Apparently more men want children than women do today. Feminism has worked. Children are no longer wanted. I actually shed some tears when I read When Men Want Kids and Women Aren't So Sure. It breaks my heart that society has come to this. Women would rather be able to read a book, have a career, and have hobbies over raising precious children. Our four children have been our greatest source of joy on this earth.
The article states, "Lauren is part of a growing cohort of women: those in their late 20s and early 30s who aren't sure about - or are decidedly against- becoming mothers. In a nationally representative survey of single, childless people in 2011, more men than women said they wanted kids. On the other hand, more women reported seeking independence in their relationships, personal space, interests, and hobbies."
This article talked about how most marriages are egalitarian marriages where they share the responsibilities and there is no leader but, of course, more of the responsibility of the home and child raising falls on the women. I wonder why??? No matter how far away our society gets from God's principles, you can still see glimpses of them sometimes because this is how we were created; in His image.
Thank you, mothers, who are sacrificing your bodies, your time, your talents, and your hobbies to raise precious children for the Lord. Thank you for not going along with what society is doing and coming home, if you can, to raise your babies in the nurture and the admonition of the Lord. Thank you for taking the home and childcare responsibilities seriously and being a help meet to your husband. Thank you so very much for honoring and obeying God's principles.
You are lights in a dark world. You bring hope to a lost world. Your impact is gigantic. You are raising the next godly generation of soldiers for the Lord. NEVER think that changing another diaper, folding another load of laundry, fixing another meal and then cleaning up is worthless.
Remember these words by Nancy Leigh DeMoss, "Jesus sanctified work, hard work, manual work, grunt work, mundane work, routine work done to the glory of God...Work is a great thing; it's a beautiful thing done for the glory of God. It's an assignment from God to glorify Him here on this earth."
Your work is to raise godly offspring for the Lord {if you are blessed with them}, keep a neat and tidy home, fix nourishing food, and most importantly, be a help meet to your husband {if you are married}.
I just want to thank you again, women, from the bottom of my heart. May God bless you abundantly! You are doing a mighty job and one day these verses will be said about you ~
She looketh well to the ways of her household,
and eateth not the bread of idleness.
Her children arise up,
and call her blessed;
her husband also, and he praiseth her.
Many daughters have done virtuously,
but thou excellest them all.
Proverbs 31:27-29
Lady Virtue · 523 weeks ago
Lori Alexander 122p · 523 weeks ago
2happy4 66p · 523 weeks ago
But with as sad as the childless by choice folks are, in one way I am glad they are not having them. I think it is regrettable but then I think people with self centered principles would not do a good job of raising children anyway and it is probably better that we have their genes die off anyway. I apologize for the morbidity of that. So in a couple of generations I can see where those who valued children and had lots of them will actually be the ones who run the world. Perhaps some of this worldly "wisdom" will die off in a generation or so.
Lori Alexander 122p · 523 weeks ago
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christine · 523 weeks ago
As an older woman, I will continue to encourage those younger women that I know to press on! Because of you Lori, today, I will send encouragement to several young mothers that I know.
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Anna Mary · 523 weeks ago
As a child I remember loving to play with baby dolls. I took them everywhere. In my teens I was the only girl in school who asked for bath towels, dishes, etc. for Christmas to put in an old trunk I called my hope chest.
When I left for college I was 18, unwed and 5 months pregnant. I didn't want to go to college but what I heard from the women around me was children are cute but they are a burden. You should be more than "just" a mother. A woman needed a career for a back up plan. She should find a career where she can have the best of both worlds. I didn't want that. The men around me were no better. I was told that a woman needed to have a job to "earn her keep."
I remember being in my early twenties happily married to my husband (yes we did get married and he is the father of all my children) with 2 beautiful little girls at that time and writing in a notebook this sentence. "What is wrong with me that I just want to be a wife and a mother?" Even though I was so happy everyone was telling me I was wrong to stay home with my babies. Makes me sad to see my 21 year old daughter being told the same lies by women today.
I turned 40 recently and 6 months ago gave birth to my 9th baby. How wonderful my 40th birthday was with a new baby, 8 other children, a wonderful son in law and an adorable grandson to celebrate with me.
Motherhood is so precious and I have never regretted my decision to stay home and dedicate my life to my family. I am saddened that the world thinks so little of it.
Lori Alexander 122p · 523 weeks ago
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Anthea · 523 weeks ago
I went to the article. The comments were sadder than the original piece. So many angry women, suspicious of men and their motives! So many of them made anti-male comments, asserting that men would not want to have babies so badly if they "had to" get pregnant, have morning sickness etc etc... They are wrong -- we GET TO have babies, give birth etc. See, look what a difference a little modifying verb makes?
I felt a little sorry for my husband when our babies moved inside and he couldn't feel it. He never got to feel that weird gurgling sensation when the milk flows out during a feed. He never got to feel a warm little hand resting on the breast as the baby steadies himself.
There is a tragic resistance to life-affirming attitudes. It goes further than having a child or not, because these women are already in relationships that deny the life of a united home. I did notice that a lot of them were shacking up with their boyfriends, as if he is only in their lives on a trial basis. Denying the warmth of Christ-like interdependence is anti-life in itself. Jesus did say that our words and deeds come from the "abundance of a man's heart".
PS Your posts on homemaking have inspired me to greater efforts. Hopefully my family will see a difference!
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Rosebud1 · 523 weeks ago
I had the opportunity along with my siblings to nurse my mother through hospice care. Would a pet be capable of doing that?
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Roxy · 523 weeks ago
Motherhood is the toughest and yet has the greatest rewards in this entire world...
Thank you for all the hard truths you teach!
Roxy
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