Monday, March 9, 2015

A Clean Home is a Pretty Home


Have you ever noticed that it doesn't matter how beautifully decorated a home is, how large it is, how many modern appliances it has, or how much money is spent on it if it is a messy home? These things are not what make a home beautiful. It is a clean home that makes it pretty.

"Disorder is actually defined as a breach of peace...bringing order to any home would also bring peace. Simplicity is key to creating order in your home." (Cyndy Salzmann) "For God is not the author of confusion but of peace" (1 Corinthians 14:35).

Several years ago, I decided we needed another cat. We had one and we knew it needed a friend. I found kittens on Craigslist so I went to pick one up. To get to this kitten, I had to drive into a gated community of large, gorgeous homes. The home that I went to, however, was absolutely filthy and smelly!!! Yes, the mother had a few small children but this was SO bad. 

She had all the modern appliances, gorgeous floors, and furniture but it was cluttered and ugly. She showed me the bathroom where the kittens were and there was pee pee and poo poo all over the floor! It was so disgusting. I should have known right then and there that this was NOT the kitten for us. However, I held one of the smelly, little black ones and brought it home. 

Of course, it pee peed all over my furniture. I hated thinking of taking it to the pound so I tried SO hard to train it to not go on my furniture. Well guess what, she is trained now and never goes anywhere except her kitty litter, thankfully. Cat pee is WAY too smelly to have to put up with for long and can destroy a home.

Several years before this, we needed a new mattress. Yes, I know you aren't supposed to buy used mattresses but I thought if I could find a good price on one that came from a clean home, it would be worth it. It was just for a spare bedroom anyway; my oldest son's room after he moved out. I went to pick up the mattress that I found on Craigslist. It was in a poor section of town in a small apartment. The apartment building was unkempt. 

However, when I went into the apartment of the people who had the mattress, I quickly noticed that the place was spotless! It was a owned by a lovely Christian couple expecting their first baby, a candle was lit, and her home was beautiful. The mattress didn't have a spot on it and it is the MOST comfortable mattress in our home!

As you can see in the picture above, I don't have granite counter tops or stainless steel appliances which I don't care about at all.* I love my kitchen and I know I am blessed. However, it ALWAYS looks better when it is clean and tidy. My Mom and Dad lived in a condemned building when they first got married, but she kept it neat and tidy and made it into a home.

I've started making sure my kitchen is clean every night before I go to bed. What a difference this has made! I love waking up to a clean kitchen. It helps me to keep it cleaner throughout the day and I clean as I cook. I make my bed every morning. (A lot of the time, I neatly fold the covers back so the sheets air all day!)

 If you have children, they don't need a ton of toys. Teach them from a very young age to pick up after themselves and put what they use away. Teach them to keep their rooms tidy. The more habits you can train them to do when they are young, the easier it will be for them when they grow up. Also, keep your car from gathering clutter. I like my cars clutter-free as I do my home. The less clutter and stuff, the easier it is to keep clean!

God is a God of beauty and order. We should strive to have order, because when there is order, there is beauty, no matter how humble your home; NOT looking for perfection or being spotless, just clean and tidy!

He has made everything beautiful in its time. 
Ecclesiastes 3:11

*(UPDATE 4/7/18: Since writing this post, we did have granite counter tops installed because our sink was completely rusted out and leaking with mold under the sink. The counter tops were cracked in a few places and our stove top wasn't working. We still don't have stainless steel appliances, however, except for the stove top because I just don't like them and the appliances we have now work fine, except our dishwasher is broken so I am washing the dishes by hand which I don't mind at all!) 

More posts in my Home Series.

