Tuesday, March 31, 2015

The Sphere of a Woman's Life


Women get bored at home. Being in the workforce, for many women, is much more exciting and fulfilling for them than being home cooking, cleaning, shopping, raising children, etc. Therefore, Satan created lies for women to believe and drove women out of their homes, thus destroying the family unit. Here is what John MacArthur had to say about this ~ ~

Women don't want to be workers at home. Why? Because Satan sells the system on that. Why? Because it's anti-God, anti-Christ, anti-Bible and it devastates the testimony of the church. 

The word "workers at home," one word in the Greek, oikourgos, from two root words, ergon, which means work, and oikos which means house. It's simply the sphere of a woman's life is her home, that's her domain. It doesn't mean she has to be there 24 hours a day and can never leave. I'm not saying that because you don't want to lock her up with soap operas either, but what it does mean is that is the sphere of her life; that is her domain. It is not that she is simply to be home, but that the home is her sphere. 

The woman in Proverbs 31 left home when she needed to to buy a field, she left home to prepare that field, she left home and went afar to find things that would help the family. The woman did what she needed to do but the focus of everything was the home. And that's where she poured her life and she got up early and she went to bed late for the sake of the home. She is to be a home keeper; the sphere of her responsibility, her place of employment, where she should pour her life. 

For a mother to get a job outside the home and send the children to some kind of daycare place is to shirk her God-given responsibility. It also is failure to understand that her husband is to be the provider, as Ephesians 5 makes very clear. Even if you wanted to work outside the home to pay for your children to go to a Christian school, you made a big mistake. Better that you should stay in the home and raise your own children to be godly then to pass it on to somebody else.

Teach young women to be...keepers at home.
Titus 2:3-5

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Amen, and kudos to John MacArthur for his courage and honesty!!
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Yes, it's very rare to find a pastor that is so bold! Voddie Baucham is also.
Can I ask for prayers that my husband's heart would be softened to this idea and sit down with me to figure out how to make it happen in our lives? We just found out we are expecting #2 and it was so hard to send our 1st to daycare every day. I can't imagine how I'll do it a second time. Thank you.
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Yes, I will pray that your husband's heart will be softened, Krystal. It's very unfortunate that even Christian men insist their wives work outside of the home. Learn to live as simply and frugally as possible and make a gentle appeal to your husband, then pray like crazy!
Thank you!
Praying for you Krystal. I will also pray that God will soften your husband's heart to be receptive to what you want to say.
As an older woman, who like Lori cares so much for the younger women of today, I worked at a day care when my children grew up as vacation replacement. It broke my heart to see these children crying for their mommies every day. This was a christian home but still she couldn't replace the parents. I had to quit because I just couldn't handle seeing the kids suffer all the time. I pray that you can keep your kids away from going.
Thank you! Means a lot to me!
I prayed for you this morning, Krystal, and that God will show your husband what is best for your family and begin a work in his heart. Praying that you don't lose heart and that the joy of The Lord will give you strength. Hang in there!
You women are rock stars! Thank you for helping me keep the faith that it could someday become a reality!
Praying for you as well Krystal. God bless you and your family
Hubby and I had agreed to home educate the children, so as they got older, it became a bit obvious to him that someone had to, er, be home. How happy was I when he asked me, "Do you have to go back [to work]?" It has been really scary and hairy at times, but looking back I can see that God did miracles for us. Our ds has decided not to go to secondary school, so we are continuing to home ed.
I appreciate John Mac Arthur and his words. Never thought of my home as my sphere. It makes sense.
Now, if you ask my children they will say that I am a bit mad (British sense of humour, not disrespect) Perhaps they are right because I am not bored at home. So, Lori, what am I doing wrong here?
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That "bored at home" comment always makes me scratch my head. I have no idea how people can be bored at home. There is so much to do (and you don't even have to be creative). There is cooking, raising babies, homemaking, hobbies, work from home opportunities, volunteering, Bible studies, fellowshipping, gardening, sewing, budgeting etc. etc. There is more to do at home than the repetition of so many jobs. Job descriptions usually fit within a couple of paragraphs and are specialized to certain skill sets but home making is everything.
The problem with modern women is that they think their feelings matter. They don't! They should do as God commanded.
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This is so timely, Betsy, as we are in the Easter season. Jesus said, 'Not my will , but Thine." But we don't want to follow him. Ouch!

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