Thursday, December 8, 2011

Sensitivity To Sin


One woman commented that the wedding dance between my daughter and her new husband was inappropriate.  Wow!  I was shocked.  I watched it again to see if maybe it was inappropriate.  Nope, the 20th time of watching it, I thought it was romantic and wonderful.

I always want to stay very sensitive to sin.  Our society, mostly television, has a way of desensitizing us to it.  We watch a little bit here and a little bit there and soon we're watching a lot of junk.  I even read some blogs today of Christian women loving the Victoria Secret Christmas Show.  That was sad for me.

Inappropriate dancing to me are some of the dances on Dancing With The Stars...immodest clothing and sexy moves.  So You Think You Can Dance has some pretty risque dancing also.  I stopped watching both of them for that reason.  But watching a newly married couple dancing to Frank Sinatra's "Come Fly With Me" and waltzing around in their wedding clothes, now that is appropriate dancing in my eyes.

We must always be sensitive to sin and what constitutes sin.  All dancing is not sin or God would not have mentioned dancing in the Bible.  But I always want to be sensitive to the Spirit, because His prodding in me plus knowing Scripture helps me discern what is good and what is evil.

The Bible compares baby Christians to mature Christians and the sign of  mature Christians are those that are of full age, even those who by reason of use have their senses exercised to discern both good and evil.  {Hebrews 6:14}

So grow in your faith.  Walk in the Spirit.  Spend time in His Word.  Pray.  God is faithful and will convict you of sin and righteousness.  Rest in that.  Rest in your convictions.  Most of all, love God and others earnestly!

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Would you think this particular dance would be appropriate for a dating couple or is the dance deemed okay because they are married and headed for their honeymoon? Just curious as to your thoughts. :)
Wow. I think some Christians need to read the book of Ecclesiastes where it especially reminds us to let our words be few.... and also that the man who truly fears the Lord will avoid all extremes. The enemy is in the extremes. This is why so many unbelievers refuse to believe in a loving God- because so many Christians are busy criticizing and judging instead of loving and glorifying. Just my humble opinion.
aww! they're such sweeties! I love the pure joy in her face. and not to mention the man is SMILING while dancing! I think it's absolutely WONDERFUL! <3
I thought that dance was positively delightful. I hope you didn't let that comment impact you. Facts are facts...there are some nutters out there. =)
I thought it was precious! They were both beaming. I do want to know how they were able to do all of those moves if they'd never danced with each other before! Did they practice with someone else beforehand? I'm impressed!
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Alyssa is a professional ballerina so she taught Jon. He was a great student!
I was a member of a church as a teenager that condemned all dancing. They were wrong. I agree with you.
Blessings,
Charlotte
I am with Dawn. That was one of the nicest, most G-rated wedding dances ever! What a joyful dance between husband and wife. I have better things to worry about than a newly married couple dancing, and sweetly at that. The nitpicking is what kept me away from Christ for 22 years and continues to keep many of my family and coworkers away. I'd rather spend my time being relational and explaining Christ's redemption than nitpicking. Tell them to do an encore. ;-)
Lovely!
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Different Sarah · 694 weeks ago

I agree with the comments in praise of the lovely dance. It's interesting to me, however, the sentiment "some people are so judgmental, can you believe their narrow view?!"... when so many of Lori's views appear narrow and judgmental as well. No doubt the woman who criticized the dance believed her opinion was the Biblically supported one.
I think we can come desensitized to certain things too...subtly we start to think things are okay that used to be called sin. It is too bad though that this woman spoke so criticallly of your daugter's wedding dance. Sad, isnt it. Knowing our OWN hearts is what is important...what God speaks to US about...I hope you are able to not let a few words of judgement ruin the joy of your daughter's wedding dance..
My mother-in-law often quoted, "What is that to thee, follow thou me." I think in the things we differ in that is a good practice. Practicing that has allowed me to envelop friends with confidence in their walk with God whether each belief is identical or not. And also the verse, "By their fruits we shall know them" comes to mind. Lori, your fruits are abundant!
This dance looks fine to me, certainly not sinful. However, this post does remind me how blurry the lines can sometimes get. While your daughter looks lovely, many conservative Christians would not think spaghetti straps and a lower cut in the front would be particularly appropriate or modest, especially since the eyes of many other many young men besides her husband were presumably on her and such bareness of skin could cause them to stumble. How do we know where to draw the line?
Actually, you mean Hebrews 5:14, not 6:14.

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