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Oh I just love it when you post on cleanliness/order etc!! This reminded me a bit of an article I read quite some time ago but it TOTALLY changed my perspective when I was going through some discontentment with my home a few years back. I come back to this article when ever I start feeling discontented or if I've been watching too much HGTV!! I will leave the link here:
http://www.memoriesoncloverlane.com/2014/03/40-da...
1 reply · active 524 weeks ago
This is a great reminder to many, I always told our children that it is not as much what they have, but what they do with it, or how they take care of what they have that matters, you just restated that.
1 reply · active 524 weeks ago
Love this. I feel like if I can manage to keep a home Roddy the majority of the time with 4 young children now 5 and under and going through a pregnancy then most people can. I think it's about forming habits and then it becomes easier. I make our bed everyday. I love our master bedroom to be spotless. Then after every meal I have the kids stay at the table and talk/play/finish reading and sometimes whining until I get all of the dishes from that meal washed or put in the dishwasher. I LOVE a clean kitchen. I have the kids make sure all the toys are picked up before lunch and before supper. Having these habits have really helped. Our 2, 4 and 5 year old also have daily chores. We were not planning on our 2 - year - old having chores, but he felt left out that his brother and sister help and he didn't. He now feeds the dogs and helps big brother open/close all of the drapes in our house on the morning and night.
1 reply · active 524 weeks ago
I completely agree with this. A home doesn't have to be updated or have the finest things to be a nice, pretty home. Cleanliness and order make all the difference. But it's definitely been a learned discipline for me. It takes an orderly, disciplined mind to have an orderly home. I've never been great at it, but it is very important to my husband so I've had to get good at it. It's been like building a muscle. But I'm getting better and it definitely makes for a more peaceful existence and one that I'm more proud of. Having dirt and clutter makes me feel anxious and like I'm never caught up.
1 reply · active 524 weeks ago
I totally agree! But what about those who didn't grow up being taught this and struggle with it so much? (Me, ha!) My mom was orderly, but we were too busy for her to teach me the skills. My room was always totally trashed. Can we have more practical posts on this? Thanks Lori!
3 replies · active 523 weeks ago
Your home is lovely, Lori! I agree with your thoughts. It doesn't take much money to keep things clean.
1 reply · active 524 weeks ago
Clutter puts me in a bad mood and causes a lot of stress. I have to work on being diligent because things can get out of hand so easily! Every once in a while I pull everything out of a room and only put back the things we need and can fit orderly in the room. I then throw or give away the other things. I look forward to the warmer weather coming so I can do more decluttering! It's a constant process with little ones in the house.
1 reply · active 524 weeks ago
thank you for this post Lori, I love the photo of your kitchen too!.

