you. I love learning from many different people! {Of course, God's Truth is my favorite thing.}

First of all, I tried doing her folding clothes and laying them vertically in the drawers' idea. It lasted for a few weeks but was just too impractical for me. However, it helped me to figure out a new arrangement for all of my clothes! First, I did get rid of everything I didn't wear which was about four bags full and gave them away. Then I decided to move everything into my closet so I could dress in one place!

In the picture above, I hang all of my tops which I MUCH prefer to folding them and putting them in a drawer. I have a shelf underneath where I put all of my sweaters, jeans and shorts. I hang my scarves, necklaces and belts on a belt hanger. 


On the other side of the closet, I have a hanging shoe rack that I keep my underwear, bras, socks, and pajamas in. {I did take some of those things out for the picture since I didn't want the world to see them!} I hang up my robes, sweaters, jackets, dresses and pants. At the end of the closet, I have a chair that I can use to sit on if I need it; like when I put on socks or pants. I LOVE having this! I use to have to go all over our bedroom getting things to wear. Now, I have everything I need in my closet.

On her advice about books, I did get rid of about eight bags of books. She made a great point that we rarely read a book more than once. I kept only the books that I thought I would need for reference or I absolutely loved. As you know, I don't like a lot of clutter so I try to get rid of anything that I am not using. I don't mind empty space!

Now, when it comes to decluttering your husband's stuff, don't! I use to but it always made Ken very upset. I wouldn't want someone else throwing out my stuff without asking! What I do now is gather all the things I don't think he wears anymore and put it in a big pile. I let him decide what to keep and what to give away.

Another thing I learned on my own; time yourself when you empty the dishwasher, make your bed, clean up your kitchen, sweep the floors, fold a pile of laundry, etc. It takes me 5 minutes to empty the dishwasher, 1 minute to make my bed, 10 minutes to clean up my kitchen, etc. It's not much time, yet makes a TON of difference to the cleanliness of my home. Whenever I am tired now or feeling too lazy to do something, I remember how little time it takes to tidy up my home!

The soul of the sluggard craves and gets nothing, 
while the soul of the diligent is richly supplied.
Proverbs 13:4

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You are teaching me so much about keeping an orderly home! I am working on keeping a tidy home. It's slowly but surely getting there. And like just about everything you teach, it's all about discipline. Timing your actiities is a great way to release the laziness. If you truly think how little time it takes, you can do so much. Also, a commenter mentioned the other day how her quiet time cleaning allows her to speak with God. That struck a cord with me. I see that as maybe being part of the reason God asks us to keep busy in the home with what can seem a little mondane. Thanks so much!! I am going to time my chores.
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You're welcome, Mbb! Yes, realizing how little time it actually took to keep my home clean and tidy has helped a lot mentally to just do it!
Marie Kondo's book just arrived in the mail yesterday and I read it about halfway already. I don't have a lot of clutter and tidying and simplifying is in my blood, but I love to be 'preached to' about the benefits of practices I perform. I also enjoy others' perspectives and ways they go about tidying and simplifying. It's encouraging to keep on keepin' on!

I love your tidy closet, Lori, and was blessed by your sharing it. It was further encouragement of diligence, home-blessing, and the benefits of order and hard work. Good job!

Hugs for Holy Week,
Kelley~
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Thanks, Kelley! I also love to learn from others what has worked for them. There's always more to learn!
I love the idea of hanging everything up and keeping it all in one place! Thank you for the inspiration!
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It's so much easier for me to just hang everything up instead of put things in drawers. It also helps them from getting wrinkled as much!
Placing all of your clothes in one area is a great idea! I never would have thought of that.

I learned the hard way never to declutter my husband's things. I love to purge, simplify and organize. While he certainly isn't sloppy and enjoys our clean home himself, he tends to keep a lot more than I would. He does not like me going through his belongings and will dig through all the goodwill bags to make sure nothing is in there that he wants! It'd drive me crazy. Then I remember, it's his house too, he works hard and is an amazing husband and father. Our bedroom is spotless, except his dresser area where there's always clothes piled up, sometimes even on the floor. I just let it go since he prefers me to leave his area alone. I do all his laundry, but he actually prefers me to leave the clean clothes on the bed for him to put wherever he wants. Then I dust and vacuum around everything. He is much happier this way. He still, on occasion, will go through the donation bags even when it's just old toys, books, my old clothes, etc. I try and remember that at least he's resourceful, wise with money and doesn't waste. But it still bugs me at times.

