Have you heard of the extremely popular book The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up? A young woman who has always loved to keep things clean and orderly has written a book that she claims is "life-changing!" I definitely don't agree with her religious views but she did teach me some things that I want to share with you. I love learning from many different people! {Of course, God's Truth is my favorite thing.}
First of all, I tried doing her folding clothes and laying them vertically in the drawers' idea. It lasted for a few weeks but was just too impractical for me. However, it helped me to figure out a new arrangement for all of my clothes! First, I did get rid of everything I didn't wear which was about four bags full and gave them away. Then I decided to move everything into my closet so I could dress in one place!
In the picture above, I hang all of my tops which I MUCH prefer to folding them and putting them in a drawer. I have a shelf underneath where I put all of my sweaters, jeans and shorts. I hang my scarves, necklaces and belts on a belt hanger.
On the other side of the closet, I have a hanging shoe rack that I keep my underwear, bras, socks, and pajamas in. {I did take some of those things out for the picture since I didn't want the world to see them!} I hang up my robes, sweaters, jackets, dresses and pants. At the end of the closet, I have a chair that I can use to sit on if I need it; like when I put on socks or pants. I LOVE having this! I use to have to go all over our bedroom getting things to wear. Now, I have everything I need in my closet.
On her advice about books, I did get rid of about eight bags of books. She made a great point that we rarely read a book more than once. I kept only the books that I thought I would need for reference or I absolutely loved. As you know, I don't like a lot of clutter so I try to get rid of anything that I am not using. I don't mind empty space!
Now, when it comes to decluttering your husband's stuff, don't! I use to but it always made Ken very upset. I wouldn't want someone else throwing out my stuff without asking! What I do now is gather all the things I don't think he wears anymore and put it in a big pile. I let him decide what to keep and what to give away.
Another thing I learned on my own; time yourself when you empty the dishwasher, make your bed, clean up your kitchen, sweep the floors, fold a pile of laundry, etc. It takes me 5 minutes to empty the dishwasher, 1 minute to make my bed, 10 minutes to clean up my kitchen, etc. It's not much time, yet makes a TON of difference to the cleanliness of my home. Whenever I am tired now or feeling too lazy to do something, I remember how little time it takes to tidy up my home!
The soul of the sluggard craves and gets nothing,
while the soul of the diligent is richly supplied.
Proverbs 13:4
Mbb · 521 weeks ago
Lori Alexander 122p · 521 weeks ago
Kelley · 521 weeks ago
I love your tidy closet, Lori, and was blessed by your sharing it. It was further encouragement of diligence, home-blessing, and the benefits of order and hard work. Good job!
Hugs for Holy Week,
Kelley~
Lori Alexander 122p · 521 weeks ago
Amy · 521 weeks ago
Lori Alexander 122p · 521 weeks ago
Katie · 521 weeks ago
I learned the hard way never to declutter my husband's things. I love to purge, simplify and organize. While he certainly isn't sloppy and enjoys our clean home himself, he tends to keep a lot more than I would. He does not like me going through his belongings and will dig through all the goodwill bags to make sure nothing is in there that he wants! It'd drive me crazy. Then I remember, it's his house too, he works hard and is an amazing husband and father. Our bedroom is spotless, except his dresser area where there's always clothes piled up, sometimes even on the floor. I just let it go since he prefers me to leave his area alone. I do all his laundry, but he actually prefers me to leave the clean clothes on the bed for him to put wherever he wants. Then I dust and vacuum around everything. He is much happier this way. He still, on occasion, will go through the donation bags even when it's just old toys, books, my old clothes, etc. I try and remember that at least he's resourceful, wise with money and doesn't waste. But it still bugs me at times.
About daily chores, something that helps me is I pray while doing the chores. Folding my husband's laundry... I pray for him. Same for my daughter. Or I listen to Christian or classical music and it makes it go by so much easier.
Lori Alexander 122p · 521 weeks ago
Jodi · 521 weeks ago
Lori Alexander 122p · 521 weeks ago
Jessa · 521 weeks ago
I want to share a short 2 min Easter video I found on youtube about Christ with you, Lori. I thought you would enjoy it since it puts the focus on Christ, who is the true reason to celebrate Easter.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BZqTRSVA1YA
Lori Alexander 122p · 521 weeks ago
wendytamaryoung 37p · 521 weeks ago
Lori Alexander 122p · 521 weeks ago
wendytamaryoung 37p · 521 weeks ago
Jo · 521 weeks ago
Lori Alexander 122p · 521 weeks ago
Jo · 521 weeks ago
Linda · 521 weeks ago
Lori Alexander 122p · 521 weeks ago
Linda · 521 weeks ago
(Thanks for your above reply. Yes I too find some stacks of clothing topple over if the drawer isn't full. I can understand that problem.)
Thanks again for all your posts.
retirednavywife 39p · 521 weeks ago
The hardest part is to be ruthless. At first that was hard for me, but now it's second nature. The last time we moved, I went ahead to start working. I could fit all my clothes, shoes, make up and hair stuff in the back of my Mustang (which doesn't have a whole lot of room).
Chris · 520 weeks ago
purpleslobinrecovery 31p · 508 weeks ago
Thanks for this post.