Blessings
Helen UK
1 reply · active 524 weeks ago
Great post, Lori! We recently moved from a large 3 bedroom, 2 bathroom home to an older little 1 bedroom, 1 bathroom to help us get out of debt faster, and while I was not a fan at first, it's become my favorite place that we've lived! We had to pick only our very favorite items to use, so everything is special to us, and I am continuously purging the clutter to keep toys and junk from taking over. It can get chaotic and messy very quickly with a toddler on the loose, but it's also quick to clean!
1 reply · active 524 weeks ago
Oh Lori, I love this post so much! A clean, organized home is essential to me being a good wife and mom. I won't go to bed until my house is straightened up, the kitchen is clean, and I have vacuumed and swept the main living areas. I also do a load of laundry every day to keep caught up. The amazing thing is that it doesn't take that long to clean up! 15 minutes or so to transform the main living area from a pig stye into a comfortable place. I believe the spirit can dwell in our home more comfortably when it is orderly. I'd rather have a small, outdated CLEAN home than a custom home that is filthy, any day!
2 replies · active 524 weeks ago
I'm going to go clean something right now!
1 reply · active 524 weeks ago
A clean house is a stress free house. I just couldn’t live in mess or chaos, it would drive me spare. In fact I only wrote about this the other day in a blog post called “Do you need help” because I do think many women do need training in this area as they weren’t taught by their mothers. And like you, I never go to bed with a dirty kitchen because there is nothing worse than waking up to a messy dirty kitchen, it is so depressing. I also straighten up all the pillows in the lounge room and give it a general tidy up before turning off the lights at nights. And once you do this regularly, it becomes second nature and makes keeping one’s home clean and tidy a lot easier.
2 replies · active 524 weeks ago
Very encouraging post! I'd love to see more of your lovely home. I always think of Micah 2:9 when I think about how God feels about our homes. He is condemning the wicked people of Israel and God says amongst other bad things these people do, "You drive the women of my people from their pleasant homes." I realize that God cares that we keep pleasant homes and delights in our keeping them.
1 reply · active 524 weeks ago
hi lori,
I really enjoy your blog...and I really enjoy order and no clutter! but, I have a small problem...my dear hubby does not mind clutter and tends to collect waaaaay too many tools, clothes, ink pens, church bulletins(I know!!! lol) you name it, he can't part with it :-( drives me crazy and if I say anything or even plead in a submitting way(ha!) it still causes turmoil between us. I really try not to say anything but some days I feel it ALL closing in on me! we are gonna have to build another house to hold it all! and, my mom passes away a year ago...her house is empty now waiting for Medicaid to decide how the estate will be settled...and, guess what??? Dear hubby has filled her basement with his things also...oh dear, any suggestions for me that won't lead to a divorce?! thanks lori :-)
3 replies · active 524 weeks ago
Thank you! This is just the inspiration I need for today.
1 reply · active 524 weeks ago
Hi Lori, I love this post. I am a very clean person by nature and can't stand clutter. I have just finished up working full time and am now a stay at home wife. Wouldn't you know it the first week at home I have caught the flu! when you don't have much clutter though it is easy enough to stay on top of things with a quick 15-30min clean each day and then I can rest knowing everything is clean.
Its still a huge adjustment going from working full time to being at home but the encouragement I get from your blog is really helping with the transition. thank you so much Lori!
2 replies · active 524 weeks ago
I live in a fairly large house. We have the basic furniture, however our garage is EMPTY (except for the cars), there is NOTHING extra in my house. I purge regularly. A rule of thumb is for every item brought in two have to go out. I detest clutter in any way, shape or form. I keep the house straight during the week and take Saturday mornings to clean up. Now that my son and his family have moved in, they help out too. I refuse to have a nasty home. I grew up in one (my mother was a hoarder) and I won't live in one ever again.
I love waking up to a clean kitchen! It's so funny how something so seemingly insignificant can make such a huge impact on the start of your day.
Loved this post as usual! :) I linked to it on my blog. I have a decent sized readership and hope that by sharing some of your links, women can read some of the beautiful truth you share here! Thank you for always loving, encouraging, and admonishing us, your sisters in Christ. You are appreciated much!
1 reply · active 524 weeks ago
I really like this. I, too, have to have a clean kitchen before going to bed or else the next day starts off bad. I even blogged about my "house of order." I have a long way to go to keeping it like it was, but I like the results! Following you and your beautiful blog.
Hello Lori! Thank you for this post. Your reminders are always so timely. Please give my some suggestions how to battle my mental overwhelm, laziness, unwillingness (I don't know what to call it, really) when I am dealing with the deadlines at the office and my work schedule becomes out of balance. 10-12 hour days at the office + commute affect my spirit and my homekeeping skills. Although, I work 3 days a week, I still get so overwhelmed. I find myself tires mentally and physically. Basically, while I am still employed I want to keep work in its proper place and I make all sort of schedules, but they all get blown to the wind under looming deadlines. And since my position is deadline driven I am constantly under this pressure. I must say that when I am at work I have someone watching my children and keep my home tidy. On those days that I am home, it's my responsibility to keep my home and I am not doing a good job at it. Also, my hubby runs his own business and doesn't get home until 9 or 10. Please offer any practical guidance or words of encouragement. I am ending this crazy race at the end of June but until then I need to create a semblance of balance in my life. Thanks for all you do!
1 reply · active 524 weeks ago
Wonderful post, Lori. I truly believe this and have got to get all of our weekend doings cleared away! I will be featuring your post in this week's A Return to Loveliness,
Kathy
First time reading your blog and I love this post. What's super funny is when my kitchen and main room are clean I feel so much better. My mood and attitude are so different. Thanks for the great reminders. I have been slacking and I bet that's a good reason I wake up already moody 😄.

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