About daily chores, something that helps me is I pray while doing the chores. Folding my husband's laundry... I pray for him. Same for my daughter. Or I listen to Christian or classical music and it makes it go by so much easier.
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Yes, praying is a great idea, Katie, and thanking the Lord for the many blessings we do have; clean and hot water, washing machines, vacuums, etc. So much!
Yes! I enjoyed the ideas I got from that book too! I got it at the library. I did like the idea of getting rid of things that did not "give me joy". It was a new an interesting way to look at letting go of clutter.
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That was a bit hard for me, Jodi. I did keep some things that didn't bring me "joy" just because I wear them for walking in or something that I don't need a nice shirt for.
This was a wonderful spring cleaning post, Thank You!
I want to share a short 2 min Easter video I found on youtube about Christ with you, Lori. I thought you would enjoy it since it puts the focus on Christ, who is the true reason to celebrate Easter.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BZqTRSVA1YA
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Thank you for sharing, Jessa! I just finished my post for Easter. It's an easy and fun holiday to write for, that is for sure!
Smiling here as I just finished tidying my cupboard tonight - now if I can just figure out where all the missing socks go to!
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Do all people in Australia {if that is where you are from} call a closet a cupboard? Someone else used that word and it sounded like they were talking about a closet!
I'm in South Africa :) and the word closet is not generally used by us. We have kitchen cupboards, bedroom cupboards etc
I hang all my clothes in the cupboard and tops are hung by colour so if I want red I only need to look in the red section. It makes looking for clothes much easier and faster. An orderly house makes life go so much more smoothly:) and as you say, many household tasks only take minutes and make all the differences .
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Yes, you just answered the question I asked Wendy, Jo. Australians must call closets cupboards. I never knew that before!
Yes we do - no closets in my home!!!!
Thank you Lori for this motivating post. I love being organised and regularly declutter our possessions. I was delighted that our library bought this book after my request. I did glean some ideas from Marie Kondo. I too tried her technique of folding which I didn't think I'd like - change after all this time of folding my particular way but so far I'm still sticking with hers. It looks particularly nice with seasonal clothes because they're not disturbed every day. (Years ago I started organising by colour which really makes a difference too.) Like you I much prefer hanging clothes and I love how you have everything in the one area. Thank you for your photos and just by mentioning how many bags of items you eliminated is so inspiring. Woohoo, stimulation for me to tackle my wardrobes again. Your writings are very much appreciated. THANKS!
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You're welcome, Linda! I found with the folding in drawers idea that when there weren't enough clothes in the drawer, the clothes would fall over. It was just too time-consuming and not convenient for me.
I'm from Australia too Lori and generally the taller stand-alone pieces of furniture - 'cupboards' (closets) for hanging clothes we call wardrobes. ( And separate 'chest of drawers' we sometimes call 'tallboys'.) A walk-in closet as part of a room we would probably call the bedroom "walk-in 'robe" (short for wardrobe) or if they aren't walk-in but just built-in, we might call them built-in wardrobes or built-in cupboards. But I think different parts of Australia may label furniture differently. It's a big place, varied and beautiful!!!

(Thanks for your above reply. Yes I too find some stacks of clothing topple over if the drawer isn't full. I can understand that problem.)

Thanks again for all your posts.
I've done this for years. All my clothes except socks and underwear get hung up in my closet. When we moved this time, i did the same with my husband's clothes. It made it easier to purge clothes that were out of fashion, didn't fit, were too beat up (like my husband's jeans) and make room for new clothing. Also, for every one article of clothing or shoes I bring in, I get rid of two. My wardrobe has three sections. Casual "play" clothes, work clothes and Sunday/formal clothes. The rest of my house is the same way. Ruthless purging regularly. It doesn't hurt that we move every couple of years so I have to keep the house contents so that they will fit inside a 22' truck.

The hardest part is to be ruthless. At first that was hard for me, but now it's second nature. The last time we moved, I went ahead to start working. I could fit all my clothes, shoes, make up and hair stuff in the back of my Mustang (which doesn't have a whole lot of room).
This is hard for me. I love to get rid of stuff - my husband not so much. He does donate things every once in a while but he has such a great volume. He probably has 300 shirts, 45 pair of shoes, etc.
Blessings -yes! I'm slowly learning to keep house. I'm 54, and my poor mother tried so hard, but I just rebelled. Of my 2 girls, one followed in my footsteps, and 1 rebelled against me and is tidy.
Thanks for this post.

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